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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Girlfriend lied about unprotected sex with other guys, now I'm worried I have an STD

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - Heyy, im 16 nearly 17 (male). Ive just broken up with my girlfriend and we were sexually active. We had sex a few times without a condom because she told me she hadnt had sex with anyone else. While I was going out with her I caught thrush, a...

I always think about doing it with a girl. Am I a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - for the past few years I have been masterbating and thinking of having sex with a girl but I have never done such a thing but it's always on my mind. I started having sex in early march at the age of 22 but long before I started having sex I always ...

What to expect with a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm planning on a having a threesome with two men this weekend. I'm really nervous and I don't know what to expect. What should I expect when I have this kind of threesome?...

How do I have sex if I'm not comfortable in my own skin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - hey guys. its a bit long, but heres the issue. its quite personal so please be serious and give some good advice. im 17, i have never had any sexual experience, mainly because iv never had a serious boyfriend. obviously iv kissed guys, but nothing ...

Submissive males: what about kisses after licking butt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I recently posted queston about submissive male. Well here is a new one Now He wanted to lick my ass and then proceed to the vagina is this safe. What about kisses after licking butt. Not trying to sound bad just new to all of this and want to know ...

Parents won't allow me to have sex with my girlfriend. Is there a solution?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 2 weeks. Nothing has escalated from kissing yet let alone sex. None of us are in a rush but the problem i face is. My GF's mum is away for a week, obviously my GF wants me to sleep over. My mum and...

How do I control my excessive sexual desires?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I have excessive sexual desires and I have no idea how to control it. I am 28 years old but there’s no sign of me getting married soon since I am still not financial well off....doing part time jobs here and there. Most of the time , I masturba...

What do the guys in porn movies do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - Hi. I m 21. I have a simple question. P.E is a common problem nowadays. I want to know what do the guys in porn movies do? I mean they keep it inside the girl for a considerable time and stroke at 90 miles/hr. How do they do it? Are there some ...

Do you think we are moving too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I've known this girl for about 4 or 5 months, we both felt extremely attracted to each other from the day we met (this was later established). we only recently began to hang out quite often and 5 days ago decided to start "dating". however, since ...

How do I cope with our libido difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now, and we've never had a particularly rampant sex life. By all means, we both enjoy showing each other how much we love each other physically, but in the past few months it's been on the ...

This hiccup in our sex life is getting to be a big problem...any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My sex life with my boyfriend has recently gotten to a point where there's a bit of a hiccup. He is frequently coming too quickly. In the beginning of our relationship this would happen every now and then, but a lot of the time we'd still have som...

I love him but I don't want sex anymore, I am not interested in being around him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I am a girl and I have been in a relationship with my first boyfriend for about one and a half years now - pretty much for the most part I have been at university, as I am now finishing my second year. However, I am finding that alt...

Does he want to have sex with another woman because he doesn't love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Is it weird that my boyfriend told me that he was thinking about me having sex with another man and how hott it would be? He said that he doesn't think he would actually be able to ever do that unless we both knew that it wasn't emotional and just ...

Is he being truthful or is he saying it just to get into my pants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a man since a year and half. We have known each other since 3 years. I have never been in a relationship before and I am a virgin too. Initially , at the start of our relationship every thing else was good except the sex ...

Is oral sex as bad as I imagine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - What does oral sex feel and taste like? Previously, I fingered a girl and smelt my finger after and it was horrible so I havnt even tried to use my mouth. Can anyone give me advice on what to do? thanks to everyone that hel...

Could too much sex cause his testicles to hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Okay here we go, I have a few questions all wrapped in one. Me and my husband are going through a rough patch. I told him I didn’t like him watching porn he said he would stop a week later I saw him masturbating to pictures of his ex. He said he ...

My husband finishes too early!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - ok first off all i love my husband we've been together for two years, im 20 and he's 27. but lately he doesnt please me, he finish waay to early. im pretty sure he knows because he asks me if im mad. i dont know how to talk to him about this im sooo ...

Will it hurt the third time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Oks o i had sex a couple times already. My problem is that on my first time the tip only went in. My second time only the tip but it really hurt and i got scared to put it all the way( i never had put it all the way). Ok so im going to do it my ...

Any tips on female masterbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - OK, I'm not in a relationship right now, and I'm having a lot of trouble lately with, to put it bluntly, being very horny. I can't stop thinking about sex some days, it's rediculous. Some people have suggested that to help with this to try ...

My boyfriend cannot get it off with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now. there's only one problem.. our sex life. for a year now hes probably only gotten off 5-6 times outta the plenty of times we have "tried" having sex. idk why he cant get off. idk if its me ...

Do you have to have sex in order to orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Do you have to have sex in order to have an orgasm? Why can't I remember dreams when I want to.......