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writes:In work I am the boss of 60 people, of which 35 are men.I've been with mu now husband since I was 17, he was my first everything.Few years before we married I met a guy who I just had sex with, he suggested that he ties me up and has sex with me, I agreed, it was the best experience I ever had.We even made a sex dungeon where we had sex, I was his slave girl did everything he asked me and I loved it. Than he moved away and I made up with my boyfriend now husband. I tried itroducing him to what I like he just ignores it, I even buy him porn with people being tied up but he just laughs and says its sick. I am sick of being in charge I want to be dominated and I want to be his sex slave, how do I get him to realise that?
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reader, dorothy2342  +, writes (26 January 2010):
 Here is my observation. You said you are sick of being in charge, however if you are trying to dictate the type of sexual relationship you have with your husband, you are still trying to be in charge. You never mentioned love with the man you slept with. Which had you rather have, love from your husband or domination from someone your screwing? You want everything to change in your relatiionshp for your satisfaction. Some people had rather have a loving sexual relationshp instead of domination and submission. Careful what you wish for, you might get it and more.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (26 January 2010):
 I didn't know I was interested in BDSM until I was 27 when I met a guy who was a little rough with me and surprisingly I was turned on. Before that I thought that BDSM stuff is just for goth people. Since you are his high school sweetheart it would be difficult for him to imagine himself spanking you or tying you up. Our sexual brains grow at a different pace and something in life activates the erotic part of the brain by accident. I would suggest don't mention the shackles and the ropes first. Tell him to grab your neck, your hair doing doggiestyle, tickling you with feathers, something mild first. After he sees you being turned on so much maybe he would want to add more spice each time.
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