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Archived questions from: 18 November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why won't any man have sex with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I am a female in my early twenties. I have been told I am attractive. I am slender yet have nice curves, a very noticeable smile and nice long hair. I am educated, intelligent, well mannered and have been told I have a great personality and a fa...

My husband and I are usually miserable. Is it worth fixing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - ive been married for two years and with my husband for almost 6 years all together.. i love him . but all we do is fight. the sex life is terrible and we have good days were we are happy but most of the time we are miserable.. should we call it ...

I'm overwhelmed by condom selections! Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Hey, Me and my girlfriend are thinking of having sex. And it sounds embarrasing, but when i looked in the shop for condoms, i was completely confused on how many different types there are. Can anyone help me out, and tell me the best 'DUREX...

I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...

The woman I love is there, but ignoring me. How can I reach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Just over two years ago I met the most incredible and beautiful woman. She is a professional Dominatrix and I had sought out her services to indulge some 'kinks'. However, we hit it off and never did anything professionally. We became really good ...

I feel so stupid because I fooled around with this guy at work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I need some help, I feel so stupid. This is long - sorry. Me and a guy at work have been flirting for a long time I have always said never to a work thing but one day we were both working late and one thing let to another and we kissed, a bit la...

Why do women sleep with married men?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

18 November 2009 (?) - Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...

I haven't been myself lately and I am worried I am pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year he is 24, we are in love and are very close. there have been a few times over the past few weeks that the condom split...i put it to the back of my mind and told myself i'll be okay. ...

My boyfriend thinks I am too young to be the mother of his baby.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - i am a virgin and would love to have sex with my bf and become his child's mom but my bf says that i'm very young to be the mother of his kid and he would make me pregnant only aftr i finish my college but i want it rite now and i have gone mad ...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

I was MIA for 6 weeks, but she broke up with me for an older rich man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - So I've been seeing this girl for over a year. The status of our relationship has varied from lovers,to close friends, to 'just friends' to 'seeing each other.'. Around 6 months ago we broke off our relationship to become just friends. After ...

He can masturbate without a problem but when it comes to sex he cant keep it up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - This coming Friday is mine and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary. I've been living with him for a while now and I love him so much. He means everything to me and we can talk and be together all the time and never get the slightest bit tired of each ...

I love her dearly but really don't know if the feeling is mutual anymore

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I am a 47 year old male, my partner is 32 we have been together for about 12 years now and have a lovely six year old daughter. I tell her i love her everyday,she only says this if i have said it first. if i go to cuddle her its as though i am in he...

Am I wrong to be unhappy with my girlfriend performing Burlesque shows?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - hi recenty my girlfriend started doing burlesque shows. i think it's just a way for her to get on stage and strip to her under wear and talk dirty with a room full of strangers. is it wrong that i don't like it, i haven't told her out right ca...

I want to stop cheating but my boyfriend doesn't satisfy me sexually!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (?) - hi evry one i have a serious problem,my boyfriend have got sex problem first i thought may it was me then i cheated with another guy but dat guy was fine.i love him and i want to stop cheating but my problem is he don't satsfy me,i have tried ...

I realised I couldnt trust my boyfriend but only after we had unprotected sex! How do I move on from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I feel completely betrayed. I was dating a guy for six months and thought i could trust him. He started doing things that made me believe otherwise. So I broke it off, then I realized we had sex a couple of times throughout our relationship ...

When is this man going to feel like having sex with me? I'm considering an affair just to get some action!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - im tired an sick of my sexless relationship! I have been with my boyfriend for almost 10 years now. we have a 15 month old baby together. we r not married yet (dont ask) He is been working a lot lately, and I do understand that, but I do too, as ...

Is he too dominant in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - i think maybe my bf is to controling in bed. wen we have sex he is always moving my body into positions and he dont ask me if stuff is okay. sometimes he pushs my head to his penis and then holds it there and then he thrusts. sometimes this hurts ...

Getting it up (first time)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Hi people, I have a concern I'd like to get input on. I'm 18-22 and a virgin; I was about to have sex several times after making out but every time I couldn't get a full erection, or of I did, it fell off quickly..I just didn't seem to be that ...

I've got a boyfriend now so how can I stop this urge?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and i have a problem and i need help. well in the past i had this one guy that i gave blow jobs to and now that im in a relationship i have nothing else to give because i love the person im with. so one day they asked me to come over but i ...

Make up sex! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Why is it that every single time that me and my fiance have a falling out we always end up having make-up sex? I've told him before that I think he chooses to bring up an argument a lot of times is just so we can have sex. And sometimes this makes ...

A bad experience in bed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I had an experience in bed the other night and I am not sure how I should react to it. I was having sex with my boyfriend, I was lying on my stomach and he was on top of me. We were both very drunk. Then he stuck it my bum. I dont know whethe...