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Archived questions from: 16 January, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex worries because of his size!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F - im a virgin and my boyfriend isnt, i have seen his penis before and it is rather big and thick, he has poked me a lot of times and the most with three fingers, is my hymen broken yet? and will sex be really painful with him seeing as he has a big ...

Sex isn't great with him, how to spice it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

16 January 2010 (F - Hi guys, ok so here's the thing me and my bf have been having sex for a while now and have done it a fair few times, though not millions!!! But it doesn't feel as good as I think it should for me. I mean yeh it feels ok but not as amazing as I ...

Caught wife with the vibrator by herself and didn't know what to do - what should I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

16 January 2010 (M - Been married for a long time and have a few kids. Sex drive for me has worn over the years, she can have sex a few times a week, seems like everyday to me. I can go a week or two before Im ready. Everytimbe we do Im always irritated because Im never ...

She never climaxes... and I can't understand why!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

16 January 2010 (M - so ive been seeing this girl and well shes 11 years younger, im 30, come on, do the math its quite simple! ok so we rock out together and have many things in common but i can spend hours and hours yes much oral then penetration and yet she never ...

Is she a woman or a man??? HELP!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

16 January 2010 (M - I'm totally confused and I just hope somebody can help me make the right decision. I met this girl at work about three months ago. It was her first week in her new job and we got talking on our break. We hit it off straight away. After a few weeks I ...

With this implant is it safe for my boyfriend to cum inside me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F - Hiya, I can't think of an intelligent way to say this so I am just gonna' say it :) I currently have the contraceptive implant in my arm. Me and My boyfriend have a great sex life, and on occasion we have sex without a condom and he pulls out ...

Hi mood swings drain me but I am crazy about him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

16 January 2010 (F - My boyfriend is 18 and I'm 21. I've never been bothered by the age gap, we get along very well and were friends first. When we first started sleeping together I'd just come out of a 2 and a half year relationship, and knew he was a total player, ...

What lesson can I learn from all of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

16 January 2010 (F - i actually thought he liked me.. made me feel so Special. He would ring and text me all the time but he then pressured into sex.. and i gave in and I regret it and hate myself SO much. He didn't even ring to find out if i got home safe or not.....

HE asked for a one night stand does this mean he likes me or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

16 January 2010 (F - this guy in mii class asked me to have a one night stand with him...oh n i aint in skool...so does this mean he likes me? that he wanted to start a conversation? or was he just a perv? n he never texted me/messaged me since i said no... but i really ...

SHe just wants to be FWB but I wondering if I should wait for things to change

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (M - Okay, so I am a pretty inexperienced person when it comes to relationships, well, really inexperienced, and this girl is confusing me to no end. So, I finally met this girl I liked, we got hooked up by a bunch of friends, we were both sitting on ...

Everytime I hug and kiss my girlfriend my body reacts and its embaressing ...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

16 January 2010 (M - Ok I'm 14 and i know some of y'all won't think this is serious and all but it is everytime I hug or kiss my girlfriend i get an erection and it embarrases me and I feel akward and I ant just stop hugging and kissing her because shell notice it and ...

We went too far too fast and now I feel resentful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F - i have been with my bf for 3-4 years, almost entirely long distance. It's so dumb to worry about but it's really getting under my skin recently how quickly we sexually progressed, especially after reading things on here like "if he's worth it/ if ...

I don't think he is into sex as much as I am

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F - My boyfriend just recently moved in with me dec 3rd. We have been together for over a year, we are both 20 years old and experiencing sexual problems. We have been sexual for about 4 months now and at first I just thought since he was a virgin he ...

She was my first, but I wasnt hers, and that makes me angry!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

16 January 2010 (M - She told me about one of the guys she has had sex with before me and Ive been wanting to kick his ass so bad. I saw him tonight and got so close but it didnt happen. She was staying with him when she got kicked out of her house and she had sex with...

A general enquiry about sex and pregnancy and timing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F - Lets say you have unprotected sex two weeks before your period is due to start. If you were to get pregnant would you still have your period that month...like two weeks after you have sex?...

After 5 years what is a girl to do???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We now have 2 kids together. I am worried about our relationship...it seems to be fading away slowly. For the last year he has been taking 30 to 45 minute showers. This made me wonder so I looked ...

Role playing...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

16 January 2010 (M - can you help us by suggesting role playing ideas! me and my wife are looking for some. some thing that is not off a filthy porn style, but of a nice fantasy....

He has NEVER gone down on me!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

16 January 2010 (F - So, I've been dating a guy for about 4 months. I REALLY like the guy and we have a ton of things compatible. The sex has been pretty good as well. He is really good at the actual act, but he is not one for much foreplay. He NEVER once has gone ...

I want an orgy but my boyfriend is dead against it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F - im a freak. i love sex and sexual experiences. recently i've been craving an orgy. i told my bf about this and he was -so- not into the thought. he said he didn't and wasn't going to share me, and vice versa. is he being selfish?! or did i ask for ...

I don't know how to approach my partner about a sex problem

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16 January 2010 (F - I have been with this man for some time, and I realize that I probably should have brought this up earlier. Now when we have sex he pulls out just before he releases himself and more often than not I do not have an orgasm. I know that for a lot of ...

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