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Archived questions from: 31 January, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Sexual positions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - What's your favorite sexual position and why?...

Why do men like anal sex so much?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have a question for the guys. Why do men like anal. And why do men like to play with women's buttholes. ...

My sex life is just one big stress!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I am soo stressed about this. I'm very young but I love my bf. I don't know if I should wait or go for it but I have a feeling that this time is right to have sex but when it comes to this I get very stressed out I tremble and I can't breathe. I ...

What's a 69'r???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has recently asked me to perform a 69er with him but I don't know what to do :S please help ...

I have ED, how common is this over 40? WHY do I have it? Am I the only one?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - How common is erectile dysfunction over 40? I, m having ED since 43,and now,Im 47.. My doctor did not find anything wrong with me medically. He just says,it is aging. I CAN'T ACCEPT THAT.I really don't want to complain, but it is such a bad ...

After a flirting/emotional relationship with someone else, am I finally able to relax in my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I had a flirting/emotional relationship with a committee colleague and his wife found out several months ago. She snooped on his phone and found some incriminating texts he hadn't deleted and he told her it was just a game between us. She rang me ...

What position would be best for first time intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - so me and my gf are goin to have sex for the 1st time. we are both sure we want to do this. i have asked other questions having to do with this, and so far almost no one has said anything about waiting until were legal, and isnt the legal age 16? ...

My wife lacks interest in certain sex acts, I like. How do I convince her to keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - My questions are simple, I have been married for quite a while we always have had a good sex life. I know that as you get somewhat older it will slowdown. We always tried different things had a good mix 3 to 4 times a week when younger, now we will ...

How can I achieve orgasm, while he's on top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Ok here's one for you, How can i achive a orgasm when he's on top? I can only have one when i'm on top of him! he doesn't know, and i'm afraid to tell him, because i've been faking for awhile. But iv'e really never been able to orgasm any other way, ...

My boyfriend and I have a fictitious lover - anyone with similar stories?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I am looking for input. My fiance's biggest turn on is fantasizing about me sleeping with other men. I don't but for the sake of role play have developed a fictitious 'boyfriend' and make it as real for him as possible. So, is there anyone else ...

Should we wait longer to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - hey im 15 and im thinking about having sex with my girlfreind but my penis is 5.5" erect with the girth of 4" is it too small and should i wait longer + will a condom fit ?...

Going to sleep with a man I work with. How can I get over my flaws and be more confident in bed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I met this man a year ago. We work together. We find each other really attractive and have finally decided to sleep together (once). There are no long term plans, we just want to have fun together. What I want to know is how can I make sure I ...

We have gone from a spontaneous fun sex life to ziltch. Is it me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 31. We’ve been together for 2 and a half years. At the start of our relationship, our sex life was brilliant, it was fun, spontaneous, sexy and naughty, I would often dress up in naughty outfits/underwear, and we would use ...

What is a swollen thumb trick in ref to viewing a penis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - hey guys, I was talking to my mate who is bi and he said something that i wasn't familiar with. i want to ask u guys because i cant find it on the net. basically he said he was shown a guys penis using the "swollen thumb trick" if anyone can expla...

I got my period twice in a month. Am I pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hey guys i am new to this i am in serious needs of answer... Okay so here the problem I had my period Jan. 14.2010.. Me and my boyfriend started having sex Jan 2nd 2010.... and then we had sex on the jan 12th 2010.. so i got my period a day after we ...

My friends think I am just a booty call. Am I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I've known a guy through a mutual friend for 2 years. We have slept together 4 times. After each time, I would send a general message, from a friend to a friend asking how things were going, but I would receive no reply. From what it seems, he ...

I have had sex 7 times with 3 diff men and don't enjoy it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - So Ive only had sex about 7 times but Ive been with 3 men. But everytime I have sex it doesnt feel good for me at all. Its more uncomfortable than anything. But I dont get that feel good sensation that people keep telling me about. I dont think that ...

Turn out the open realtionship is only kinda ok withher boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - k so i was fooling around with this girl and i knew she had a boyfriend but she said it was an open relationship so i thought it would be cool we went pretty far suffice it to say if we would have had a bed we probly woulda had sex. any way turns ...

Never thought I'd fall for a married man...super confused here!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I never thought I'd fall for a married man! I didn't intend for things to get so heavy.I work in the same building and see him everyday..he just told me he wants to end our affair of only 1 month. Yet on the weekend he texts me and sends me pics of ...

Told my gf I watch porn, and she doesn't understand. What can I say to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - i have been watching porn. i have been with my gf for 4 years so i told her that i watched porn. she got mad and was telling me that i shouldn't be watching those things cause it is all fake so i told her that even if it is fake the sex seems real. ...

Concerns about my clitoris...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have never had an overly sensitive clitoris. I do not masturbate because it does not do anything for me. I have feeling, but it is hardly pleasurable…it is more irritating (not painful) than anything else. Recently, I read somewhere that my ...

Me and my gf are going to have sex...should I shave down there?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Me and my gf are going to have sex. we talked about it before, and i dont know if to shave down there. she said she wouldnt like it if i sis because then it might be prickly and might hurt. or should i just trim really small?...