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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I like it tight! Do you think I should only go for virgins?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi,this question might sound funny,but it's troubling me so much.I've had sexual experience when i was very young and it felt so good,now i'm in my mid twenties and all the girls i've dated in my adult life are loose,even my present girl's pussy is ...

Should I break my own hymen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - So yesterday while masturbating I felt my hymen and I now I don't know if to just pop it or leave it be? So should I pop it or not?...

Got back with my gf and she wont get over me sleeping with someone else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me and i slept with someone else because i thought there was no chance that we would get back together. Now we are back together she cant get over it and keeps making me feel really guilty about it ...

I was raped and need advice on what to do

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i'am really lost and really do not know what to do, it's really hard to say but i have not told anyone in the 2years that it has happened. i was raped when i was 15 there was more to it, as i formed an attachment towards this man. he was a security ...

How come sex ends so quickly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - My boyfreind and I have sex very often but I honestly wouldn't even call it that. Anytime we do have sex there is never any foreplay involved unless its me going down on him and as soon as he gets his "guy" in.....he "Cums" really quick. Within a ...

I want certain things in the bedroom and he won't listen to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - In work I am the boss of 60 people, of which 35 are men.I've been with mu now husband since I was 17, he was my first everything.Few years before we married I met a guy who I just had sex with, he suggested that he ties me up and has sex with me, I ...

She has a kinda promiscuous past! how do I deal with this when it comes up?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I've been dating a girl for 7 or so months, and she is great. A little while into dating her, I started to find out that, to put it plainly, she was a huge slut in her past. Not only that, but a lot of the people she was promiscuous with...

I'm 13 and fantasize at night and think about the girls in my class, just some questions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm 13 and I fantasize at night about sex, I feel excited in a way I never used to before and I don't know whats happening. Can anyone give me some answers? Also, i fantasize about my best friend and the girls in my class in school. Am I lesbian? I ...

Something I can take to make my period end faster?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm on period, and well, I'm on birth control. However up until a couple of weeks ago I was working long shifts which meant I had to take my pills on different times each day. So the thing is, I started spotting like a week before my actual period ...

Issues with my boyfriend, pregnant with his baby, upset by his actions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm in quite a serious dilemma... I met this guy and fell pregnant the second time we slept together. The good news is that we've both stepped up to the plate and decided to embrace our situation. The only problem is, i'm battling to accept is ...

Think I have bi-curious feelings for my best friend but should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I am female and I think I might be bi or bi-curious, because I like my best friend quite a bit and I don’t know whether I should tell her or not. We’re quite close. It’s kind of weird but, we just have moments where we look at each other and somehow ...

What kind of fetish is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - When I am doing anything sexual, I have found that animalistic things turn me on. For example, i wear a cat collar with a bell around my wrist, and my boyfriend wears a dog choker collar loosely around his neck, like a chain necklace. I'll use the ...

Helping Your Woman Unleash Her Inner Freak

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Lila here~ One of the biggest complaints I get from women (and men) in long term relationships is that the sex has become either stale or non-existent. There are lots of reasons for this: busy lives, children, work related travel, and the fact that ...

Having dreams of incest and now I can't look my father in the eye, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I've had the same extremely disturbing dream the last couple of nights. My dreams consist of my dad and I... doing something really disgusting with each other. Committing incest. In my dream last night, my dad wanted to go again and I screamed o...

Do husbands always lose interest when their wives age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm so panicked now... When I read this posts ,it looks like there is an epidemic, of marriage goes bad almost like scheduled ,for 20 -25 years. I keep reading about husbands ,who goes off sex, and losing attraction,or just simple luck of love. Me ...

Do condoms clog up the plumbing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - I flushed a condom down the toilet and im worried it will clog up the pipes, its only the one time ive done this and would hate to block the pipes and then have my parents discover it. I wrapped it in toilet paper first but im just worried that ive ...

Her ex was 'bigger' than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - well, we are a evangelic couple, and we'll have sex just after marriage, before both of us turned evangelic and knew each one, we had another partners... we don't amke sex yest but she putted her hand on my dick when i came out from the bath and...

She was a virgin and I was a virgin, I lied about being a virgin and she found out. What do I do?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and ...

I need insight on contraceptive methods...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hy everyone. I am little bit suspicious with condoms as a prevention of pregnancy. I know that they are pretty much safe because they can also protect person form all kind of sickness, but there`s a small posibility that makes me nervous about ...

An Introduction to TANTRA.

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26 January 2010 (M) - Tantra is a word belong to ancient Indian Sanskrit language. This word has been used by scholars in many ways, such as [1] It is used as a religious way with the ideas of god and goddess or deva and devis, temples, prayers, meditations, chanting ...

I'm feeling confused about our relationship: I like having him around but I cant deal with his mood swings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hi I have been seeing my b/f for around 15 months. In that time he has been moody at times (as most people can be). Last week though, after booking a short break abroad he rang the next day to say cancel as he was feeling unhappy in himse...

While we have been having troubles in the bedroom, he has been secretly asking girls to meet up with him for sex online!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I really need some help and advice. Have what I thought to be a good relationship with my boyfriend, but obviously I don't. He has had some trouble recently in the bedroom (don't need to say anymore) and I have been supportive and reassuring d...

I feel like I'm living with a stranger in the house, so I have turned to online affairs so I can live a fantasy of my own!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Been married for 3 years - we met over the internet and I flew half way across the world to be with him. We got married and have a child (an infant). However, it's been weird between us. We do argue a lot - however, we always seem to be very formal ...

Why did he cum so fast? And why am I missing him so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hi i would like to ask you guys for some help. The issue that i have is love related. Il try and cut the story short. I have been going out with this guy for nearly 2 months. How the relationship started was extremely strange. I didnt know th...

How can I get him to "unleash the beast?!"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Ok, I tend to be a sexually "dominant" person in bed. I like control in the bedroom. It's a lot of fun and a turn on for me. However, I do like to be challenged with man-handling and all things that come along with male domination (minus demeaning ...

I need help with anal sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband for 3 yrs. And he really wants to have anal sex, we have tried like 2 or 3 times,it is very painful,but I also enjoy it, but I always have a orgasm very fast. I want to give him what he wants.n e tips on how to not have a ...

She reads old sexual emails from past boyfriends and says I have no reason to be upset. What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now, and for most of that time I've known she finds sexual literature a huge turn-on. I don't have any problem with her buying sexy fiction to read, but some time ago she started looking up erotic ...

Even though we used protection I am paranoid now about being pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Well ok I'm 22 years old. Last time my period ended was on December 25. I lost my virginity on the 7 of January. my boyfriend and me had sex three days in a row.. but every single time we used a condom we even checked before and after condoms ...

I took the doctor's advise but could I still be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together since we were young,and started to have sex in August last year, I'm on the pill and for medical reasons the doctor told me to miss my 7 day break last month, although this month I can go on my 7 day break, I ...

I can't get my b/f to orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. We've gotten to fingering/handjobs, but I have a problem. I haven't ever given handjobs before, and I seem to be really bad at it because I can't get him to come. He can always get me, and I'm ...

I have had sex with my cousin but I cant decide if I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i cant decide if im in love with my cousin. he is everything to me. we started talking about 4 years ago now and we are extremely close. we have done alot of sexual things. im 14 almost 15. i would do anything from him. i few weeks ago he told me he ...

Do I worry too much about breast size?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Moderator's Note: link to website removed. I recent found a site where some douche tries selling a PDF manual to convince a wife or girlfriend to get implants. I mean, not all guys are like that obviously, but do really most of them wish their pa...

I introduced my husband to my bi g/f now he can only perform sex with her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Okay, to start off with, I am a bisexual female....I have been with my husband for 10 years...I am 27 and he is 29...We have a wonderful relationship but since I have gotten with this girl and let him join in, he can only get hard and stay hard ...

I'm pregnant but I don't know if its my b/f's baby or my ex's baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - OKay i had unprotected sex with my ex boyfriend dec24 and a couple days before that too.. then i had sex with him again on Jan 1st (unprotected) he ejaculates in me all the time.. then i was with this one boy on jan 5 i let him put his tip almost in ...

Is it normal for there to be several openings in a girl's hymen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Is it normal for there to be several openings in a girl's hymen? (Before sexual intercourse.) (Mod Note - Op's own title) ...

Trapped into marriage and wanting to get out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi im a 31yr old man who is going through the hardest time of my life at the moment,these are my problems. 9yrs ago i finished my apprentiship and had enough cash to head overseas. At this stage i meet a girl that i was very clear to about my plans ...

I went too far with him on our first date, now I am worried if it made him think less of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hello guys!! I have a question: I went out on a date with a guy I met at my college. At first I didn't even want to go out with him although i liked hiom because I had a huge crush on someone else. But when we went out I had an amazing time with...

How do I get my reputation back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I went back to a guys house, something I never do. I was so unbelieveably drunk and just out of a really bad relationship that lasted 4 years and was so intoxicated. I blanked out for 6 hours. He is 15 years older than me. It was akward after we ...