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Archived questions from: 17 November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I get overly excited with my bf...and it's embarrassing! Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Um, so, this is very embarassing. But I can't ask for advice anywhere else but on the internet, because, well, it IS way too embarassing. So, to get straight to the point, I've been dating a guy for 2 months. We've grown really close together, ...

I have had unprotected sex for 5 months and not fallen pg, does this mean I cant have kids or something?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, hes 23 years old, ever since we got together we havent used protection once, i dont have to worry about STD's because we have been tested and we are both okay. the thing is i dont want ...

Sex with the perfect guy....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

17 November 2009 (?) - Me and the guy I am with have been together for a little over a month now. He is a great guy, he makes me feel good about myself, he's ready and willing to do something with his life, and he has a lot of traits I am personally attracted to, he's ...

Can I get herpes from giving him a hand job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I met a 46 year old man the other night and I am 23.... We ended up making out and things started to go further and he told me he has herpes on his genitals. He said it was over for me to give him a hand job but not oral. So I did. He was not ...

Could this cause pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I just registered now and really need advice. I recently bought two types of condoms to try them out. Anyways, had sex with my gf using one kind... funny thing is that it was smaller. I hadnt cum and my gf asked me to remove it and use the othe...

My boyfriend loves me but wants sex with other women!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey guys so ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. we both love each other very much and weve had a happy time together, but recently an issue has got in our way. He's only admitted it once before and somet...

I don't know what to do. There is no romance in my marriage and I am seeing my old girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Good day 49 years old man been married for 21 years. Have three children 15, 18 and 19. My wife and I have made love three times in the last ten years. She won't discuss the problem or seek help. Full stop. I have gotten very down about it at time...

I am a virgin. Should I sleep with my boyfriend of 5 weeks?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - ok, im a virgin, my boyfriend of 5 weeks is not, he wants sex (he's 17). I want it so bad, when im around him i feel safe and happy. (i come from a background with alot of abuse and so does he but he has been drinking and smoking since he was in ...

How long will my boyfriend stay in jail for assaulting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - am 17 years old and i was dateing this guy who is 19 years old. we currently brok on saturday. because the police arrested him for hitting me on the street i guess people saw him hit me so they called the cops so they arrested him becasue i am a ...

My husband has no sexual desire and can't keep an erection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - How can you find out ,why your husband has no sexual desire, and losing his erection? How do you know know if it's psychological? ...

What was this thing I found in my panties?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old now... but a few years ago when i was about 14 on holiday i woke up and had this thing i cant explain in my knickers, it was kind of big, it looked a bit like a fetus, but the thing is i was a virgin at the time so i dont understand ...

I can't orgasm unless I am thinking of my fantasy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend love eachother and have been together for almost a year. everytime we have sex its good and i enjoy it, but i can only seem to orgasm when i think of this fantasy, it leaves me feeling guilty after because i should be thinking of ...

Does the number of x's at the end of a message mean anything?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey, Id just like everyones opinion on this very controvertial topic! Now everyone says 'dont be silly and count the number of x's; nobody uses that as a way to say if they like someone.' But they do. Atleast everyone did a lot when we were younger,...

Should I continue to feel frustrated, or is there a simple solution to our sexual differences?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I'm in a relationship with the sweetest man I've ever met.He is thoughtful caring and loving,but the problem is he doesn't care to make love.He says were at different stages in life where I'm in my 30's and wanting intimate love and he is 40 and not ...

What should I choose, earth shattering sex or the great looking guy who is not so good in bed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Which one should I choose earth shattering great sex you know the kind that brings a tear to your eye and make you pull out the hairs on your head and ok looks or do i choose that guy when he walks in the room everyone creams their pants. You know ...

Female Ejaculation Problems, Help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - So I've been attempting to masturbate for a while now to see if I can have an orgasm since I haven't experienced one with a partner. I watched a video explaining tips on how to ejaculate, so I start masturbating and I reach that point where I'm ...

Its exhausting to try and be everything that he wants!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I have a question for all of you to try and answer. I have been dating the same boy for over a year now. Things started out great and still are. But when we are in bed, I don’t feel as close as we used to be. He goes in and out of phases with wha...

Why do I want to see him have sex with another woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I moved out a month ago because my boyfriend felt caged in and wanted out frankly so did I. He wants to have sex with other women and wants me to be tolerant. I do not believe that he can or wants to establish boundaries with these women that would ...

I'm a virgin and desperate to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - i am a guy of 18yrs old am still a virgin and i have a girl-friend i keep telling her about sex but she ignores me and i need it desperately what can i do to have sex?...

Help! What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Every time after I have had sex or maybe a few days later, I get this water fluid that comes out of my vagina, it feels like I'm bleeding to death when it happens but when I check its just cloudy water that leaks quite a lot... could this be a sign ...

He said I just don't turn him on!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Ok first thanks for taking the time to read this. This guy and I started an exclusive relationship a little over a week ago. He has a hard time staying hard during intercourse, and I am very patient with him and I continue to rub him and kiss him to ...