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How do I bring up the subject without pressuring her?

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Question - (5 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hey fellow agony aunts! I'm in quite a dilema. Im 14 soon to be 15. My girl friend is 15 and we both have been together for a while. Like 8 months. We've done nothing sexual just innocent kisses and making out. But for a long time now i've been feeling a lot of sexual tension.And i want to start having sex. I get so aroused when im around her..and i really want to...i love her enough to loose it to her. I get so horny around her that she ends up comforting it in my pants when we are together. And i know i am young..but i feel that i am ready and i will use protection...but how do i tell her? how do i bring the subject up? i dont wanna seem like im pressuring her..its just that im horny ALLL the time and i just cant help it. CAN someone help?

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A female reader, Lola1 Canada +, writes (5 October 2009):

Lola1 agony auntI am certainly not going to be advising two people as young as you are about how to start engaging in sexual penetration. However, have you considered furthering the play in ways that involved exploring each other with your penis outside of your pants?

Perhaps if she helped you orgasm with her hand or orally or both (with you returning the favour) it will help to ease your sexual tension, while it builds trust and emotional intimacy. As a grown woman I can guarantee that it can.

Not only are you both too young for sex, but eight months is NOT that long a time.

Good luck.

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