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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Our sex life seems to have gone out the window...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Hello! So I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 5 months now and its all been going great until the last couple of months. Our sex life seems to of kind of gone out the window. As in we hardly have sex anymore. This makes me confused...

Anal sex is far to painful for me and I feel like a failure but I can't do it any more... help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life, despite him working long hours on most days. he's wonderful, like mr. perfect, and i really love him, but i have a really big problem. He's really keen on anal sex, but i've tried it two to three times, and ...

I don't want a relationship based on sex - how do I avoid this? Are we moving too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so I used to work with this guy for two months and well, that's how long we've known each other. When I first met him, I really liked him, a lot. And last weekend, he told me that he liked me since we met, and the day after,, he asked me...

Is she just on the rebound / bored? Is this moving too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - ok ive been good frends with this girl for a long time and she just broke up with her bf and me and her have hung out a lot the past few weeks just as frends like we go meet up with frends and get some drinks but last week we made out at my house ...

Should I have a threesome to not lose him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My live in boyfriend and I have been together almost a year now. We have a house and have been living together for about 3 months. When we first started dating, the "have you ever?" conversation came up and he asked me about my past experience with ...

I have fantasies about giant women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I'm not sure how else I can say this. I have a foot fetish, but on top of that, also deal with macrophilia, where I have fantasies of giantess. The problem is, I get extremely aroused by the thought of being eaten by a giant woman, or stepp...

Should I leave my wife and live with her sister?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I've been married for three years to who I thought was the woman of my dreams. Over the three years our sex life has declined to non-existant. I've tried talking to her about it but she just says that she doesn't feel like sex anymore. I've told her ...

Will having sex with him give the wrong impression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My husband and I have lots of problems and I just recently had a child. My husband has lots of lying issues and verb. abussive towards me..we my question is..I havent had sex in almost 6 months and I dont want to mess around with just anybody would ...

How do you know if your guy ejaculated inside you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My question is for the column: How do know if your guy ejaculated inside you? I recently had sex with my guy and we finished and he said "I came." I wasn't sure if he was telling the truth or not. 1 because I didn't feel it. 2 I didn't feel an...

After having sex my vagina is inflamed, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Is there something wrong with me? I had sex, not for the first time and now my vagina is really painful and the labia minora can be seen, its kinda inflamed. I don't not what to do. I am not under age but my mum would still go mental, help please...

Do girls draw a line between "it doesn't matter" and "too small" for a guy's size?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - Girls, would you think that there's a line that separates when a guy's penis size "doesn't matter" and when it's "too small"? Some girls have told me that it doesn't matter to her, and some just flat out told me it's never gonna work. (mine meas...

How can I show him I moved on from the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I will reach our one year anniversary soon .We really love eachother but he lost my trust a while ago. Four months ago or so, we had a break where he was sexually engaged with another girl.. although they did not do anything...