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Archived questions from: 5 November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Does he want more than friends with benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5205 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Ok this is a bit of a story but i'll try and keep it brief as poss! Basically, over the weekend I had my 18th birthday party, and obviously there was quite a bit of drinking involved. One of the people there was this guy G, who I have had a friend...

How can I make sure my asshole is completely clean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - im guna try anal soon and i know this is really gross but how cn i make sure my asshole is completely clean?...

I might want more... Eventually

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - hey. Well straight to the point. I've been talkin dirty over the net to this guy i've known for quite a long time. We've been good mates for a couple of years now. So, We're planning to get down and dirty, sometime soon in the future. But i ac...

Can you get a urinary tract infection from anal sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Can u get a uranary track infection from anal sex?...

I'm worried! Is this an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Okay this is wierd!..but when having oral sex, and the guy is fingering a girl, and she tells him too stop, and he smiles and says i could feel that thing a jumpin, but he talks about having sex again, the next night...is that bad? Like should the ...

Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...

I'm depressed after my abortion.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...

My girlfriend is hardly ever in the mood for sex, have I done something to cause this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now and we hardly have sex anymore. she had cervical cancer last summer and since then shes never been in the mood for sex.. is it something i did or what should i do? [Moderator's Note: Po...

My love has ADHD. What are all the things I may need to know to ensure our relationship stays healthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Allo! My girlfriend and I have been together for...ah...whoa...21 months, that's nearly 2 years, lol, neither of us realized. I'm 18, she turns 19 in a couple of months and we seem, well, absolutely fine. We'd like to hold on to our relations...

My boyfriend keeps saying he has sex for my benefit, even though he is always initiating it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend always iniates sex and then afterwards tells me that he didn't want it and only did it for me. i don't care whether i get any or not and he is the one who gives all the signals and leads me to the bedroom so why does he keep saying ...

Would you believe a married man who......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Wo...

Will my boyfriend turn gay if he enjoys it when I give it to him from behind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have a very good relationship....and sex can be a little kinky with us and I know sometimes my boyfriend likes me to play with his butt hole sometimes and I was thinking about using a strap on with him cause I heard that's ...

Will a penis that curves to the left be a turn off to women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Hey. Im 15 and my penis curves slightly to the left. I was just wonderin is this a turn off to most girls and will it still feel good to them when I do decide to have sex? ...

I am falling for my "friends with benefits" guy, should I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I am in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who is not ready for a relationship. I thought I wasn't ready either so the arrangement at first suited me fine plus the XXX is fantastic. But lately I have found we have both been getting very ...

My period still hasn't shown up, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I've been on the pill since August (microlite) and sometimes me and my boyfriend don't use condoms. Normally he doesn't cum inside me (I know it's not a proper method of contraception) but my period's late now =( Usually my seven day break starts o...

He never feels sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

5 November 2009 (?) - hi i want to know about my boyfriend, he never feels sex.when ever i try to seduce or if i come naked in front of him he is not aroused.i tried everything kissing hugging but he doesn't fell anything and his little boy is not erecting even after se...

Do you have to have relationships to know your sexuality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I have always considered myself as straight. I guess I didnt really think about it too much. I still had my doubts that I could be gay. Now I am having strong feeligns for a girl at school. These have lasted for a year. I have sexual and romantic ...

I am struggling to keep up with my boyfriend's sexual appetite!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I really need help with this problem so any advice would be greatly appreciated:) So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and in the beginning we had XXX almost 3-4 times a day! He is very sexually active and so was I. Now that our...

How can I get condoms discretely?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - i'm only 13 years old and my girlfriend want us to have sex and i said i wont do it until we have a condom. she said she cant get one. i want to know a way to get a condom with out my parents finding out and not having to be imbaressed at the store...

Can a smaller penis look bigger from a different person's perspective?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Hi i am about 18 years of age, and I have a question on measurement in penis sizes. When i put the ruler next to my penis it shows me that i am 8 inches. Now the problem is, when i was in MMA the men had to take showers when the session was over. I ...

What are the "three bases" people refer to with making out or sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - ok so i feel really dumb for not already knowing this but what are the 3 bases? i mean i feel that i rally should know but for some reason i dont and i think its just cause when i was younger i just kept telling myself i will know later and now i ...

My girlfriend is not ready to give me oral sex and I don't want to push her. Aside from hand jobs, what else can we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have made it to hand jobs. She is not sure about a blowjob and wants to take it another step without going to blowjob. What else can we do?...

I want help to get over my inhibitions about performing oral on a man.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Okay, I've never givin a blow job, and im kinda nervous on it cause well i think its kinda nasty to put ur mouth on the guys dick, if u think about it.....anyways i want to but im to shy, and idk how to get over it, i mean part of me wants to but ...

When we did it it, he didn't get his thing all the way in. Could I still be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Im 13 right now and im so scared about if im pregnate...i know i shoudnt of had sex and i know i should have used a condom, but i didnt think of it....it has been almost 12 weeks and i dont physicaly feel different but i cant get this out of my he...

He doesn't get it in before I push him away because of the pain!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - i just truned 16 and me and my boyfriend who is 23 have been going out for a year in half and he said he will wait till i am ready to have sex as it will be my first time and now that i am 16 i feel that i am ready to have sex .. i have been rea...