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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Dating 2 and a half weeks, he's tried every single time to have sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - This guy and I have been dating for 2 and a half weeks. I really enjoy being with him. The problem is that he is trying to move to fast to the sex. He tried to sleep with me on the first date. I told him that I didn't sleep on first date. We hav...

Should sex still be this painful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - hello, i have just lost my vaginity but before we have sex we have for-play so we can get prepared for sex afterwards. The problem is, is that we have had sex 4 times but it still realy hurts! It doesnt feel nice at all and it feels like friction ...

Is there more to it? or is it just sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - i am still good friends with my ex and he has moved on but i still feel something for him. although lately he broke up with his girlfriend and he is always texting me asking to meet up for sex. he says we are only friends but i cant help thinking ...

Me and my g/f broke up, and now I don't feel anything when I masturbate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Me and my girlfriend broke up in may and we had a great sex life. Before I met her I always used to masturbate and had good orgasms and when I met my girl they turned to great! It took me a while to even touch myself again and now I do I don't feel ...

I want to have sex but I also feel shame

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - i want to have a sex with my boyfriend,,and that be my first time...becouse im virgin..and i want it but im afraid...and also i shame my body...i dont know what i do????but i want that:)...

How do we get birth control pills without our parents finding out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - So me and my best friend were talking the other day about birth control we relized that we both need to go on the pill but nether of us wants our parents to find out we would be dead. She's in a long term relationship and is talking about haveing ...

I feel disgusted doing the sex acts he wants but I don't want him to leave me. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, weve had our fair share of ups and downs.. i love him to bits but theres one thing i really get upset about. Im alone alot, hes at work all the time and i see him almost 2-3 times a week. When i do ...

Was this rape? He's acting like nothing happened....

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Last night me and my bf were having sex he was behind me when he stuck his finger in my anus. He has done it b4 which i dont mind as it doesnt hurt me. B4 i continue weve always had this joke bout doing it up the bum. I always said i would never do ...

Should I keep trying and suffer the consequences of rejection? Or stay single forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - I'm nearly 40. My last serious relationship was 7 years ago. I was celibate for 5 of them. 2 years of celibacy was "self-imposed" because I felt that I needed to concentrate on myself. Those 2 years were great - I really widened my circle of friends ...

Is it crazy to want to see your man have sex with other women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Is it crazy to want to see your man Have sex with other women? It turns me on to think that my husband has sex with other women and it turned me on when we had threesomes. ...

Orgasm only during foreplay not sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - hi, im not sure if this is too open for this but i will give it a shot anyways. So every time i have sex i can't seem to have an orgasm. I can only during foreplay. Is something wrong with me?...

Married women: would this creep you out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 October 2009 (?) - OK, I know this question is going to sound creepy to some of you. For the other, more open-minded married women, I’m interested in what you have to say. My wife and I have been together, exclusively, for 25+ years, married for 20+. We have ki...

Should she be worried that she's pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - my best friend, had unproctected sex 7 days before her period but she says that he didnt come or didnt even get his pius in her but now she is 4days late should she be worried...

My mom is sneaking around with a new guy. I feel like my home isn't a 'safe place' anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - recently my mom divored my stepdad. and that ok. but in the middle of august she went on a trip for her work and on the way back she met a guy. i guess they got long. but the thing is.. that hes married. apprently arent going well for him an dhis ...

Was this incident sexual assault?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Is this sexual assault or acquaintance rape or anything of that matter? I had a long day and one of my best guy friends were sleeping over. He always had the hormones and hots for me and I liked him, but before the incident I was never the person to ...

He wants phone sex! Does that mean he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - so their this one guy i really really like you but then he never tell me how he feel:/ mmm he will tell me to have phone sex with him and i'll do it cuz i really like him i know its really stupid but thats how he makes me happy. Anyways do you think ...

Will I even satisfy her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 October 2009 (M) - Hi um... this isn't very standard for me. I mean, I've watched tutorials and what not, but nothing happens to me in real life. Not physically anyway. And I'm not one to ask these kinds of questions mainly because I've never gone through most of the ...

Can I get a woman's opinion on my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 October 2009 (M) - i was recently in Alaska working away from home for two month. Befor i left my girlfriend brought up the subject of our sex life and the lack of. since i have retuned we have only had sex once when she came home drunk from the bar. i have been ...

Do men have more partners than women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - how many people have you had sex with-I heard hugh hefner has been with 4000 women How unusual is that kind of behavior-is anyone here in quadrouple figures? I'm just curious-I heard men have more partners than women-is this true?...