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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend was talking about things we want to try to do to improve our sex life.He was saying how he wanted to try anal sex and i agreed to it.But i don't really know what to expect. Does it hurt? Is it messy? Should we try it?Thanks :)
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reader, Harry Castle +, writes (15 March 2009):
 If you evacuate well before anal sex, there's no reason why it should be messy.
Two essentials:-
A condom for him - the anus is rich in harmful bacteria and could lead to all sorts of nasty problems.
Lubrication.
No, MORE than that - use the whole tube! And go very slowly and gently.
The initial entry will be a touch painful at first, as your sphincter is tight - it has to be - and once his helmet is past that, you an relax and enjoy it.
Your bum has loads of nerve endings to give you pleasure, and tight enough to please him, too.
Enjoy!
Harry.
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