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Archived questions from: 6 November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How do I 'ramp up' the intensity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - I'm dating a woman 10 years my junior who has a lot more experience than me. She has made it clear that she enjoys rougher sex (she revealed her safe word on our first date) but I don't really know where to start. My previous partners (and me, by ...

I'm ready to introduce sex back into our marriage...How do I approach my wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - Ridiculously, we have let our marriage slip into a nearly sexless funk for 2+ years. Our second child was born in January and we've only been intimate a couple of times since she conceived. We've always been pretty low on the libido front, our ...

I'm 14, and I love masturbating, but I cant orgasm!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - This is kind if a hard question for me to ask but I really like masterbating and like I will be in the bathroom for hours. I find ways to make myself crazy. but I can not orgasm!! is there something wrong with me I'm a healthy 14 your old girl. ...

My friends are talking about having sex, I feel ashamed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - ok this is a really embarrasin thing to ask but here goes...all my friends are 13-14 year olds but talking about already have sex, im still a virgin and when im with my friends it feels like something i should be ashamed of i dont know what to do ...

What should I do while my bf sucks my breasts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - what should i do while my bf is sucking my breasts? And i want him to go down by my vagina but as his never been down there before not with me or any other girl im not sure what he'll think? We've been going out for 2years now :)...

He said he would call after ons, but he didn't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I'm not normally into ons, but I was upset that night, so I was actually looking for someone for a cuddle and kiss, but I ended up at his somehow. We didn't even ask each other's name on the night, it seems like we both were clear it would be just...

How can I learn to enjoy oral sex more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Ok , this is embarrassing, but I have a hard time giving my husband oral sex. He really enjoys it and I enjoy the pleasure that he gets from it but I have a hard time with the taste and texture of the "fluid". I have even gagged on it, which is ...

Again I made the same mistake by sleeping with a sex worker...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - Again i made the same mistake by sleeping with a sex worker....and again i didnt enjoy it and felt sad and upset.... I t really gets me down.. however this time was different .... I again didnt enjoy it but this time she asked me ..... " You seem ...

How can he not like sex and prefer masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with someone, but the thing is, he doesn't like sex. We've had it before, but he says he gets bored and it doesn't interest him/ doesn't feel as good as masturbating. "Why should i do in a vagina, what i can do with my hand?" ...

I'm running out of reasons not to start a sexual relationship with my cousin!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - My cousin wants to restart our sexual relationship, should I give in? My cousin and i have always been very close. He is my best friend and has been all my life. But we are more than that. It started when we were teens and we realized that we liked ...

How can I stop my addiction and stop these fantasies running through my mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Hi everybody. I'm 16 year old and I have a pretty big problem. I never thought that I'd go through this but it has gone to this extent that I have to get external help. I am and have been addicted to pornography for about 5 months now. Ever since I ...

I'm on the pill but had sex briefly without a condom, is it still possible to get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Recently I had sex without a condom...well, started sex.It was only for 2 min (prob less) and we stopped but it still freaked me out.Im on the pill but im wondering if its still possible to get pregnant.I've never done that before and I guess we ...

Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (?) - I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about on...

I want to have sex on the prom night, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I want to have sex on prom night. And just b/c i'ts prom night. I can and i probably will. My b/f is sweet and hot and prom is the perfect time to do it. What do you think? He's coming from out of town and i wanna make it special. any tips t...

Can anyone help me, or give me any advice on changing the way I perceive sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I have always had a problem with sex, it was something I'd quite happily let guys do, but it was something I let happen to me (hoping there was a hug and the end), rather than something I felt part of. I got together with a guy 8 years ago. We'd bee...

How long should I date someone before expecting a kiss or more...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I just wanted to know how long after dating someone in high school should I try to kiss them. Also How long after going out should I start hinting about sex. You know? Like indicating that we should. Not saying thats what I'm out ...

Do I need therapy after being sexually assaulted or is it possible that I have gotten over it and won't need therapy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I was drugged and raped by someone I just met whilst unconscious when traveling alone last year. I can recall everything prior to falling unconscious, once during (somewhat blurry and brief), and can remember afterwards when I wake to find him next ...

Have I got a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - Whenever i masturbate i use three fingers, is that a problem? and also i come in like 25 seconds i'm quite worried and i really would like some help....

What can I do to help her get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, "Nicole", for almost a year now. I have had one previous girlfriend, "Molly", who I dated a few years before Nicole. I'm Nicole's first real boyfriend and she is very turned off by the fact that Molly and I had an ...

Why am I losing my sexual attraction for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. Things have been good between us. I think we have a pretty good relationship. There is only one problem. Lately I do not feel sexually attracted to him. I am usually a very sexual person ...