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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why do I always seem to want sex when I'm a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Why do I always seem to be wanting sex even though I am a virgin? When I was grinding with a guy and I felt his boner I was about to explode, why? And another guy that I was grinding with had his hands by my bladder a little lower and that made me ...

It doesn't seem like a proper relationship anymore. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 years and we now live together and have been living together since March. We were both so excited at first but now my feelings have started to change. We don't argue or anything like that but I ...

Is a relaxed state of mind optimum for having a vaginal orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I've been told that having a relaxed state of mind is optimum for having a vaginal orgasm however i struggle to focus on anything other than cumming and how long its taking me, if he's enjoying it, if he's getting bored... Does anyone have any tips...

Do you think its important to know about your partner's past sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hey, Im 18 years old. I have been sleeping with my bf for almost a year now. The first time We did it (which was dumb on MY behalf), and everytime after that, we did it unprotected. He's a lot older then me..31. And has a 4 year old daughter. We ...

How can I experience female ejaculation during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - so i've always wondered, what is the best most effective way to have a squirting experience while having sex? i would love a detailed step by step or as close as i can get to it......

How can I please him and make it look like I know what I'm doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - its been a year since i last had sex , and i think ive found the one now , the thing is im a bit nervous, with my ex who i lost my virgnity to we only ever did the missionary position , he wasnt very passionate and we only had sex a few times, i...

Why does he go soft during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Me and my husband been together for 4 years, our sex life has been very good.but up to now when he foreplays and oral sex, and touches me, he gets really hard but when we start having sex he gets soft in the middle of having it.i get upset because i ...

Is anal sex safe while on my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - When i get my period,my husband likes to do anal sex.is it safe to do it ocassionally?...

I feel as though I've lost my morals...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I hate who i am becoming and i can't stop myself. I used to be the classy girl with a lot of respect for herself, but in a month and a little it has changed. I lost my virginity three years ago now and in the space of three years i had only slept wi...

Is she faking it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - is this even possible because ive read alot of places that its not yet my gf seems to have 3+ orgasm just of vaginal sex? is she faking it? ...

Am I pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - ive been sleeping with my boyfriend for a little while now, we always always use condoms as neither of us are that stupid not too. i have recently had an appointment with the doctor as i found out i had a water and kidney infection, although i was ...

Does my boyfriend have herpes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I need some advice about std's. I was tested for all std's late july and all my test came back fine. Mid August I started dating this man and we soon became sexully active. About a week ago he found a few small red bumps on his penis. What do you ...

Are glass dildos user friendly?

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19 October 2009 (M) - hi my wife like sex toys and i have been looking at the glass dildo and anyone got any comments on them and what the bst kind...

I think I need some reassurance here or just anyones idea

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi I'm 18 years old Throughout my life i have been through some sh***y relationships and broke up with my last boyfriend because he cheated on me I have gotten to the point now where i just want to lose my virginity (hopefully with someone ...

My boyfriend has a rather strong musk coming from his private area.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a rather strong musk coming from his private area. It is quite potent. I have tried to get used to it but its just...really strong (as I have said before). Is there anything I can do to mask the smell? Will cologne help? Is it wise ...

Possible hooker interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I recently was using the internet on my boyfriends phone and saw history of looking up local prostitutes and hookers. it caused a huge fight between us since he swore and will deny forever the fact that it wasn't him but i still don't beleive him. ...

I am in love with my manager who is 12 years older than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I really need big time help. I am in love with my manager who is 12 years older than me. When I first got the job this june i thought he was around 19 or 20 and he showed great interest in me thinking that i was at least 18 years old although i was ...