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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Sex on a first date, today he is quiet, will he show for our date tomorrow?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I slept with a guy on our first date! Now he seems distant.. We have only really known each other a month but the instant we met online he lived near, attractive it was like we was made for each other.. he instantly give me his number and got on...

I don't know how to have an orgasm

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - hi me an my boyfriend have been having sex together for about 3 months. the problem is ive never had an orgasm. i know it sounds stupid, but i dont know how 2 have one! i can never feel like im about to have an orgasm or that anythings going 2...

Husband impotent, doctors no idea why

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Is it possible that man, can go impotent for years with one partner ,but get it back later with an other one? I'm just in a turmoil,because my husband went suddenly limp,a few years ago, and the doctors has no clue,why. They run tests,and he is no...

Size matters...is it safe for me to buy condoms before I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Okay, this might sound ridiculous, but I'd rather be safe than sorry... I'm going to visit my LDR who lives overseas in 2 weeks, for 3 months. I'm 18 and his 18th birthday is the day after I arrive...you get the idea. For the sake of cost effi...

What is a 'Fleshlight'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - What is a ''Fleshlight''? What does it do? I'm confused....

Does she want another man? Does she want full anal sex, not only finger-play? Will she tell me if she does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - I have asked for advice before and you all thought I was watching too many pornos. I still have a lingering question, which you all have helped me with, but I have some more on that subject plus some others that have come up. First off, my ...

My boyfriend is so cold and unaffectionate to me I'm starting to think he might be gay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Im so confused and lost i dont know what to do. My bf who doesnt act like one is well confusing me perhaps there is a better word. Anyways, dating 3 mos i do all the driving he doesnt come to see me not sure i ask but he doesnt. The problem is when ...

After I couldnt make her orgasm I feel like a failure and I have lost my sex drive! But if I don't make passes at her she thinks I'm cheating! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Hi im 24 and me and my fiancee have been together 2yrs. we are both pretty insecure people but are expecting our first child any minute now. im very stressed atm and finding work mentally demanding alongside all the preparations for baby. anyway now ...

Why is my husband using adult dating sites?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Hi every one. My husband and I have been together for 8 yrs. I'm 32 he is 27. We have a health sex life, we argue just like normally married people. So my question it why is he looking up adult dating sites. He was 19 when we got together and had ...

Could he really be in love with me after only 2 weeks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 weeks now and tonight during sex (he was about to finish) he said my name, took a long pause and said "i love you." i responded by laughing saying "no you dont." and that its only been a couple weeks. he ...

I'm worried my masturbating is unhealthy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Hey, i am 14 years old, and i masturbating quite a lot, sometimes i can do it up to 4 times a day! is this to much? and also, I'm really freaked out because when i am masturbating, i find doing it over some really hot girl doesn't cut it for me, for ...

She has been an incredible partner both in bed and in satisfying my fetish, so should I marry her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - I'm 26 years old and I have a major foot fetish. I know this friend from school and I told her around 2 years back about how awesome her feet were. this happened over a casual conversation and after a few weeks few weeks later (after a lot of foot ...

Did my fiancee cheat on me? And how can I tell if she has been around a bit before she met me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] So I'm going to try to break down a lot of facts into short statements: Dated a girl for 4 months and moved in together. Lived together for 5 months and got en...

How can we make sex more pleasurable for both of us? It hurt so much last time we tried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Last night, my long-time boyfriend and I had sex. It was both of our first time. We deeply love one another and were both ready for sex. My problem is that it was painful, for both of us. He is uncircumcised and the skin pulled back and ...

Can a relationship where both people involved have a mental illness ever work? I'm worried this could become very messy but the connection is incredible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year, for somebody else who can satisfy me more. My previous boyfriend did not like sex, so we never had it. I am bipolar and we frequently fought, and I would go from hating him to loving him very ...

How can I hide the fact that I am a virgin and act wild and crazy in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - So I promised this guy that I would have sex with him. I really want to. I talked myself up and made it sound like I'm really experienced. I've done everything but have sex. He's expecting me to be wild and crazy. Truth is I need tips on being wild ...

Does helping each other masturbate make us gay?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - My friend says that helping each other masturabate is gay. Is this true? Please help...

Different ways to masturbate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - well I am 18 and I have beem masterbating for a few weeks. but I am tired of just stroking up and down. I need new positions or ways to do it myself...

My girlfriend had a baby and I didn't know, now I'm not allowed to see my son! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - 9 months ago I was dating a girl Jessica, who I really liked, I go to college out of state and I'm not home alot. One weekend while I was home we were at a party and we got into a huge fight. A don't remember much about it but I know I said some ...

Do guys really have so many erections in a day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Your possibly gonna laugh when you read this but i;ve always been curious and i'd rather make myself look stupid on here than in public lol! but is it true that guys really get loads of erections a day some say 5 some say 10 some say more or is i...

As a male, does losing your virginity hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - hi i'm 19 and havent had sex yet. and dont have a lot of expirience or know how about it either. i know losing your virginity can hurt if your a girl but what i want to know is is it the same for a male? thanks hope you can answer me...

My girlfriend wants to have sex and we're thirteen, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - hey im 13 and my girlfriend who is pretty and i really love her. she asked me if i would have sex with her what do i do?...