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Archived questions from: 10 November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

When having first time sex how long does the guy usually last?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - just a general question, when having first time sex how long does the guy usually last?...

Should I Allow My Boyfriend to Swing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a wonderful relationship with my bf for 16 yrs. People remark how close we are, how loving we are to each other. We do everything together including our work. We have a great sex life and family life. He's always there for me and ...

Any good websites out there, that teach sex positions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - my wife and i are wanting to learn some new sexual positions and techniques. can anyone provide me with a website (or info how to find one) how to do so? im new at using the internet....

My boyfriend slept with a girl when we'd just started dating. Is this an issue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - my bofriend and i have been dating for a little over 8 months now and i recently found out 3 days after he asked me out on a date he slept with another girl should i confront him about it or leave it alone since me and him are living together now ...

What should I do next with this co-worker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Where should I go from here. I have never had a boyfriend but I have been having some fun kissing a guy I work with, for experience really, we have both decided that we want to date but as I have never dated anyone before I am scared because we ...

If a man "bucks" during sex, what does it mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - What does it mean when a guy bucks durning sex? Probbly a stupied question and one I should know but i'm just curious....

Do men enjoy giving women oral sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Right then... 'kay. I am sixteen and my bf has just turned 17 and is 11 months older than me, and we are just getting into the whole sex thing, and I was wondering: Do guys actually like going down on girls? because I've got a friend and he said...

Should I believe and trust my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I am 41 my boyfriend of 8 months is 27. I am married (partially seperated). I recently got an apartment with for my boyfriend and I. We seemed to be getting along great, then his friends started coming around. I noticed a change in him. One ...

What are the best ways to masterbate without toys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Heyy :) Im a female and im 15 years old.. I like to masturbate quite alot, i want to know the best way to masturbate and the most joyfull without using toys.. please help me...

What were his reasons for saying all this to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - ok. i am really confused. my ex, who is also the father of my unborn child, has a gf now. it doesnt bother me, his loss right? anyways, a few days ago we were talking and i told him that he was the best i ever had, sexually of course, and he told me ...

He wants to share a hotel room but I worry he'll think I am up for sex and I'm not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I need some advice, me and this guy I work with flirt a lot and we have never been on a date, we have kissed a couple of times, sometimes at work or at work nightouts. He has always wanted more but nothing serious, my response is - not at work. ...

I know nothing about sex! Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - hi. i'm 15. the problem is that i know actually nothing about sex. i know very little about girl's body, no clear idea about sexual intercourse. i'm not easy with girls at all. it seems that most of my friends masturbate, but i don't, in fact i ...

My ex and I are still friends and have sex, he is not sure he wants to get back together, what should I do

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - my exs and i broke up..we are still friends and he tells me that he misses me alot and thinks about us and we still have sex. but hes not sure if he wants to get back with me. what should i do? ...

I have been masturbating a long time, but I have a problem with orgasm, can anyone help me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Ok, its kinda a sex question ive been masterbating since i was 12, and i have been sexually active since i was 14, nd im 15, i know weird, but i just want to know why i dont come when i masterbate, i mean i sumthimes do but most of the time, i dont, ...

My boyfriend says I am the only girl he has experiened an orgasm with, is this unusal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My bf says I am the first girl to ever make him cum. He says no girl has ever been able to do that for him before and hes always had trouble keeping it up, but with me he hasnt had either of those problems. I am wondering why this is? Im not even ...

What can I do to promote sexual activity with my girfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - How do i Instigate sexual actions with my girlfriend, I just want to know how i should proceed with the actions, oh and secondary question should i have the condom already on or do i have to put it on infront of her cause that could just cause an ...

Boyfriend wants a threesome!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, and very much in love. We were both kind of promiscuous before we ended up together but we are very happy to be in a faithful, trustworthy relationship. The boyfriend has brought up havin...

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend does not want to have sex with me !!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Im 17 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend does not want to have sex with me at all. I tried talking to him so he can tell me what are his concerns or fears and come up with a solution. But when i asked his answer was " i dont know" and walked away. th...

My girlfriend is the only woman I've slept with. Will I regret having missed out when I'm 50?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - I have been with my GF since I was 18. Now I'm 28. I've never had sex with anyone else. Lately, I'm finding myself very tempted by many women I see and finding myself capable of getting their attention. When I'm 50, will I regret never being wi...

Why won't my wife go down on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - Why is it my wife wont go down on me yet she has no problem with me pleasing her orally? Before marriage i never had to ask. But now i only gotten head 3 times this decade yet i do her 3 to 4 times a month. Every time i even make a suggesti...

We're both 13 and want to be friends with benefits, but I don't know if I'm ready!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My neighbor and I have been friends since we were 2 and now I have feelings for him cause we have been through like everthing together and we probly tell each other more then like a married couple! We are both 13... The other day he suggested...

Do men want a woman to take charge in the bedroom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - do men like a girl to take control in the bedroom department? i mean what do guys like a girl to act like a sergent major screaming at them to do certain things or do men like girls who let them take over? i like the man to take control most of ...

Need some advice about IUD coils.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I have some questions about the IUD coil I am 24 and my partner he is 29, we have been together for almost 7 years. since I was about 14 I have tried a lot of different forms of birth control, mostly in my younger teen years I was taking ...

First time for both of us...what can we expect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Alright, here it goes. I am sixteen and have been absolute BEST friends with a boy for three years. We talk about everything; probably more so than a married couple. This past year we have both told each other that we love each other. But we de...