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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Over drinks my boyfriend brought up a threesome. Am I a drama queen for how I reacted?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - about two weeks ago my partner and a friend of mine were having a good old drink or two, when my partner suggested a 3 some and within seconds of him saying this my friend a girl, then came onto me. i responded at first as my partner was glaring me ...

He's not interested in seduction. Do I resort to a sexless relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - i have a fabulous and close relationship with my partner of 16 months. he is unfortunately not interested in sex/love making. the first 2 months was brilliant since then we probably have had 10 minute sessions about 4 times. i probably 'nag' a bit ...

Had unprotected sex and facing single motherhood at 15. Do you think he'll stick around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - okay. well me and this quy have been a on nd off relationship for a year and almost 2 months. we've been through hell and back.. we havent been together for a while..we juss started having sex like in september. well im only 15 and he's 18. we have ...

What can I do, my boyfriend raped me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - help Im 16 and my boyfriend is 25 andw when we were in his car he drove far away and raped me and he keeps sayind and texting he'll do it agian when hes not busy.It hurts and hes mates say and have tried too have sex with me help!...

Should I be worried about a heavy period after having unprotected sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Okay I had unprotected sex a week ago. My period was due to come in the next 3 days but it came today. It did the exact same thing last month only it came 2 days early. My period is pretty normal. I must admit I have been stressed about the ...

He took my virginity and then started having sex with his manager. Should I be in a relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i started having sex before we got together cause during that time he seem to be confuse.rite after he took my virginity lets say a few weeks after he started having sex with our manager but when he had sex with her he came out and ...

Urgent Help- sexually confused 18yr old male!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - I was going through a stage of wanking over gay porn for a while then as soon as cumming I imagine a girl or tits etc(I stopped a few days ago), and it is really confusing me because I find girls attractive and have only ever fancied girls but ...

Receiving retroactive jealousy in a marriage. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I am at the receiving end of an RJ of my husband...I have not seen any posts on what those at the receiving ends should do???? because we suffer a lot and dont know how to deal with it cos we dont understand wat is going on in the insides of our ...

I came clean to him about how I felt, and he still hasn't replied! I thought we were friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - i have been seeing a man for two years, i suppose u can call it friends with benefits, i have always felt he only wants to see me for a quicki. but we have built a good friendship up, i have had a 6 month relationship during this friendship, with ...

I'm afraid he will think I'm unattractive when he sees me naked!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Hi I need some advice ......Im a virgin...and a bit fat (13stone...5''1)...Im really self conscious about my weight...I want to have sex with my boyfriend .....but Im afraid he'll find me unattractive when he sees me naked??...what should I do...I ...

He had sex with me even though I asked him to stop, was I in the wrong in any way? Did I lead him on? And should I forgive him and meet up with him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - i know i was stupid so please dont have a go :( but i really dont know where else to go! i posted a question here before and got about 9 very good answers which i am greatful for! so i hope you dont mind me asking about this! about a year b...

I'm worried that he's just not into me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Worried about relationship, stress and lack of intimacy When my bf and I met, he was very accepting and caring, and we spent a lot of time together. We were like a typical new couple. He had some hardships and illness in his family. I s...

Should I stay unsatisfied for my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - every time we have sex I stay unsatisfied. I rather for him to make it quick just to get it over with. There is a time when its good but that's only when I can engage him to make it "rough" but he doesn't like to. What can I do cuz its really ...

Should I be concerned about her six months of promiscuity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - Lets assume I'm an idiot and a hypocrite. But... Should i be concerned about a gal who had six months of promiscuity. That is hooking up her senior year of college with guys she knew in six months. It's uncharecteristic of me but its getting ...

Her family hates me after I ditched the older sister for the younger one! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year now. I was friends with her older sister for a long time and her parents wanted me to hook up with her.. But things did not work out that way.. I got with the younger one.. Needless to say ...

Can I get pregnant from sex during my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I had my period on the 3rd of october, and it might sound weird to others but we had sex that day and he came in me, same with the day after and the day after that. my period last bout 7 days. and i was wondering if that could get me pregnant? its ...

Should I have sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and a virgin and my ex-girlfriend who is 15 had sex already ! I'm very jealous of her even though she told me that I should wait. She didn't so why would I do so? [Edited by moderator to improve readability]...

Will it be just as effective?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - This isnt actually a relationship question,but i cant seem to find any answers online about what to do if you miss the first pill in your birth control pack.I was late getting my new pack of birth control for the month.I was supposed to pick up the ...

I do all the work and he gets all the pleasure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - my live in b/f of two years won't touch me during foreplay or during intercourse. i do all the work, hell i'm the one that always makes the first move,and when i ask him why he says "i never give him a chance". i'm always sucking his dick until he ...