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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Was what he did during oral sex wrong?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

12 October 2009 (?) - ok so my boyfriend always wants me to swallow after giving him oral sex. he says its sexy and it feels better for him. so i dont have a problem with doing this, but just last night, right when he was about to cum, he PUSHED my head down and held me ...

Was he put off by no sex? Why isn't he calling anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hello I am dating an interested guy. He told me that he is interested and he was acting like that but also shyly. Normally when he talks to others, this person doesn't act shyly. He was surprised when I told him that I am a virgin and don't want to ...

Does he really like me? Or will he cheat due to his porn habits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi everybody. I've seeing this man for 2years and he never have girlfriend before.He is 30 years now.But I don't believe it.Its imposible never had girl before.Do you guys think he lie to me.And his family said that's true.He dating some girl before ...

Why does everyone say sex is so good?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Okay so I'll just come out and say that i am not a virgin anymore. There *phew* :) anyways I'm almost 20 and I've only every had sex 7 times in my life. This happened like 4 monthes ago with my no ex boyfriend. And I just want to know why does ...

Does every woman have the ability to have a g spot orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has recently taken a turn down a path of simply stressing me out and making me feel bad because I have never had one. He has said and done things to make sex not fun (that to have sex with me is like having sex with a doll or ...

Does sex play a huge role in dating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - How long do you wait for sex with a guy so he doesnt think you are a hoe or slut?...

How can you tell if someone is a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I work as an event host for local clubs and I meet a lot of club promoters. How do you know if he is sincere? And how can you tell if someone is sincerely interested in you and not just see you as a one night stand? I'm curious. Because I respect ...

Is there a dodgy underground sex trade?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - this is gonna sound like a weird question but does anyone know if there are any working girls who cater to very weird or risky fetishes-such as unprotected anal sex or scatophilia-the reason I ask is because I know someone who was threatened by a ...

My wife likes to pleasure herself, is this normal? I only thought it was men that played with themselves!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - hi we have been married for over 25 years and there is very little my wife and i have not done in the bedroom department. we both enjoy sex and are healthy. recently my wife is more into self please of herself, its something she as done for ma...

My ex only wanted to give me oral sex and now it is affecting my new relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - I had been seeing my girlfriend for about 9 months and although full sexual intercourse is not so often she prefers to perform oral sex on me. The first time she did it I thought wow very experienced and a bit much as we had not really been ...

My boyfriend told me he doesn't enjoy sex with me and thinks of his ex instead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi last night my boyfriend and were cuddling in bed and we got talking about our sex life, which i believed has been good so far, ( we have been dating for a yr now) he said he doesnt enjoy sex, even though its been yrs since he broke up with hi...

Does loving someone change the way sex feels?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi all, To the men out there, this is one I hope you can help with, although I'd of course like the ladies' opinions too. I have been dating a man for over a year now and have always known that he was sexually much more experienced than I am....

Troubled girlfriend looking for a way to make my boyfriend realize what he's got before it's gone...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is going through a divorce, but still talks to his ex ALL the time. They have a daughter together, so I understand them having to talk some, but not about how eachother's day went, etc. He is constantly texting when he is with me, but ...

He asks me over and then makes out with another girl right in front of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - this guy/friend i used to sleep with calls me and hes like please come see me..so i go over there were making out hugging holding blah blah i mean its obvious he likes me cuz he told me he cared about me and he thought i was so beautiful n stuff ...

Has he backed off because I said no to sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I've known a guy for 3 months and been dating him for just over a month. Three weeks into the relationship he told me he wanted to sleep with me and I told him I wasn't ready. He was ok with that and said he was prepared to wait. Ever since then we ...