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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Conflicted... and want to air out some things on my mind

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - I've been seriously dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now, when we started having sex we were just getting to know our bodies and that was fine. Sex was exciting and frequent enough I guess. Fast forward and now for the past few months sex has ...

Should I tell my boyfriend I've never had an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - Yesterday my boyfriend and I were having sex and I randomly got lightheaded when we were switching positions. I told him and he laughed and said something like, "What, did you have too big of an orgasm?" I just laughed and didn't really answer. I ...

Will my boyfriend's hook-shaped penis cause long term problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - Hey im really worried i have a new boyfriend with a hook shaped penis it bends down and often after making love my tummy hurts im so into him and im worried can this caus long term problems with my uterus please help...

How do I become strong and start refusing this married man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 January 2010 (?) - not sure how to start and is not good and I know it but what's done is done and now I'm stuck. I started seeing this married guy at work and having intimate relationship with him at work only. This means only in the half hour of lunch being ...

I'm almost a year married but I've still not had sex as I'm afraid of the pain! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - hi i know the question i am going to ask is strange that i have. it is almost 1 year since i got married and still i am a virgin. i am afraid of sex, i think it will pain me. i tried many times but i failed, plz give me some tips, and help me. T...

How can you tell a guys intentions, when you date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - how do you now when a boy wants you for you and doesnt just want to have sex with you?? what would he be like if he just liked me for me? and what type of things would he do if he just wanted a leg over?? guys id appreaciate your help esp...

The idea of my gf giving a guy a BJ is 'hot'..should we do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - I find myself really fantasizing about giving my gf a MMF as of lately. We have discussed it as a fantasy and at times she says she wants one too, although she wants a MFF as much as a MMF if not more. However, we watch porn together and she is ...

Is having sex this soon sending bad messages to a man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I have been seeing someone for 2 weeks, and already had sex. It just feels very comfortable with him and I am in mid 40's he is 5 years older. Does that send a bad message to a man ? or is it ok if you both are really feeling were the relationship ...

I think I'm too boring for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - i have just completed hi school and i have fallen in love with someone. he isa ctually my first boyfriend.problem is he is too exeperienced and knows what exactly turns me on but i dont. is it possible for me to know what turns guys on .i feel too ...

Positions for the smaller man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - i love my boyfriend no end but the sex compared to my ex boyfriend is nowhere near as good.boyfriend has a smallish penis, 4 inches erect.it only just gets inside me and i can barely move on it as it will fall out. any advice on good sex positions ...

Are we seeing too much of eachother? Is this why I've lost my enthusiasm and sex drive? Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - I'm having a few problems with my girlfriend which are quickly becoming big problems! Since New Years we have spend only 2 nights apart from eachother, and it's gotten to the point where I am less enthusiastic to see her, and want a bit of time to...

Why can't my boyfriend ever cum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has never cum from a blowjob or handjob from me or anyone else. He also has trouble cumming during sex if the girl is on top (I am the only person who's ever made him cum in this position, but it's only happened once). The sex is ...

Sex? Or more? Just a fling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - How do i know if a guy who i have liked for a year now wants to have sex because he likes me in the same way, or he thinks its just a fling?...

When we have sex he never touches me anywhere

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i make love frequently but when we do he never touches my breasts or between my legs, have you any idea why this might be? I've asked him but he won't give me an answer he just tells me to stop being silly. ...

Do women enjoy a bigger "load"?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - Do women enjoy seeing a bigger semen load from their man? Is it pleasing to you? Especially when he is inside you, do you think it feels good? thanks...

I lost my sex drive after giving birth to chidlren

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 4 1/2 years, and married almost 3 1/2 years. When we first got together our sex life was omg amazing. I mean it still is....but annyway after our first daughter was born, my sexual drive was not like it use ...

What has happened to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - Dear sir, i m 37 years old man. i have two kids. i have already 10 years completed for my marriage life. it was nice. my probelm is i do my sex with my wife i s good and enjoy but now a days my penis is not erect properly and i do not do sex with ...

Is anal sex painful?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - hello all! i was just in a curious mood about anal sex. i have not tried it , but i want to. any tips? how much will it hurt?? (i can handle pain in general) will i need a lube? what does the guy feel during anal? is it like a vagina wet and ...

Will using a condom keep me a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - Ok here's another question for all of you wouldn't having sex for the first time with a condom on keep me a virgin? lol and plz read the question before answearing it ...

Is your first time really special?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - When people say your first time is special is that..really..true or are they saying its fun have fun..is it bad to think that i want to get my first time through so i can get the pain over with..idk i KNOW im 15 but it seems like its time to be ...

How can I get him to hook up with me again? He's backed off.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - So once upon a time (a few months ago) I hooked up with a guy friend and things were fine. He said he would want to do it again and all that but then someone found out and it caused a lot of problems. At that point he backed out, stopped talking to ...

Do you think he used me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - ive been getting to know this guy..he'd call and text me everyday..he even rang me and texted me everyday other day when he was on holiday. he made me fall for him and i actually believe that he liked me too.. i went to see him.. and ...

He doesn't act like we are a couple but I'm ready to have sex with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - Alright so i have a HUGE issue with my boyfriend. We have been going out for about a month now. At school he dosent really act like we are going out, just like we are friends. it bothers me a lot because i want a boyfriend because i want to feel ...

Does the penis lose its muscle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - I;m a 20 year old guy, and I have gotten to know this other guy a bit older than me. Well, I gave him a massage one day and it lead to a passionate play around. Him and I were naked together and his penis became hard in not time but mine couldn't ...

Is my sex life healthy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend and i have been dating for 10 months and we've had sex. But i was able to have sex twice in the same days and a half an hour after,is this good? is it bad? unhealthy? no? yes? please help...