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Archived questions from: 11 November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How do I find a safe sex buddy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Bit of a strange question. I am a divorced woman and have been single for about 12 months. I have a healthy sex drive and masturbate regularly. I have not had sex with a man since splitting up from my husband and is really missing it. ...

Why is manual stimulation just not good enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

11 November 2009 (?) - A vibrating toothbrush's bristles work better to stimulate me rather than a hand, and I cant figure out why! Does anyone know why this may be? I do use a different toothbrush to brush my teeth......

I'm scared to give him a hand job in case I do it wrong!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and i've only ever kissed and made out with guys. I'm now going out with this guy who's 18 and more experienced and i want to give him a hand job, but i dont know how to do it and i'm scared he might judge me if i do it wrong. Should i tell ...

Does a man NEED sex to be healthy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Want to know if a man can do without sex and be healthy?...

Do I have too much libido?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - I wanted to see if i was over sexed so i kept a journal. In 1 yr i had sex with my wife 187 times and masterbated 263 times. And the sad thing is i want more and i dont think i do it enough. There is times even after i please my wife i am still horn...

Should I indulge her rape fantasies?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going through some rough times lately, and things look to be going downhill fast, no matter what I do. She's 8 months pregnant and I know her hormones are raging, so I've put my selfish needs aside in an attemp t...

Why am I not enough for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - hi. when me and my girlfriend get horny and talk about having sex, the last few times she always mentions using her toy and watching porn. should i be worried that she doesnt find me attractive anymore or any good in bed that she needs this ext...

My boyfriend has gone from being very sexual to not wanting sex anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. He was a bachelor his whole adult life and frequently traveled for international sex, hetro and transexual. He was very sexual in the begining of our relationship but now rarely wants to have ...

I would already be engaged to her if it wasnt for her past! How do I overcome this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - I'll try to keep it short. In June 07 I met a girl at a party and ending up sleeping with her that night. Both of us were sober. For the rest of the summer we hooked up here and there - f buddies. About a month after we first met my good friend told ...

What do men find most attractive about women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - what are men really attracted to? now as a young woman i am curious do men like skinny women or do they like a woman with some meat? what is the most attractive aspect of a womans body? do men like curvy or a stick? ...

Why is there always discomfort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Why is it, that every time my partner uses his hand or mouth to stimulate my clitoris, it feels good for a few moments but then starts to not necessarily hurt, but sort of cause discomfort? It's enough to make me twitch, so to say. Sometimes if I ...

I hate that he has this power over me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - This was a friend of mine for a while, he knew I liked him and ran hot and cold. Playing me. I was quite drunk when I saw him last week, and he made a move on me. I was so happy. But then after making out until it was late I just wanted to go to ...

My husband masturbated to porn while my 15 month old watched tv!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I’m at a bit of a loss. I posted earlier about my husband’s obsessive use of porn as well as masturbating to pictures of his ex. Since that post he’s been caught two more times looking at porn. I haven’t seen anything more on his ex…but I could just ...

Is Reiters Syndrom the cause of my sexual difficulties?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - When I masturbate, or have sex with my partner, it takes an extremely long time to cum. Is there anyway to make me cum easier. I really need also to really give it a good thrusting before I manage to cum? Also , I have noticed little hard spot...

Can I become pregnant without intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - This might seem like a silly uneducated question, but i was wondering if someone could clarify for me whether or not you can get pregnant if you didn't have sex, however, managed to get pre-ejaculate on your inner thighs or on the outside of your ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my ex raping me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Should I tell my bf, that my ex bf raped me during my relationship with my ex? I dont know if I should tell him or not. I am afraid of how he will react. At the same time, I also believe that because we are partners we should tell each other ...

Why didn't I bleed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi i'm 19 this year. I'd sex with my boyfriend quite a few times but i'd never bleed before. I did'nt had sex before until i was with him. Can you tell me why i did'nt bleed?...