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Archived questions from: 2 November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Ideas on how to take the 'roughness' futher.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - So, I'm new here and this is my first question. First, thanks in advance for any advice that is given. Here goes, I'm 24. I'm very happily married with two gorgeous children. I always thought things were as close to perfect as my wife and I co...

I want to be sexually active but put my defences up before anyone can get close. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I'm eighteen and I still haven't lost my virginity. I want to become sexually active but I freeze up whenever a potential opportunity arises, and just feel really nervous and uninterested. I always assume guys are just after one thing, and put up my ...

I want my girlfriend to try new things to spice things up!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - My wife doesn't like: anal sex (tried once too painful), deep throating, facials or cum swallowing (the last three only on rare occasions, very rare. I don't need her to compromise and do them all, all the time, but wouldn't it be fair for her ...

Why is porn regarded as such a bad thing in couples?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - i just have to ask peoples opinions on this, why is porn such a no-no when it comes to couples? my partner and i enjoy naughty weekends where we explore our kinkier side and watch and make our own porn (to be viewed by only us i stress!!) but i hea...

We only have sex according to a schedule. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - I'm 37 and been married for 9 years. My wife and I went through a rough spot. During that time, she stopped having sex with me. I was hurt. Part of the outcome of marriage counselling was the agreement that we would have a schedule. Wednesdays, ...

How do I get a No-Strings-Attached Relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - Ok without going into the reasons why I want one and the up- and down- sides of it: I want a sex buddy. So how do I get one? I can't (and don't want to) ask exes or female friends. How do I even let a women know that's what I want, without co...

Why am I hurting down there?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few months ago, and the area between my vagina and bum hurts, and it has been for about 3 days now. Is this normal? Please reply....

I want to enjoy sex, but he's too big!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - My new partner is also a dear friend of mine. Over the weekend we met up and when we came to "doing it" he was too big for me. We had done foreplay beforehand and he was reassuring but i want to be able to enjoy it without it hurting, any advice?...

Am I ok for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - ok well my penis is a little over 4 inches and with that i have no confidence am i ok for sex?...

My daughter is ten! Is this sexual role play normal?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

2 November 2009 (?) - my daughter is ten and is friends with a girl the same age. my daughter told me about a year ago that her friend masturbates in their class at school (which i have since told the head teacher) and has now told me that this girl has been role playing ...

How can I be loose when I am still a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was minimally edited for spelling and grammar to improve legibility.] I'm worried. Basically I'm a horny girl. I can't help it, I think I'm more horny than a guy. Anyway, I masturbate a lot, like in one go, 3 times and ...

He only wants to have sex doggy style...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Hi This might sound really weird. my boyfriend and i have been sleeping together for 10 months now, and what weird about it, is he only wants to have sex doggy style,( i enjoy it too) but ive tried to get him to try different positions but h...

I can't eat or sleep for fear she's cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - Now that i am aware of my fiancee cheating on me at least once in the past I keep getting paranoid that she is still being unfaithful. Since i called her out on cheating on me (around 3.5 months ago) sex and anything of the nature has been almost ...

My girlfriend has rejected me sexually for over 18 months...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - For well over a year my gf has been cold towards me. Some of this I explained in my earlier question - not allowing me to say I love you or express my feelings to her etc. Also she as rejected me sexually for nearly 18 months. At the start she used ...

Misbehaviour with sister-in-law...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - I am 20 yr old. I used to have fantasies for my sister in law who was elder. I started touching her whenever i got chance. But one day she asked me why i was touching her special parts. I understood that i was caught. I became pale. Then she was ...

I can orgasm with my vibrator but not with a man... why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I have this problem that I'm not really sure how to overcome. I know what I should do but maybe need some advice. I hope this isnt too descriptive or anything.. So I'm in my early 20's and I've never been able to orgasm with a male there. I've...

What could these tiny white lumps be? Are they normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - Hi, i'm a male 17 years of age and im bi. i have had sex before with both guys and girls but my problem is my male friend who i have slept with before wants me to shave the pubic hair around my penis. so i did this and noticed some tiny white lumps ...

Is she avoiding sex? How do I take things to the next step?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - Ive been seeing this girl every weekend for about a month and a half. we live a few hours apart. we stay at each others houses in the same bed when either of us visits. she acts interested in me. I want to have sex with her, but every time we hang ...

He's too big for me to give him oral sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I love my husband very much and want to do whatever I can to make him happy. He does NOT try to make me does this, it's just I want to be able to do for him as his wife. I have gave other guys head and never had a problem untill my husband came ...

27 and never had a blow job!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - I'm really embarrassed about this but I've never had a blow job or been masturbated by a girl before. I'm 27 and cannot get a girlfriend no matter what I try. But all my friends, even girls, have indulged in this. I'm really ashamed by it. I am a ...

My husband does not want to have sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - My husband does not want to have sex. I AM 37 AND HE IS 34, he does not desire any kind of intimacy. ... nor put his head on my shoulder when we sleep, nor any of the normal ... ?...

How do you give love bites?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm still a virgin and me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex soon. I just wanted to know how to make love bites (hickey )....and how can i make our sex enjoyable so that my boyfriends keeps on asking for more sex.........

I am messed up here...what does this guy want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, I am so confused about a guy i am seeing. We have known each other about 3months and have met up a few times for casual sex. but he says he wants more than this, and is depressed about not being in a relationship. he usually says this by ...

Embarrassed to see a doctor about possible damage from anal sex! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I had anal sex for the first time, and we did it with out lube i said I would try it but it hurt so much i couldnt take it, but my bf wouldnt stop , now im bleeding and in pain but i'd be to embaressed to go see a doctor about it, could i really be ...