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writes:I was just wondering...do guys prefer girls that are sexually inexperienced or do they like girls with experience. i personally have no experience and my friends say that they do prefer girls like that but im not so sure. do any of you guys out there have thoughts on this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): The vast majority of the guys i know would never consider dating experienced girls (actually there's a much more negative word we use to describe them). I only know of two guys who would date them and have sex with them but they are "bad boys". Personally i prefer them inexperienced because i'm inexperienced as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): What guys want in a girl they're messing around with is one thing. What they want in a wife or long-term partner is something much different.
"Slut" is usually not considered a positive attribute and there is a reason for that. Most guys are a lot more into giving a girl experience than finding girls with a lot of it already.
Virgins just get crap because the guy is thinking "I won't get any for a long time, and even if I do she's gonna get too emotionally attached over it." But that doesn't mean they always dislike her lack of experience itself.
Think about the way tons of women want to screw bad boys when they are young, and then they get older and start chasing a "good provider" family guy that is totally different.
Like that, most men only want the "bad girls" until they're ready to settle down for a real relationship. Then they suddenly want something very different. With guys it's not so much about age but just the seriousness of the relationship. Sluts are for fun, good girls are for being serious with.
I know it sounds harsh but this is how our brains are programmed by nature. Just like how women don't usually dream about marrying a man who is lower social status and finances than she grew up in, not many men are dreaming about marrying a woman who used to be the town bike either.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 Sex ain't nearly as hard as people pretend it is. What most guys really want is a girl who is really into having sex with them.
And there is a VERY long thread on this forum from a guy who can't get over the sexual experience his gf has. A not uncommon complaint on this forum.
Don't worry about it, and find someone who loves you for whoever you are.
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reader, john wayne +, writes (6 October 2009):
no it dosent exactly matter to us
just work together with him to find out what he likes
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reader, LilPixie  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 It completely depends on the guy... Some will prefer experienced girls as they'll know what they're doing. Others will prefer unexperienced girls because they can 'teach' the girl what to do, and how they like it!
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reader, Illithid +, writes (6 October 2009):
 I'm a virgin, so I would have to say that I prefer a girl that either is one also, or has had fewer partners, but this is just because I expect to save my V-Card for the wedding night. I can't say for other men.
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reader, Rachel O +, writes (5 October 2009):
 id say that more men prefer experienced girls but some men do prefer girls that aren't so they feel there in control and some just aren't sure how to handle girls.
as caringguy says: it depends on the man.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 October 2009):
It depends entirely on the guy. Some like experienced girls because they know a bit more, some men can't deal with girls' past, so prefer inexperienced girls. It jsut depends.
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