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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Am I too young to have a baby?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Can I have some advice please. i'm 16 and with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. I have thought this through 100 times and all the aspects that need to be covered. I am also a trainee hairdresser, but I really want a baby. so does my boyfriend, ...

First time sex for both of us and now I'm pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. Several weeks ago he and I had sex for the first time (both of our first times as well) it wasn't planned, it hurt like hell, it didn't last that long, and now I'm pregnant. My dad found out and now he hates me because ...

I don't want him to get bored with me. How can we spice up our sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I'm finally in a relationship after 4 years. I decided just to take y'alls advice and just let my hurt and frustration, from my ex's cheating on me, go and now i think i've found someone i feel that i can trust 100% and i'm quite happy... Howe...

He don't want him to need a drink to make a move on me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - ok i've started seeing this guy about 4 or 5 weeks ago and everything is going well - i'm quite surprised at this because all my life i've had failed relationships and i'm not really that confident when it comes to relationships. When he's drun...

Why Men Are WAY Better Than Sex Toys

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Lila here ~ It seems like everywhere I turn lately, someone is talking or writing about men being obsolete or in danger of extinction. It’s upsetting, and I want to assure you it’s not true. Take sex toys, for example. Men will NEVER be replace...

How do I tell him I am ready too have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about three months and we understand each other very much. He is becoming my best friend and our relationship is close to the point when we can honestly say that we love each other. I know that 3 months are not ...

How do we get that 'naughty' spark, back again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - Ive been in a long-term long-distance relationship for over 3 years. We've had our share of challenges including trying to keep our sex life heated up. Our sex life has not been great for more than a year now. The distance keeps us apart for weeks ...

40 Days and 40 nights... Only 8 times Worse. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I have a couple questions about my current relationship and hopefully somebody has a couple answers. I'm 22 and have been with my guy for going on 2 years now. I have an extremely high libido, pretty much up for sex whenever and where ever. We only ...

Can one cultivate a sexual attraction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - Can one cultivate sexual attraction? If possible what steps need be taken and what are the odds of a positive outcome? ...

I've slept with one person, and been with him for 3 years. Yet I think I have herpes!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Hey everybody. Im seventeen years old and going through a tough time. About two years ago me an my boyfriend of 3 years slept with each other for the first time, and have been sleeping together since, at first using condoms and then after a...

Scared of Anal sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I'm 19. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year, and I've built up this barrier in our sex life. I'm afraid to have anal sex, so much so that I've made him believe I can't have it or I'll freak out. I know he had anal sex in his previous ...

She says after 2 kids I'm still too big and hurt her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - ok me and my gf have been togther for 4 years and our sex life is pretty much nonexsitent because she says my penis is to big and it hurts her everytime we have sex. Now im only 21 and shes 20 shouldnt she have some sort of tollerance after all ...

Erection pain!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - Ok so I'm laying in bed trying to sleep thinkin about just holdin my girl and fallin to sleep nothing special or anything just that, and out of no where for no freakin reason I got erect and I was like really freakin hard like daimonds and I was ...

My wife is very dry when we have sex...why is this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Dear sir/Madam when I had sexual intercourse with my wife the vagina of my wife it is become very Dry I can not move my penis in side the vagina so what you suggest me for my wife she has to go to doctor to check this thing please let me know ...

I feel really guilty...how do I come to terms with my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I just finished college, and my last semester was one I unfortunately regret in many ways. I dated a guy for two years and he broke up with me right before first semester ended. He was my first serious boyfriend, and this hit me pretty hard. We ...

Our first attempt at sex didn't go well. Was it something I did?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Last night i attempted to have sex with a guy i really like, he was hard at first and then he was only semi-hard, so we couldnt do anything. Then to top it off my friend almost walked in on us and he said "Well that just ruined it all together" and ...

Should I tell him how upset I am about the comment he made?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - When i was talking to my boyfriend about us having sex ONE DAY not anytime soon..and he brought up the fact he wanted it to be the most special thing for me and i couldnt say the same since he is not a virgin...i hurts i know i have talked about ...

Do other couples who've been together for awhile find it hard to stay sexually excited about each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Concerned about a lagging sexual desire. Been with b/f 5 years, he's funny, interesting and incredibly sexy to me but lately neither of us have been in the mood for sex. He's on blood pressure pills, so I understand where his problem is coming from; ...

Does the amount of pre cum affect conception?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - When my man gets sexually excited he produces ALOT of pre cum.. I was just wondering whether this could affect the amount of sperm which is finally ejaculated thus affecting our chances of conceiving? ...

I know she's had sex with others in the past and it makes me sad.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - i have been dating this girl for a few months now and ive loved her for along time and she has loved me for along time to a few years i think like 8 or 9 years and i know shes had sex with other people before we got together anyway i know it souldnt ...