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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Neighbours husband caught me on video with his wife. Now he wants a threesome!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - I have been married 6 years and have 2 kids, one is almost 2 and the other is 4 years old. My wife has been too tired to have sex for more than 8 months now and I finally gave into my urges. It was a hot Sunday afternoon two weeks ago and I ...

Do guys want experienced girls?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - I was just wondering...do guys prefer girls that are sexually inexperienced or do they like girls with experience. i personally have no experience and my friends say that they do prefer girls like that but im not so sure. do any of you guys out ...

I had a bad accident, will women want to date me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - I haven't dated in over 17 years and I don't want to be alone forever. I was nearly killed in a car accident when I was 24(I'm 41 now).I was a bodybuilder at the time,which doctors say probably saved my life.I was drunk(.33)4 times the limit....

How serious should I take it when he says we are not having sex, we are making love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Ok aunts...this is tricky...im curious how far am i suppose to go when considering the words that are said during sex...i know some talk sh*t when making out and it's just apart of sex...but this guy told me we weren't having sex we were making ...

Once we had sex he changed.Does he see me as nothing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Okay there is this guy that I really like. If you've read one of my similar posts I stated that he was ignoring me. I gave my virginity to him and afterwards he started ignoring me. I told him that I really liked him but he doesn't want to hear it. ...

He always needs sex but I need help with our son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - im 19 years old...i got married when i was 17.My husband is 26 years old, we have our first son together he is 6 months old.We been having problems for about 3 months i dont know if its my fault because we argue but i have to keep telling him to ...

We tried a couple swap but he couldnt perform, and now he isnt speaking to me!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - A new man I have been dating asked if we could try a swap. A couple swap. I agreed, out of adventure, and because I wasn't in love with him. We have a NSA arrangement, but not just 100% sexual.He talked like I was steady GF, and acted like it wi...

Which of us is at fault here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - I am really confused at the moment. I am married with three children. My husband is a very domesticated person and is caring. However over the last year things have got worse as we have a child with special needs who needs a special school. I am ...

His constant sexual innuendos are making me think he is just after one thing, I just want a normal conversation with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Hello Just wanted a bit of advice on how to take this guy ... Ok have been talking for a few months when ever I saw him, he works near me. He would always come over and speak to me whenever I saw him, we would chat for a while and he would always s...

Any suggestions on how to put some excitement back into our love life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - Hi Ive been with my partner for about 14 months now, we live a fair distance away so we mainly spend weekends and holidays together though we are looking to move in together soon. Thing is, we get on fine, but our sex life just seems flat now...

My teenage daughters found my husband's porn and our sex life has been replaced with his fetishes!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - After 18 years of marriage my daughters found my husband's porn on his computer, they were thirteen and fifteen. They informed me because they did'nt know what else to do. A few weeks later I was checking why insulation was on the floor and found ...

She said there was never any oral...what are the odds?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - i broke up with my gf after a year long relationship. after a week and a half she had sex with another coworker of ours about 4-5 times during a 3-4 week period. long story short, we got back together after she had her little fling and im ...

She just won't talk!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - I've been with my girl for a year now and I am so frustrated. The intimacy was great for the first of our relationship but has now gone completely absent on her end. I started noticing it about 4 months into it but did not think anything of it be...

If I can get her into it it's OK, right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - if i was in the mood for sex and my gf isn`t and i did things to make her horney like foreplay is it safe to assume i can proceed? if she resisted at first but then gave in then it`s ok? its not rape if she ends up enjoying it right?...

How do I prepare myself for anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Well i wanna have anal sex but im scared to.... Ive tried b4 but i think with just the little that the head has gone in it riped the sides and now every time i use the rr i sorta bleed but im scared more of the way it feels when the whole penis goes ...

My boyfriend is pressuring me to go farther than I want

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend wants more then just kissing..he gave me a hickey i didnt want it.... he is making me feel uncomfortable by touching me!!! and i told him to stop and he yells and says its like we are just friends nothing more... and he has slaped me ...

How do I bring up the subject without pressuring her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - Hey fellow agony aunts! I'm in quite a dilema. Im 14 soon to be 15. My girl friend is 15 and we both have been together for a while. Like 8 months. We've done nothing sexual just innocent kisses and making out. But for a long time now i've been ...

If I had came inside her is there a high risk of her getting pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has just gotten off her period 6 days ago, and has been on birth control for 5 days. (5 pills taken) We had unprotected sex but I pulled out. I am not 100% sure I pulled out in time though. If i had came inside her is there a high risk ...

Could I be missing a hormone or something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Okay so this is my first time doing this so bare with me...im 19 yrs old and i am a newlywed...it will be a year in December. I love my husband to death but i can count on one hand how many times we have had sex. not because of him but because of ...

My wife doesn't want to be touched anymore!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. My wife don't like to be touched anymore and she don't really care about sex anymore. What am I to do? My wife claims that she is so busy but she just go to school. I mean this situation causes many agruments and makes me wonder ...