New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244976 questions, 1084353 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
To browse questions by day in January, 2010, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (17), 2 (30), 3 (22), 4 (22), 5 (21), 6 (22), 7 (18), 8 (14), 9 (10), 10 (9),
11 (20), 12 (21), 13 (25), 14 (14), 15 (22), 16 (20), 17 (14), 18 (22), 19 (18), 20 (19),
21 (15), 22 (14), 23 (16), 24 (13), 25 (32), 26 (38), 27 (13), 28 (21), 29 (19), 30 (17),
31 (22),

Archived questions from: 25 January, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

(More questions from January, 2010)

Sex: Help and advice

I can't buy anything. What can I use to masturbate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (? - I cant buy anything so what can I use to masterbate. I dont want a dildo or vibrator. Also dont tell me anything that can hurt me in some way. Thanks!...

Is this sexual assault? Please help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - Okay so will somebody please help me out here...if a boy is fingering you and you tell him to stop and he doesn't is that sexual assault or something???I really need answers......

My son's 18 year old friend wants to have sex with me - I'm 45! What do I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - I'm a 45 year old woman and I have a eighteen year old son. My son has a friend who is also eighteen. Yesterday I found out he is possibly going to Iraq within a month. He told me he's had a huge crush on me and that he wanted to have sex with me ...

Wife had anal sex with another man, how should I react?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

25 January 2010 (M - Mod note: had some language and sexual content not suitable for younger aunts and uncles, changed to make it... more friendly. I went to a party with my wife and I forgot to eat beforehand, well I got drunk and passed out. I woke up a couple o...

How can I relax in order to orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - Me and my boyfriend had amazing sex on saturday night, I've never cum from penatrative sex before but i felt i was getting close on saturday. However once i realised this i focused on it too much and was unable to orgasm. How can i keep myself ...

Foreskin doesn't pull back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (M - Hello everyone :) i need sum advice. The problem is when i get hard my foreskin doesnt pull all the way back and am worried there is sumthin wrong with me. I havent lost my virginity yet and am 18 so i just need to be told whether i have a problem ...

I want to try cunnilingus but my wife isn't interested. Any ideas on how I can bring her around?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

25 January 2010 (M - Hi, I want to try cunnilingus but my wife thinks its 'dirty'. The problem is it really turns me on. What do I do?...

Is it normal to feel like peeing during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

25 January 2010 (? - While having sex, i have this great urge of peeing.. is it normal? Never had orgasm before, so was wonderin if tat might hinder it.. thanks...

He's been lying to me this whole time. Should I leave him or try to forgive him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - My boyfriend lied to me for THREE YEARS about his porn use. Don't get me wrong, I know he wanks. He's told me so, and he had even shown me the website he used (a very well known free amateur site). Now here's the thing: he told me he didn't like ...

My testicles are beginning to ache/feel numb from masturbation. Should I be concerned?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

25 January 2010 (M - I've been uncontrollably horny lately through what i think is stress. i dont have a girlffriend at the moment, so i masturbate. usually if i'm comfortable i'll do it once a day or every other day. in the past 3 days ive done it 3 times a day and not ...

Am I having an orgasm when my leg shakes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - So im 18 and i've had sex a few times...and im not really sure if ive ever had an orgasim...so when I have sex after about an hour my leg start to shake uncontrollably does that mean im having an orgasim?? ...

Lust over emotion... should I wait? or Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - I'm fifteen and am going out with a sixteen year old. I'm a virgin and I know that he isn't. He just recently asked me out, and I asked him to maybe wait a little. He really didn't want to but he said he would wait, for me. He also said people don't ...

Still bleeding after having sex 3 times and bleeding lasts 1/2 a day! whats going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - Hey everyone, I am just wondering if it is normal for a girl to still be bleeding after the 3rd time you've had sex with a guy? This is the 2nd guy I have been with. The 1st guy I was with for 2years and I didn't bleed my first time. Now he (the 1st...

No orgasm... threw up??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (? - This might seem like a really stupid question but is it possible to throw up from not having an orgasm??? My boyfriend and I had really intense sexual exploits this weekend from Friday till Sunday trying to get me to orgasm for the first time. ...

I'm running out of ideas for sexy surprises for my long distance boyfriend, can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - Hi Im 21 and im currently involved in long distance relationship we dated for 2 years and he had to go away for school. Since we talk online we do lots of little sexy surprizes for each other and i run out of ideas! Help please!thank u!...

I never want to kiss my hubby anymore, could this be because of the pills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - Hi guyz,i hav a problem;since i got married(3 months ago),my urge 4 kissing has completely gone,i never want 2 kiss my hubby anymore for no aparent reason.am confused since before we got maried i used 2 love his kisses.could it be the contraceptives ...

My girlfriend's younger sister caught me in an awkward situation, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (M - my girlfriends sister came to visit us on the weekend, she is younger and was playing on the wii so my girlfriend went out for a bit to visit a friend. I was bored so went to bedroom to read for a bit and then I started getting horny and decide...

How can I make my husband leave his hobby alone for a night so we can have sex to bring back the spark in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - Okay , all the lady's and Men please help me. ima keep it simple wich is the best way to bring that spark back in our marriage. If my husband tells me he is sick of me keeps on talking in an angry voice, never talks to me at all. How can i ask a ...

Is there something wrong? Or is this just natural?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - When my boyfriend is giving me oral sex and really gets into it, my whole body starts to shake, and I no i'm reaching an orgasm but the problem is when my body starts shaking I can't relax. Is there something wrong? or is this just natural?...

I have to pretend to be satisfied with my husband during sex and I feel really bad for doing this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - Hi, Im married since a year and half, my husband loves me a lot and I have satisfy him sexually.... My problem is, I really love to have sex with m hubby and its me who always start first, when he starts to kiss and all I feel so good but after w...

After our fight she is now worried that I will leave her! What can I do to make this better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (M - Alright. I messed up and need help to fix it. The other night I messed up. My fiancé and I got home from a night out with my friends. Had a good time, we were both a little buzzed still. We hadn't had sex in two days. All day I was kissing her,...

Can't orgasm - tried everything even a vibrator.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

25 January 2010 (? - So I wrote on here once before asking for help with an orgasm. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while now and I still haven't orgasmed. He's done oral, fingering, inter-course. But nothing seems to work. We've gone for as long as an ...

Anyone have information on std tests from planned parenthood?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - does it cost money to get tested for stds at plan parenthood? also, what do these tests consist of and how long does it take to get results? if I get tested for multiple stds do they cost extra?...

We had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - I've been dating this guy for only 2 weeks and he's been saying he loves me since before we even started dating. He's always been a really good friend of mine and well we had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of ...

Does this happen to anyone else? If so, how do you deal with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (M - Ok. I am in need of some good advice. From both men and women, if possible... My current situation: I am engaged. Living with my fiance. She's the woman I love and adore. I know I will always feel this way for her. It's more of my problem than her...

My boyfriend liking big breasts makes me insecure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - I'm a 20 yrs old, and have been with my boyfriend for only 2 months... hes a lovely boy, but ive noticed he only really seems to find big breasted women attractive.. he mentions other womens breasts a lot, and it annoys me because im quite small up ...

When we make love, he does all the work.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - ok i have this boy problem an its about makin love.... ive done it but hes always the worker i don't do anything how do i move or.........

Hubby wants sex all the time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

25 January 2010 (F - I wanted to ask a question, my husband and I have been together for 15 years. I love him and he loves me but we've had some problems in our realtionship lately. Nothing that we can't work out together, but since the problems started, he seems to...

I've got itchy balls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

25 January 2010 (M - what does it mean if my balls itch but theres no spots there is it herpes?...

Will my sexual attraction to my friend pass?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

25 January 2010 (F - HI ,, guys i had a post about me being in love with my best friend , since the post i have told him how i feel and i was rather shocked by his answer , and since then we had been getting even closer , thing is now , i am extremely sexually attracted ...

I disclosed details about our sex life and now she dos not trust me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

25 January 2010 (M - my girlfriend I were dating for 6 months. I lied to my girlfriend. I lost her trust. How can I get her to trust me again. We are broking up for about an month now. I want her to trust me again. She has stuff in her past that she doesn't want people ...

Do or I or don't I have sex with my 31y/o virgin girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

25 January 2010 (M - Hi all, I never thought I would come a cross this at this stage of my life and age, I meet this girl that I have been dating for about 2-3 months now, she is 31 and I am 40, she is great we like each other and I am not a starter in dating and se...

Archived Sex questions:

May 2024 (2)
April 2024 (2)
March 2024 (4)
January 2024 (1)
November 2023 (2)
October 2023 (5)
September 2023 (4)
August 2023 (3)
July 2023 (3)
June 2023 (3)
May 2023 (4)
April 2023 (5)
March 2023 (5)
February 2023 (5)
January 2023 (8)
December 2022 (2)
November 2022 (4)
October 2022 (8)
September 2022 (8)
August 2022 (3)
July 2022 (14)
June 2022 (11)
May 2022 (10)
April 2022 (13)
March 2022 (8)
February 2022 (11)
January 2022 (22)
December 2021 (6)
November 2021 (14)
October 2021 (10)
September 2021 (12)
August 2021 (14)
July 2021 (15)
June 2021 (6)
May 2021 (13)
April 2021 (12)
March 2021 (17)
February 2021 (9)
January 2021 (7)
December 2020 (11)
November 2020 (21)
October 2020 (11)
September 2020 (14)
August 2020 (17)
July 2020 (17)
June 2020 (11)
May 2020 (16)
April 2020 (14)
March 2020 (2)
February 2020 (10)
January 2020 (15)
December 2019 (18)
November 2019 (17)
October 2019 (16)
September 2019 (14)
August 2019 (6)
July 2019 (23)
June 2019 (8)
May 2019 (23)
April 2019 (17)
March 2019 (22)
February 2019 (10)
January 2019 (21)
December 2018 (18)
November 2018 (17)
October 2018 (22)
September 2018 (24)
August 2018 (28)
July 2018 (17)
June 2018 (22)
May 2018 (27)
April 2018 (25)
March 2018 (36)
February 2018 (13)
January 2018 (31)
December 2017 (33)
November 2017 (37)
October 2017 (33)
September 2017 (41)
August 2017 (39)
July 2017 (40)
June 2017 (42)
May 2017 (37)
April 2017 (45)
March 2017 (65)
February 2017 (61)
January 2017 (67)
December 2016 (44)
November 2016 (45)
October 2016 (69)
September 2016 (47)
August 2016 (39)
July 2016 (46)
June 2016 (52)
May 2016 (61)
April 2016 (60)
March 2016 (44)
February 2016 (61)
January 2016 (75)
December 2015 (69)
November 2015 (71)
October 2015 (55)
September 2015 (57)
August 2015 (79)
July 2015 (76)
June 2015 (51)
May 2015 (71)
April 2015 (73)
March 2015 (80)
February 2015 (79)
January 2015 (81)
December 2014 (57)
November 2014 (67)
October 2014 (96)
September 2014 (66)
August 2014 (78)
July 2014 (82)
June 2014 (77)
May 2014 (64)
April 2014 (68)
March 2014 (64)
February 2014 (79)
January 2014 (101)
December 2013 (111)
November 2013 (90)
October 2013 (82)
September 2013 (111)
August 2013 (138)
July 2013 (113)
June 2013 (114)
May 2013 (142)
April 2013 (163)
March 2013 (197)
February 2013 (200)
January 2013 (221)
December 2012 (167)
November 2012 (155)
October 2012 (218)
September 2012 (185)
August 2012 (228)
July 2012 (214)
June 2012 (231)
May 2012 (219)
April 2012 (203)
March 2012 (245)
February 2012 (231)
January 2012 (281)
December 2011 (261)
November 2011 (277)
October 2011 (293)
September 2011 (288)
August 2011 (354)
July 2011 (361)
June 2011 (336)
May 2011 (368)
April 2011 (523)
March 2011 (535)
February 2011 (512)
January 2011 (550)
December 2010 (510)
November 2010 (533)
October 2010 (566)
September 2010 (523)
August 2010 (633)
July 2010 (625)
June 2010 (615)
May 2010 (517)
April 2010 (503)
March 2010 (496)
February 2010 (565)
January 2010 (600)
December 2009 (574)
November 2009 (569)
October 2009 (535)
September 2009 (481)
August 2009 (642)
July 2009 (649)
June 2009 (599)
May 2009 (523)
April 2009 (670)
March 2009 (673)
February 2009 (685)
January 2009 (703)
December 2008 (568)
November 2008 (578)
October 2008 (581)
September 2008 (575)
August 2008 (632)
July 2008 (574)
June 2008 (585)
May 2008 (562)
April 2008 (603)
March 2008 (461)
February 2008 (388)
January 2008 (390)
December 2007 (335)
November 2007 (356)
October 2007 (358)
September 2007 (334)
August 2007 (458)
July 2007 (438)
June 2007 (343)
May 2007 (305)
April 2007 (339)
March 2007 (339)
February 2007 (257)
January 2007 (272)
December 2006 (176)
November 2006 (279)
October 2006 (276)
September 2006 (237)
August 2006 (255)
July 2006 (194)
June 2006 (176)
May 2006 (158)
April 2006 (145)
March 2006 (127)
February 2006 (108)
January 2006 (167)
December 2005 (113)
November 2005 (96)
October 2005 (105)
September 2005 (64)
August 2005 (48)
July 2005 (75)
June 2005 (56)
May 2005 (48)
April 2005 (77)
March 2005 (64)
February 2005 (57)
January 2005 (47)
December 2004 (12)
November 2004 (15)

Recent answerers

Youcannotbeserious agony auntHoneypie agony aunt
pepper agony auntkenny agony aunt
malvern agony auntmystiquek agony aunt

Browse

Recent questions
Recent answers
Unanswered questions
Most discussed
Most viewed

Age differences (5796)
Big Questions (35168)
Breaking up (29310)
Cheating (21851)
Crushes (5749)
Dating (84716)
Faded love (7479)
Family (22033)
Flirting (526)
Forbidden love (4518)
Friends (35201)
Friends with Benefits (1189)
Gay relationships (6139)
Health (18255)
Long distance (8484)
Love stories (2335)
Marriage problems (15834)
Online dating (5307)
Pornography (3041)
Pregnancy (8219)
Sex (40576)
Site News (167)
Social Media (438)
Teenage (41886)
The ex-factor (22490)
Three is a crowd (12763)
Troubled relationships (69132)
Trust issues (26916)
Virginity (4588)

Our other life advice sites

Parenting advice
Career advice
Financial advice

Stats

244976 questions asked.

241704 answered (99%)

4.43 answers per question

1084353 answers in total.

(see more stats)

Archives (questions in category Sex)

May 2024 (2)
April 2024 (2)
March 2024 (4)
January 2024 (1)
November 2023 (2)
October 2023 (5)
September 2023 (4)
August 2023 (3)
July 2023 (3)
June 2023 (3)
May 2023 (4)
April 2023 (5)
March 2023 (5)
February 2023 (5)
January 2023 (8)
December 2022 (2)
November 2022 (4)
October 2022 (8)
September 2022 (8)
August 2022 (3)
July 2022 (14)
June 2022 (11)
May 2022 (10)
April 2022 (13)
March 2022 (8)
February 2022 (11)
January 2022 (22)
December 2021 (6)
November 2021 (14)
October 2021 (10)
September 2021 (12)
August 2021 (14)
July 2021 (15)
June 2021 (6)
May 2021 (13)
April 2021 (12)
March 2021 (17)
February 2021 (9)
January 2021 (7)
December 2020 (11)
November 2020 (21)
October 2020 (11)
September 2020 (14)
August 2020 (17)
July 2020 (17)
June 2020 (11)
May 2020 (16)
April 2020 (14)
March 2020 (2)
February 2020 (10)
January 2020 (15)
December 2019 (18)
November 2019 (17)
October 2019 (16)
September 2019 (14)
August 2019 (6)
July 2019 (23)
June 2019 (8)
May 2019 (23)
April 2019 (17)
March 2019 (22)
February 2019 (10)
January 2019 (21)
December 2018 (18)
November 2018 (17)
October 2018 (22)
September 2018 (24)
August 2018 (28)
July 2018 (17)
June 2018 (22)
May 2018 (27)
April 2018 (25)
March 2018 (36)
February 2018 (13)
January 2018 (31)
December 2017 (33)
November 2017 (37)
October 2017 (33)
September 2017 (41)
August 2017 (39)
July 2017 (40)
June 2017 (42)
May 2017 (37)
April 2017 (45)
March 2017 (65)
February 2017 (61)
January 2017 (67)
December 2016 (44)
November 2016 (45)
October 2016 (69)
September 2016 (47)
August 2016 (39)
July 2016 (46)
June 2016 (52)
May 2016 (61)
April 2016 (60)
March 2016 (44)
February 2016 (61)
January 2016 (75)
December 2015 (69)
November 2015 (71)
October 2015 (55)
September 2015 (57)
August 2015 (79)
July 2015 (76)
June 2015 (51)
May 2015 (71)
April 2015 (73)
March 2015 (80)
February 2015 (79)
January 2015 (81)
December 2014 (57)
November 2014 (67)
October 2014 (96)
September 2014 (66)
August 2014 (78)
July 2014 (82)
June 2014 (77)
May 2014 (64)
April 2014 (68)
March 2014 (64)
February 2014 (79)
January 2014 (101)
December 2013 (111)
November 2013 (90)
October 2013 (82)
September 2013 (111)
August 2013 (138)
July 2013 (113)
June 2013 (114)
May 2013 (142)
April 2013 (163)
March 2013 (197)
February 2013 (200)
January 2013 (221)
December 2012 (167)
November 2012 (155)
October 2012 (218)
September 2012 (185)
August 2012 (228)
July 2012 (214)
June 2012 (231)
May 2012 (219)
April 2012 (203)
March 2012 (245)
February 2012 (231)
January 2012 (281)
December 2011 (261)
November 2011 (277)
October 2011 (293)
September 2011 (288)
August 2011 (354)
July 2011 (361)
June 2011 (336)
May 2011 (368)
April 2011 (523)
March 2011 (535)
February 2011 (512)
January 2011 (550)
December 2010 (510)
November 2010 (533)
October 2010 (566)
September 2010 (523)
August 2010 (633)
July 2010 (625)
June 2010 (615)
May 2010 (517)
April 2010 (503)
March 2010 (496)
February 2010 (565)
January 2010 (600)
December 2009 (574)
November 2009 (569)
October 2009 (535)
September 2009 (481)
August 2009 (642)
July 2009 (649)
June 2009 (599)
May 2009 (523)
April 2009 (670)
March 2009 (673)
February 2009 (685)
January 2009 (703)
December 2008 (568)
November 2008 (578)
October 2008 (581)
September 2008 (575)
August 2008 (632)
July 2008 (574)
June 2008 (585)
May 2008 (562)
April 2008 (603)
March 2008 (461)
February 2008 (388)
January 2008 (390)
December 2007 (335)
November 2007 (356)
October 2007 (358)
September 2007 (334)
August 2007 (458)
July 2007 (438)
June 2007 (343)
May 2007 (305)
April 2007 (339)
March 2007 (339)
February 2007 (257)
January 2007 (272)
December 2006 (176)
November 2006 (279)
October 2006 (276)
September 2006 (237)
August 2006 (255)
July 2006 (194)
June 2006 (176)
May 2006 (158)
April 2006 (145)
March 2006 (127)
February 2006 (108)
January 2006 (167)
December 2005 (113)
November 2005 (96)
October 2005 (105)
September 2005 (64)
August 2005 (48)
July 2005 (75)
June 2005 (56)
May 2005 (48)
April 2005 (77)
March 2005 (64)
February 2005 (57)
January 2005 (47)
December 2004 (12)
November 2004 (15)

Our favourite relationship and dating links:

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.421875400003046!