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Archived questions from: 13 November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How do I give a good hand job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - i need some tips on how to give a good hand job? what do they like? thanks x...

Should I trust him again and move forward,or cut my losses and go home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have been involved with someone for 8 months. Going in, we discovered early on, that we needed what each other had to offer. We were both burned from previous relationships, and genuinely were grateful to have found each other. I told him about ...

Are these reacurring sex dreams a sign that I am a pervert?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - I have been having reacurring sex dreams of me and my 15 yr old niece. When they happen i wake up in a cold sweat. Once i even ejactulated while i was dreaming. I would never do anything with my niece and now if i see her or talk to her i feel ...

Late period, and pregnancy test is negative! What do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I just took a pregnancy test because I'm over a week late for my period, the test was negative... Should i take another one? If yes how long should I wait? And what should I do? I'm normally not this late!...

I really like him but am trying to decide if I should have sex with him, as he has suggested.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have fallen head over heels for a guy I work with, we both fancy each other but I am shy and he doesn't want a relationship, we have kind of just been flirting and having the odd kiss and "grope" now and again, after work or sometimes at work, he ...

Finding out my gf's family secret is really 'eating me up inside'! How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - Recently I found out that my girlfriend of 5 1/2 years was molested by her brother from the 3rd grade through middle school (she was 9 and he was 14 when it started). Her brother and I met in our freshman year of high school and have been best ...

He orgasms so quickly!! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have a question which might sound sad, but I have been meeting this guy on and off for a while and we have kissed and on the last few times he has asked me to give him a hand job, the first time, he came quite quick and I was surprised but the ...

Did you go against your christian beliefs and have sex before marriage? Input needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 November 2009 (?) - This question is for practicing Catholics or christians who were taught that sex before marriage is wrong. I want to hear from those who have went against what their churches teach and have had sex before marriage and have happy marriages. I'd ...

Nausea, fatique, body aches...am I pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I've been feeling nauseous just about all day for the past couple days. I've also had head and body aches, and have been more tired than usual. My period isn't expected for another two weeks or so, but I'm worried I might be pregnant. Could I be ...

Everytime my boyfriend has sex with me, his penis gets soft.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost 2 months now, and about 2 weeks ago we were having sex and his penis just got soft. He completely satisfies me sexually, I mean he even makes me squirt. He tells me that it is a turn on for h...

I need help on how to initiate sex and make him to want me more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - hi im a 22year old female, im going out with a 34 year old male, iv always gone for older blokes, im a confident person, im a big girl, i always have been, problem is i dont have alot of confidence in the bedroom department. i dont 'dare' make the ...

Friend with benefits, why is this such hard work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - A few months ago I saw this guy I knew of through a friend while I was on a night out. Wouldn't have normally spoken to him but he spoke to me and we had a dance and a kiss and swapped numbers. The next week he text me literally non stop and we ...

Why does my boyfriend want sex all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - y does my boyfriend want sex all the time and am not confortable with that...

My boyfriend's sex drive has decreased dramatically and I cannot figure out why!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm going out with my boyfriend for nearly four years and love him to bits in every way. Over the last year his sex drive has decreased dramatically and I cannot figure out why I'm every bit as attracted to him as I was from day on...

He doesn't like using condoms and says if I get pregnant, so be it!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Hi All, Im 19 and have a 23 year old BF, I love him very much and he loves me too. The problem is he doesnt like using condoms, Im not on any form of birth control and I dont want use any, except condoms as I feel more safe. I really DONT want a ...

How can I please her to the point of orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - So my question is, i've only had sex with one girl, so i'm not "experienced" like that. How can I please a woman to the point where she could have an orgasm? I heard something about an inch into the vagina, if you put your finger in there and touch ...

We can only make ourselves come... are we just too focused on each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - neither my boyfriend or I can orgasm though sex,manual sex or oral - only with ourselves lol. We are very much in love, very comfortable with each other and very open. He is slightly older and pretty experienced (used to be a bit of a playe...

My husband is useless in bed...is he gay, masterbating or what?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I need more help with this ongoing no sex at all with my husband of 9 years it's been over 2 years since he has even tryed, and when he did it was only because he knew we were in serious marriage trouble becasue i had him go wityh me to a ...

47 year old with the sex drive of a 20 year old...WHAT DO I DO?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - i dont know what to i need sex i can have sex and a hour later i want more it is making a big proublem for me and my boyfriend he cant keep up with me i've been this way most of my life i've stayed single but always haveing 2 or 3sex partterns it's ...

My boyfriend wants me to dominate him, but I don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend told me that he likes it when girls take control of things sexually but im not really sure how to do this. He says he wants me to tell him what to do, or make him do things, but I dont know what to say....

A few years back, my bf pretty much called me fat. Now that he and I are both ready to hit the sack, I can't get over it. Help!

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13 November 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been together for almost three years yet have been friends since he was 9 and I was 10. I'm overweight (5'7", 190 lbs) and a few days after we started 10th grade I was feeling down and he said to me "if you did some more physical ...

I'm young and bored!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - Ok well i am pretty young although i will not reveal my actual age. I know that i will not have sex or serious relationships for a few years but i feel like i really want to... any tips on how to get this nagging feeling out of my head????...