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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Advice needed. How can I get him to last longer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I are sexually active and he'll only "hold up" for less than 5 mins.. I get "wetter" than normal and we're not using any protection.. he'll pull out when he starts to cum though.. how do we prevent this and make him last longer.?...

I slept with my best friend... I need to get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - OK... So I slept with my friend (Ultimate mistake!!) And of course, me being the chick, I started to have feelings for him.I thought we could have been really good together and I know he did at one stage too cuz he told me. Anyway, I have totally ...

First time jitters...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I've been speaking to a guy from my hometown over msn for a few months. We are arranging to meet up for the first time soon. We are both virgins and feel ready now to lose my virginity. Although I'll point out that it wont be the first time we meet ...

What is the most common reason for a man losing interest in sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - What is the most common reason for a man losing interest in sex? And how common is that? My husband has no sexual interest in me. Well, I don't think he cares about anybody else, totally no interest in sex.. NOW, is it possible that he just shot ...

Thought I wanted a no strings relationship but only with him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Ok so here's the situation. I am recently seperated from my husband, and started talking to this guy at work. He told me he had a girlfriend. So i chalked it up to harmless flirting. After a while the flirting became more serious. I know that him ...

How do I break it to him I'm a virgin and he's going to have to take things slow the next time I see him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I recently flew home for the holidays and got speaking on msn to a friend of a friend who'd asked me out for a drink a few months ago (but I'd never met up with him, as I had never seen him in person and asked my friends who had met him what he was ...

I need some ideas for good sex toys for couples!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I was wondering if anyone could recommend good sex toys for couples to use. I use to have a vibrator, which I liked, but have not had one in a long time. My current partner (who I have been with for several years) feels that I should not need a ...

Masturbating tools?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - how to masterbate and what with what is good for people who dnt feel things easily....

I can never be bothered to make the first move

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - i've completely lost my sex drive and i dont know why. i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, lived together for 1 year and for the past 4 months i have no sex drive whatsoever. Dont get me wrong, once we start having sex i really enjoy it ...

My boyfriend says my vagina is too loose!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I've been sexually active with my boyfriend (I also lost my virginity to him) for about a year and a half now. A few days ago I played with my PC muscles when he was inside me and he said it feels wonderful, and then proceeded to tell me that it was ...

Is a condom enough to help keep me from getting the virus?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I've met a guy who told me that he has genital herpes. He takes Valtrex, and hasn't had an outbreak in two years. I do like him but don't know if taking a risk to have sex with him would be worth it. He says he has only gotten outbreaks on his ...

I have a crush on my male gay friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I have a crush on a friend he's gorgeous, short brown spikey hair, tanned skin, blue eyes, strong jaw line, has a beautiful body. But the thing is he's gay. But he's the perfect match for me I swear (well if he was straight) we treats me really ...

I want no strings sex - but only with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

If I cheat on my boyfriend how will it affect me if I never tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - So me an my bf are going on 4months. And for either of us this is a big deal. But I have been talking to this other guy corey and I am starting to get feelings for him. We talk more than my boyfriend and now I think that me and my bf are just too ...

Is it a good idea to ignore him for a few months so he will eventually give up on me and I can move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

Should I stick with my long distance relationship or choose the other guy who lives in the same city as me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I have this problem I'm eighteen years old and I am already making mistakes when it comes to my relationship stats. I am a girl who has internet relationships and keeps them. My recent boyfriend Ryan who I have been talking and having a connection ...

A married man has been pressuring me for sex. What do you think he meant by his last comment?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I have been friends with a married man who is 29 years older than I. I met him at my work place 3 years ago. I am a nurse married and he is a physician. Anyway, we started to become really close. We started going out, texting, and sending pics ...

Why would my partner be masturbating while they were asleep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - has anyone ever caught their spouse masterbating while they thought you were asleep ?...

Can I get birth control without my parents knowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Is it possible to get a perscription 4 birth control w/ out my parrents finding out? Do doctors always tell ur parents about that stuff?...

How can I make sex more pleasurable for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been having sex for a little over two months. at first it was really painful for her now it just is when we start or if we go too long. she loves doing it but its not pleasurable for her at all shes turned on and we're ...

Help!!! I'm scared!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

5 January 2010 (?) - what if my bf had a small amount of visible cum on his fingers and then fingered me? it has been 11 days since my period ended. would it be likely that i am pregnant? please help!!! im scareddd! ...