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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Boyfriend won't go wild in bed, is he not attracted to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I`ve been with my boyfriend for a year now and sex has it ups and downs but he tells me that he will not go wild me cause he respect me too much. He doesn't do oral sex cause he doesn`t see me as an object. Is he not attracted to me or does he see ...

Old friend only seems to contact me when he wants sex or am I missing something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - hi, i have known this guy for about 20 years, im 37, he is 33. when we were younger we always met and flirted, and kissed a few times, but neither of us was single, so nothing happened. we both fancied each other but it never went beyond flirting. ...

I thought I got over being raped, why is it now all comming back again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - This has been really getting me down so I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice... 7 years ago a boyfriend raped me, I was 16 at the time and I took it pretty badly, I didn't speak a word about it until about a year ago when I told my best fri...

I had an erotic dream about my teacher!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I had a dream last night.. and I was having sex with my teacher!! It was my 9th grade ELA teacher, we are very good friends and we perform at musical events often. But the strange thing is I could feel what was happening, like I could feel what he ...

I feel awful and don't enjoy the hookers I visit..how do I rid myself of this sex addiction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - Hi Im from the UK and just want someone to help me about a sex addiction before it gets out of hand. I am a 21 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend and just feels lonely. I have hobbies that i do (gym a lot) but for some reason recently ...

Is my guy cheating on me, because I found a condom wrapper!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I live with my bf and we have a baby together. I am 21 and he is 53. Our relationship is going great Except that he works a lot and is always tired. I know the typical scenareo where a guy is usually cheating when He is working all the tim...

Think I've met ''The One" but I've slept with two of his best friends..help!.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I am 26 yrs old. I split up with my boyfriend in March, which was a mutual decision, even though we were both very upset to let it go. Since then I have been partying a lot, drinking and doing drugs to get out of my head. Not good! In June went...

Help with my boyfriend that's addicted to porn, but still has sex with me. I feel like I'm his sloppy seconds.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend masturbates to porn everyday. He still has sex with me, but it makes me feel horrible about myself because I am a very attractive woman that is in my early 40's. I look very good for my age. Men tell me all the time that any guy ...

I'm cheating on my husband because his sex drive is non-existant, do you think it could be due to his high blood pressure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I have been cheating on my husband, only because our sex live is virtually non existence - try no sex for 2 yrs and before that lucky if I got it every 3 months. We have been married for coming up 8 yrs now. I have asked him a numerous of times why, ...

Haven't liked oral in the past -- suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - i was married for 9 yrs. my ex husband went down on me and i didn't feel nothing it was not pleasurable for me. so i don't really care for receiving oral. my current boyfriend wants to perform oral sex on me but i don't let him. this is issue ...

I like my sister in law in a sexual way! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - this is about my sister in law. we are quite friendly. we used to talk many things and are free to talk anything. first place i love her as my sister and i have respect for her. she is elder to my wife and me. many times i saw that she kind of expos...

Need birth control and have no way to get it..HELP!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I need help! I know I said im 18 but im realy 16 but I need help. I need birth control and I cant ask my mom or anyone for them?? I need advice! please help someway. My mom's outa the question ...

I feel responsible for my cousin becoming a whore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - Ok when I was 9 years old I had sex with my cousin... twice. It was her idea to do it but I was curious so of course I didn't say no. I think she was 8 at the time. Of course being 9 It's not like it made me feel good or anything, I didn't get a ...

Confronted my husband about porn, Was I justified or wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hi guy,I wrote before about the porn lie problem. I told you about my husband denying that he watches porn. Well ,today I had conversation with my husband about that,He found on the history porn website that i was looking at,and he asked me if i...

First time sex...It felt good but not great. I'm wondering if this is normal.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so I lost my virginity lastnight.. And it wasn't exactly what I had expected. Like, it felt good, but not GREAT. Is that normal for the first time? And also, there was this pain, well I cant say it was really a pain, more of like a weird ...