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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Will the relationship become just about the Sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! I've been with my boyfriend for one month now. We are both virgins. I feel really comfortable with him and I think I'm ready to loose my virginity. We've played around alot. The only problem I have is that I'm scared if we have sex s...

27 year old virgin, Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - im another 27 year old male virgin, and dont know why. i am in good shape and work out. i have not much self confidence and no self image really and im afraid to get intimate, becuase im inexperinced in sex. i am really afraid to talk to and ...

Is it possible to love someone but not want to be close to them or show it, or is he lying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Hi there I am in a similar situation to many of the former posters in this forum and do not know what to do...I am at my wit's end. I met my now husband in 2006 10 and when we first dated he was very affectionate and enjoyed sex and even initiat...

Condom Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - Recently I have been having some trouble with condoms. Luckily this is just me experimenting with the different sizes, etc. I do not think I will have a problem with premature ejaculation (or at least hope not) I take my time when I masturbate, i ...

He forced himself on me after I said no, then 4 days later he broke up with me! I just feel so down all the time and don't know what to do next

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Hello, i was recently in a relationship with a boy 1 year older, im 13 and hes 14. We were having regular meetings and having foreplay almost everytime, we were both virgins, until the other day he asked if i wanted to go all the way and i straight ...

My lover wants to be watched!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - hi i have been in a relationship for the past 18 months and we have both fallen in love with each other very much so. our sex live is wounderful and we are exploring each other. a few weeks ago whilst having sex i asked about what her fantasy was,...

Curious about sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Whats the right age to lose your virginity? I am 15 am I too young?!? How do I masturbate? (women)... What does sex feel like for a women? what am i letting myself in for?I don't want to have sex till I am 19 am i frigid?I want to have sex but ...

We only have sex about 3 times a month, help!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - Hi all. This is my first question so bear with me. I'm in a relationship with my fiance and have been for 4 1/2 years. We have a 2 year old child together and a mortgage and share pretty much everything. I Love her and she loves me. I couldn't i...

Afraid 2 have sex with virgin gf

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - my girlfriend of 3 months is a virgin. i am not a virgin and hav been in 1 relationship so far in my life. im not looking for anything 2 serios yet due 2 my former heartache but my gf keeps pestering me for sex n im afriad 2 give it 2 her. if i take ...

Afraid boyfriend will leave me if I don't have sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I'm scared that if i don't have sex with my boyfriend he will leave me. He's not pressuring me into anything, but it does make me wonder weather this is the only thing he's interested in? He's already done it with his ex girlfriend when they were ...

Sex and Masturbation help!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: Poster states she is 13, NOT 19 as it shows. I'm a 13 year old girl and I masturbate but i cant ever find pleasure in it...i want to finger myself but im scared i might bleed cuz im a virgin...and ther is this guy that i dirty talk wit...

Involved with a guy but I like his housemate more! Why doesn't the latter want sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I was having friendly sex with a guy i then meet his house mate. We get on really well, and we made out like teenages. There are a few problems. He says he dosnt want a relationship. He had a bad breakup but it was afew years ago and he dosnt want ...

I'm scared if I say no he'll dump me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Im 16 and my boyfriend is 17 We had oral sex once and now he seems too want it alot... Sometimes i want it (because it feels good) but at the same time i dont want things to get out of hand but im scared that if i say i dont want too he'll dump me ...

How do I relieve this sexual tension?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

3 January 2010 (?) - So, this is going to sound complicated and rather weird. Question #1: So last year, for about 8 months I had a boyfriend. We had sex nearly every day (Sometimes more than twice a day) we were very sexual. I loved him very very much. But we bro...

During sex sometimes I just don't want it anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - H. me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now. we have a great sex life, and we get along like a house on fire. It's just, sometimes when we have sex, just sometimes, we get into it, and obviously im horny etc etc, but then, out of ...

Do a lot of men not like oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Hi!I am asking for help with something that has been bothering me. My boyfriend does not like to give oral sex-at all. I just want to know if he is one of the rare few that do not enjoy this. . .or are there more than I realize? I would really ...

Why do my legs shake when I have an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I know i sound realy stupid asking a question like this but my new boyfriend used to be a bit of a slut so i guessed he knows what hes talking about. We have been having sex but when i orgasm my legs tremble and shake, he always asks if something is ...

My cousin blows hot and cold with me... is he using me or does he really have feelings for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - my cousin and i had sex last summer but i was drunk and he wasn't. well long story short, i love him so much and i think he feels the same. then about 4 weeks ago, we had sex again, and it was better than before!! well, he avoids me, and when it's ...

Premature when condom is put on...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - Recently I have been having some trouble with condoms. Luckily this is just me experimenting with the different sizes, etc. I do not think I will have a problem with premature ejaculation (or atleast hope not) I take my time when I masturbate, i ...

What do I do? Directly ask for sex, make the first move or just accept being horny all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - my new b/f and i have only had sex a few times..at first it was hard 4 me 2 get wet with him bcuz i was so nervous being that we had been friends 4 a few years. Now it seems like i always want to do him but he's not around.. What do I do? Directly ...

Help! I feel as if I am losing my sanity over my non existent sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

3 January 2010 (?) - Hello there, I am an aunt here who never posts anonymously but tonight I'm feeling discouraged and cowardly I guess. Earlier this year, I had a short-lived text relationship that was innappropriate with a much younger man. It started off innocently ...

Does anyone else feel like a stranger the morning after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - the other night i was round my blokes house for the night and we had amazing sex he kept going for ages which really pleasured us both. the next morning when we got up it was like the previous night never happened. Does anyone else feel like a...