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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Will I ever be able to have a committed relationship the way I feel about sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - I am a masculine gay young man, but I fear that my sexuality is very *selfish*. I enjoy having anal sex with other men and receiving blow jobs, but I find being on the receiving end of anal or giving blow jobs utterly repugnant and a total turn off. ...

15 and pregnant. HELP!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Im 15 And Pregnant, i really need help. So please tell me what you think i should do....

How to bring up the talk with your parents about contreception?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I'm 15 years old and have had intercourse with my boyfriend who I have been with for over 1 year but I want to be completly safe and get a form of contraception but I don't know how to ask my mum and how would she react when I tell her I've had sex ...

I don't really feel anything when I masturbate, am I doing it wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Hi. Ive masturbated myself before but it doesnt feel good. Is that normal or am I doing it wrong or anything. Im quite concerned as my mates say it feels good, when i dont really feel anything....

My girlfriend has a low sex drive and I am worried it might cause problems in the future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Ive been dating the women of my dreams, for almost 2 years now. We want to get married. only problem i fear is that she has a low sex drive. Now to be honest im a nymph :) how do i get her to be free and open with me, i am the one constantly ...

Teenager worrying about sex for the first time

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - ok. i'm a 14 year old girl and ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. He's already had sex with his ex partner so it seems like he's expecting it from me. I want to but im freaked out because im a virgin and i don't know what he expects a girl ...

I love my boyfriend but I cant help enjoying the attention my ex gives me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I am 15 and a chap i used to see and have had sex with is 24. i still see the lad regularly even tho we are not having sex anymore. he is very much like part of my family and everyone gets on with him. but i have a boyfriend now who i really l...

What will I do if she becomes pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - hi. my girlfriend and i had unprotected sex then she took a morning after pill. we had sex two more times and she took another dose. am afraid of her becoming pregnant. we are both in college. we are waiting. what will i do if she becomes pregnant? ...

Did I do the right thing by stopping my daughter from masturbating?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - My eleven year old girl has been masturbating lately. Last year for her birthday i bought her this toy dog that when you pull the tail it vibrates. Four days ago i peeked into her room and saw her repeatedly pulling the tail and she had it on her ...

Is it ok to have oral sex if you are Muslim?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Hi dere, I am muslim and got marrried 2 years ago and my wife is askin for oral sex just wanted to know that is it allowed to give oral sex to women in islam.... Thanks for ur help in advance ...

I'm so sexually frustrated but I don't want to seem pushy and rush her into something she's not ready for!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Hey, I'm 19 years old (nearly 20) and have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 6 months now. only, I still haven’t moved past 1st base with her yet (we've only kissed) It seems to be the only thing that’s bothering me about the whole ...

After this last week he has scared me a little, should I stay with him and get married or leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid I am involved in a gay relationship with my best friend. He is married but now separated. We have been together about 1year and 5 months. We have never had sex as yet but we do sleep together in the same bed when I go spend the night ...

Teenage girl worried about sex for the first time....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 3 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] 1. I am a 14 year old girl and have been with my boyfriend for around 4 months. We havent had sex and are both still virgins. He has fingered me but I havent d...

I'm worried I might be getting too "aroused"! Will this put men off in the future or will they laugh at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I'm aware that when a female is sexually aroused she becomes wet and also the labia become swollen. But I am worried that when I'm aroused mine get too swollen, not enough to cause problems but enough for me to be embarrassed or self conscious. ...

Any tips for things to do/say to my boyfriend who is into BDSM?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Please help. My boyfriend is really into BDSM and likes to be dominated which I don't mind but sometimes he asks me to call him names which I've got the hang of now, but he likes to be abused and humiliated too and then my mind goes blank and can't ...

Questions about sex.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - I think that when I have sex I will cum very quickly, and I "spring back up" quickly to, so I was thinking that I make her orgasm first so she doesn't feel "unfinished", is this a good idea, should I ask her, and should I ask her how to help her ...

Need help having first time sex with girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are both 17 years old and virgins. A fortnight ago, we tried to have sex for the first time. She's quite petite, never pleasured herself before and she's never used tampons, so she's very tight down there. We did a lot of ...

I still love him and think he will come crawling back again, but he blew his last chance with me after he slept with my friend! How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - For about a year now i have been sort of seeing this boy on and off, he is a year older than me (im 14) and i always knew he had done stuff with other girls. loads of people warned me he was a player and was no good for me but i paied no attention. ...

Should I tell my boyfriend that my ex raped me, which would explain why I am struggling to have sex with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - About 2 years ago, my bf at the time (now ex bf) raped me. We broke up a few days later. It was a pretty traumatic experience for me. I tried so hard to stop him but I just couldnt. I tried fighting him off me, but he had me in a pinned down ...

Problems cumming too soon...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - hi, I am a 28 year old male, single from delhi who has a problem with premature ejaculation. Why so, please inform me why this happens. I am having since 5/6 years that i cannot understand why this is happening? Please kindly give my some way to ...

Is his height hampering my ability to orgasm??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so my old boyfriend an i had great sex. I can only get off in certain positions, but he used to make me orgasm all the time. My new boyfriend has pretty much the same size and shaped penis, but i don't get off nearly as well with him. My old ...

How do you play without hurting them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - hey im not much expreineced with giving head and i just want to know as i hear that its good to play with guys balls but there really sensitive how do i play with them without hurting them and wat do you mean when u say playing with the guys balls?...

Do I bring up the subject? And how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Last year I was at my friends house and we where waching a nude movie. He kept saying ''I would do anything for a blow job now'' and so I said I would do it as a friend. I really thought a hand job was a blow job then. He said ''thats not a blow job ...

Was this rape? Or consensual?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - About a year ago, I was in a relationship with a guy who was 21. I was 16 at the time. We had sex, and I consented (well, I couldn't legally give consent, but I said yes). Now that the relationship's been over for a few months, I'm feeling more ...

What kind of sexual contact does she want with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - My aunts try to brush their nipples onto my elbow. Lately one aunt (married to my mum's brother) on new year's eve brushed her nipple on me as she walked past me from behind. What kind of sexual contact does she want with me? BJ with me to come ...

I want to masturbate in front of my sister

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - My sister walked in on me when I was in the middle of masturbating. Since then I have wanted to masturbate in front of her. I am afraid to ask her so I secretly masturbate in front of her while she is sleeping. Should I ask her if I can do it in ...

Should I tell his wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Should I tell his wife? I am 18 years old. On new years eve(last night), i had been drinking. (first mistake) For the past week i had been house sitting my neihbors across the street. Towards the end of the night (around 3:30am) i went to go let t...

Why do some guys squirt when they cum and some dont?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

2 January 2010 (M) - Um, I'm 39, a healthy bloke and I've always wondered why it is that some guys squirt when they cum and some (me) don't. (:o/ I have sex every day in my relationship. I really like the idea of squirtin on someone, but it happens rarely. Either w...

Scared about having sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - will am a female am really worried cause will i want to have sex with ma boyfriend but m scared...any suggestions..(sorry bout tht spelling)...

I feel so guilty, please help me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - First of all I'd like to thank all of you who are currently reading this..you have all served as another method of therapy for me, I don't know what I would do without your guys' advice.. I'm 17 years old, and my (now ex) boyfriend is 18. We have ...