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*aughoutloud87
writes:I have had a serious of problems with my current boyfriend that are seriously bothering me---a couple of months ago my boyfriend and I were having sex. in the middle of it he decides to open up his computer and put on porn..after asking why he was doing this he said he "needed it to get off"another time my boyfriend did not sexually touch me for about a week. i would always be in his room with him but i would go back to my room to take a shower and come back about 30 mins later..i would check his history and for those 30 mins that i was gone he would look up all these porn videos to get off to..yet he wouldnt touch me...i have recently found on his computer a picture sent to him from his ex girlfriend (while we are together) where shes naked..it was still in his inbox even though he said he thought he deleted it, and he has no idea why she would send it to himfinally, i also found out he registered for this sex website..a website where you meet local people in your area to hook up with and have sex with ...his profile stated things like..looking for cyber sex and erotic email exchange and anyone who is looking for fun should definitely contact him....the thing is he said he has stopped all of this stuff and that it is in his past..yet i cant even watch a movie with him where there is some nudity in it without me being concerned hed rather go have sex with her or go back to his room and start looking up porn again..i know that all guys look at porn but the way he did makes it very difficult for me to get over what happened before...what should i do?
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reader, tux +, writes (16 March 2009):
 You can either accept his behavior or not. Right now, you have been accepting it by staying with him. I have my doubts he will change his ways. If you don't like it, then you are better off leaving him and finding someone else
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): Seriously just dump him
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): dump him and find a real man that knows to appreciate love and enjoy a real woman!
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