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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My boyfriend and I had sex without protection, but I had my period. Could I be pregnant anyway?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - okay so me an my boyfriend had sex without a condom cuz we didnt have 1 like a week and a half ago. he pulled out wenever he was ganna cum and ive had my period already but cud i still b pregnant? because hes ben freakin out cuz ppl have made it ...

I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Hi. I have a dilemma. I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts. He's really sweet, kind, generous, loves me for me, I can be completely myself around him, he's dependable, smart and hard working with a ...

I made love with my friend in a moment of weakness. What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - okay me and my boyfriend have been going on and off for a year and a half. we always get in yelling fights and everything but at the end of the day its all better, but when we were in a fight i went to my friends thats a guy and he made me feel ...

Advice for getting around girlfriends mum ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - hi basically im completly in love with my ex who broke up with me today but it wasnt on our terms about 5 weeks ago her mum found out we were having sex and found out about a morning after pill had been taken she has completly flipped and ...

Will my boyfriend eventually get bored?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we had our ups and downs but have decided to stay together and work on our relationship. Our sex life is wonderful we both make sure that the other is properly satisfied. We do everything including oral and ...

Did I experience an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I just wanted 2 ask a kind stupid question, but oh well...well basically it first happened when my bf was rubbing me over my trousers, i got this amazing feeling which made my whole body get hot and it makes me feel so tight kind of ...

When can I take a pregnancy test?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Hi. So, here is my situation: my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex (stupid, yes) the day after my period ended. Ten days later, even though I know it is unlikely that we conceived, I feel weird. PMS-like symptoms, nausea/hunger, everything smells ...

Why is he so intrusive when we are only FWB?

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9 October 2009 (F) - i have this guy who ive known since i was 13 (im 31 now) and we've been friends w/ benefits in the past but now we're just friends. He wont tell me nothing about his own life... absolutely NOTHING but when it comes to mylife hes gotta know every ...

What does an escort do in bed? My fiance uses their services.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - I found out my fiance using escort many many times. He said the sex with them is simple. No pussy licking. Just doggy style and bj. Is this true? what exactly does really escort do in bed? ...

Can a lost tampon make me ill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - On Tuesday my b/f and I had sex and there was a really bad odor. My b/f didn't say anything because he is too polite, but it was definitely coming from my vagina. So after he left I used a douche. Yesterday we had sex again and the smell came b...

Why would he knowingly hurt me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Since I got such great advice on my last issue I felt why not try this again on another that is a bit more complex in my eyes... I met my boyfriend about 4 years ago at work and we were just really good friends for a couple of years friends with ...

Is there a big chance I could get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - okay so last night my boyfriend and i attempted to have sex but the problem is since it was my first time it wouldn't fit. we did use a condom and it didn't go in. is there a big chance i can still get pregnant. because i have an irregular period s...

In my dream I had sex with my sister!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - I am really really freakedout by a dream I had last night. It was so vivid it seemed real. And the sick part of my dream is that I knew what I was doing and with who and I didn't stop! I feel creepy this morning. I gotta find out what this dream ...

He bled during sex, what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - I had sex with a guy who is uncircumsised,and he started bleeding from his penis inside me... I am scared to death! Why did that happen? What does it mean? What should I do?...

How safe is a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - How safe is it to use the condom during sexual intercourse? Im' rather curious as some people do get pregnant using condoms at times....

I'm very lazy when it comes to sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - I am 22 and have been with my boyfriend whos 26 for 5 years....the problem is im very lazy when it comes to sex...he wants it everytime we see each other...but when i go to bed all i really want to do is sleep is this bad? my boyfriend is very ...

Pregnant and dreaming about sex. I woke up having an orgasm!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Hi my problem is a weird one............Im 10 weeks pregnant and in the last week, on two seperate occasions, I have experienced an orgasm during my sleep. I am having sexy dreams when this happens and I wake up to find myself in the middle of ...

His penis didnt go all the way in, could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Me and my bf tried to have sex but his penis cant really fit into my vagina, but it did went in alittle if i'm not wrong,while we were trying. But he took his penis away after awhile. Im just curious if I can get pregnant this way? cause his penis ...

Is it safe to use a vibrator when you are pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is 3 months pregnant and we are starting to introduce sex toys with each other, we have a vibrator but I was just wondering is it safe to use that whilst she is pregnant???...

I hate her but I want her to move in with us for threesomes. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - I have a problem. my husband had a relationship with his baby mom behind my back for some time. Now they have two kids. but before they had kids all three of us had threesomes (they were having sex before we all slept together). I miss having them. ...

Am I an alien?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - im 18 years old. i have been sexually active for about two years now, and i have had three partners. when i masterbate, i always make myself cum. and when i recieve oral sex, i always cum. but i have yet to get an orgasm thru intercourse. the other ...

How can I get the courage to buy condoms?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - Hi everybody i'm 19 now and i had sex 5 times till now with 3 different girls although i never tried to force any girl but being very much attractive i have few girlfrnds but do not date with them but every boy knows we can't deny if a girl proposes ...

Cheating or not? Walk or Play?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - So this girl and I have been hanging out, having sex, acting like we are kind of in a relationship, but never really stating that. It's been weird in some ways, but for some reason, I really might like her. Anyways, I went out of town and she slept ...

He says I'm amazing, but doesn't show it. Does he really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - hey guys! im 20 years old. I've been talking to this boy for like 3 months now, he's perfect, sweet, and stoburn there's times we fight a lot but we make up right after I have never felt so right in my life....problem is that he only says that he ...

Should I go ahead and do it already? I'm a virgin.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - I'm a 34 gay man and haven't had a sexual relationship yet. Being this age now, I feel frustrated for not happening. I have a kind of boy friend who doesn't want commitment but likes me and I like him, we've being seen each other but since I don't ...

Is it possible to be aroused by a girl who you simply don't see the sex appeal of?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - I have a new girlfriend and she is great. She is beautiful, funny, cool and I am really proud to introduce her to my friends and family as my new girl. I have literally never dated a girl I feel such a strong connection with. Everything should be ...