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male
reader, q1605  +, writes (8 November 2009):
 As far as the mechanics are concerned, it's about as simple doing more of what feels good and less of what doesn't.
Set the mood right in your head, and your body will follow.
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reader, LethalInjection-x  + ♥, writes (8 November 2009):
 I never said masturbating was a bad thing for a 14 year old. I meant that reaching orgasm is a pretty hefty target to start with, which if you don't reach it, can leave you feeling disappointed amongst other things. No part of my response was at all derogatory.
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reader, Anonymous_NF  + ♥, writes (7 November 2009):
 The female orgasm is a very complicated thing. Not all women can get a real orgasm, most of them fake it. You're only 14 years old, you still have a lot of time to figure this out, there is no need to rush.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): Maybe you need a change of scenery, get out of the bathroom so someone else in your family can use it...what is wrong with your own bedroom, with a lock on the door.
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male
reader, THE ALTERNATIVE ROCKER  +, writes (7 November 2009):
 Well I'm fifteen and I might not be much of a help but you should enjoy what you do and maybe you don't have the right object or thing that can really bring into an orgasm.
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female
reader, sammy3  +, writes (7 November 2009):
 when im masterbating i can only get a clitoral oragasm even with a dildo or vibrator and when i 1st stared masterbating at age like 12 or 13 it took me a long while to origasm like a year but i still enjoyed it :) but try new things try playing with ur clit with ur thumb then middle and index finger in there hope i helped a little
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): umm for the one person that said no offence
umm offence taken.
what 14 year old doesnt masterbate?
i didnt ask yu how yu felt about it or if other women didnt "touch" them selves i asked how to make it feel bttr.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009): don't worry. i have the same problem... sometimes you just have to try something new. ;)
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reader, Heartbroken in love + ♥, writes (6 November 2009):
You can lash out at me for being a man but achieving orgasm is every persons right. You just need to keep exploring yourself. Some girls can only orgasm though clitoral stimulation others can orgasm through thier G spot. Find your niche and keep doing what feels good to you. You will achieve orgasm eventually
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reader, LethalInjection-x + ♥, writes (6 November 2009):
No offence, but being a healthy 14 year old girl, shouldn't you just be concerned with exploring and appreciating you're own body for what it is, rather than have a goal like that?
There's a lot of women that never manage it, even with all their experience behind them.
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