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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I am upset over his actions! What do they mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - i met this guy a year ago at uni and we were basically just having sex and seeing eachother and have been for the past year and in the summer he called me up and told me he liked me and that when we got back to uni he would like me to be his ...

I am starting to feel more possessive after our 'fooling around' sessions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - I'm 28 suffering from bouts of depression. Started talking to a friend over a phone who, I don't even like that much but, suddenly we started flirting. I went over to his place and we fooled a bit. No intercourse just oral sex. He does'nt love me ...

Is he a manipulative bastard or is he just afraid of his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - I don't understand this man. My once boyfriend then ex then friend then boyfriend is driving me crazy. . He wanted to remain friends and we did he was there for my every time I needed him when my other friends were not. We got close again,and once ...

Should I have sex with her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - Hi iv been out with my girlfriend for 3 years now and she is a little bit older tgan me and she wants to have sex but im not fully comfident with my body i have muscle but iv got a bit of fat on my belly only a little and it knocks my confidence ...

He wants to take things to the next level. Will he dump me if I don't?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - i am totally in love with my bf and he loves me but he thinks we should move on to the next step and that is sex what should i do? me and my bf have bein going out for 6 years i was in six grade and he was my brothers friend in 8th grade. i am 16 ...

Is it weird to love the taste of a guy's cum?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

4 October 2009 (?) - is it weird to love the taste of a mans cum? i have been giving oral sex since i was 14 and i have always loved the feeling and taste of when a guy would "finish" in my mouth! i was talking to my friend about it and she said that she would never ...

What is my ex really up to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - My ex and I were together for about 5 years and broke up in the beginning of this year. We slept together for months after the break up and were talking about getting back together when we had a few months of arguments and things fell apart. We ...

Can someone help me with several questions I have about my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - My fiance and I are truly in love, soulmates, friends and we are very attracted to each other. He arouses me and I feel very sexy, gorgeous and desirable when I am with him. He has a very nice size and this would make sex perfect but for some reason ...

What will be the effect of taking Viagra?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - Hi. I am 21. I want some help here. I ejaculate within 4 to 5 minutes after entering her. What will be the affect of taking viagra? Will it give me more time to enjoy sex?? Will it delay ejaculation? U want to enjoy for 20 minutes. Thanks....

My teacher offered to tutor me sexually. Does he have feelings for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - I am a highschool graduate who took a fifth year and just turned 19 when school ended. In January of 2009, I started liking one of my teachers. We started chatting casually over the internet throughout the school year and we really connected. He ...

Will I ever have sex? Please help because I'm starting to panic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - Hi friends! Actually I thought a lot before writing this message but finally decided to do it. Maybe my situation will very common and not interesting for you, but I really hope for your understanding and help. So I am 20 years old guy and stil...

Why would he want to cum on my face?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

4 October 2009 (?) - ok so i hope no one will be offended by this question, i am 16 and my boyfriend is 18. at the beginning of our relationship, he said he did not like receiving oral sex, he said "its just not a turn on for me" but then last night, he asked me to do ...

For how long should I keep it in my pants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - I am 22 and recently started dating again. I was with my previous girlfriend since I was fourteen and have not been with another woman since. I dated this woman a few weeks ago who had been on the singles scene and dated quite a few men. Anyway we ...

Will I ever want to jump his bones with lust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Okay, I love my current boyfriend, he is super sweet and so kind to me, he's my best friend, and I'd do anything for him. We were good friends for about a year before we dated, and then randomly started going out. The problem is I barely ever lust ...

Why don't my nipples get hard?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - So I was with my last boyfriend for 3 years and I never thought that I was particularly abnormal but now I've found he told his friends how my nipples were never hard when we had sex. I feel so self conscious about it now, I've just started seeing a ...

After sex I always feel guilty and disgusted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - Hello i am an 18 year old male. Whenever I have sex, Afterwards I always feel guilty and disgusted. Howver, having said this. I am quite a deep thinker and am wondering what this could all be. When I say I am a deep thinker i see things like gurus ...

Is it considered rude if you don't swallow?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - I just recentley started having sex with my boyfriend (we've only been together 2 weeks) so, i know people say swallowing is a way of showing them you love them. but like i just .. can't.. it makes me gag, so like, at a guys point of view, what ...

Could this be classed as consensual sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend always wanted to have sex, and when i told him no, that i didnt want to, he would would always guilt trip me into not actually saying yes, but still let him go through with it. Is that even considered consensual sex? ...

Is a blow job actually sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - im 13 and me and bf dont have sex but he fingers me and i gave him a blow job....is a blow job actually sex or do you have to put the penis in the vagina??? plz answer me soon!!!...

I don't understand how people have sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - This is kind of a strange question, but i don't really get how people have sex. Like, I understand the penis going into the vagina, and there are different positions, but then how can you tell if some one is good if that's all there is? also, i h...

How do you tell if someone is good; and what exactly are 'moves'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago