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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

His family is breaking us up...i am pregnant with our second child and don't know what to do. please help me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant with my ex's child and he wont answer my calls, letters, emails, or texts. I'm 20 and pregnant with our second child. We have a 19 month of baby girl. We're expecting a baby boy in early feb. He has currently been to a universi...

Does Sex hurt as bad the second time as it does the first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I had sex for the first time with someone I really care about a few days ago. But it hurt- a lot, and when I went to the bathroom afterward, I noticed I was bleeding a little. At first, it hurt so much and I think part of it may of been because I ...

Too many women in my life....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - So I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian, I've dated guys but i've always had stronger feelings for girls, lately I have had a crush on my teacher who is 26 and my cousins friend who is 15, I'm also in a relationship that is going down hill very fast. I'm ...

How can I know if he still loves me or just after the sex? Is there hope in this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - This weekend was a crazy one. I was still in contact with my ex for like twice a month since we broke up 8 months ago. At first we were treating each other like enemies but later we quit and started being friends. 4 months after our break-...

Is it likely I am pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - My menstrual cycle is generally pretty regular, usually from around 29-34 days in length, averaging at about 33 days in the past 9 months. My last cycle was 34 days, and i had sex the night before it started, where my boyfriend came inside me. The ...

She wants me to do things in bed that I disagree with

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - Ok I have a major problem. I have been dating this new girl for 3 months now. I have always been known as the sweet guy and I am very repsectful towards women. The thing is my girlfreidn is kinda kiny when it coems to sex. Which I think is fun but ...

We show each other our private bits, is this wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - there is this girl but im not dating her. we do this thing where she shows me her self exposed i mean breasts and all that and i show her things like my penis is it wrong for me to encourage her to do so. i am being mature about this so your c...

Starving for Sex with the woman I love - Am I crazy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - Starving for Sex with the woman I love - Am I crazy? I feel pretty weird for even writing this, and I dont know how to even talk about it with her anymore. My gf and I have been dating seriously for almost 2 yrs now (She's a Leo and I'm a Sagitt...

Is my boyfriend insecure and following the masses?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Is my boyfriend insecure? You see, he's a very nice, sweet, low profile, smart guy. Really down to earth with most things, he's like the perfect guy! But there's one thing that kind of bothers me... Sexually it's like he's been brainwashed by t...

He wouldn't have sex with me this weekend. What's up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I don't know whats going on with my fiance lately. We have not had sex for a while and this past weekend I was trying to start something but nothing happend. Usually during the week we do not do anything because we get home very late. But ...

How can I forget about my girlfriend's sexual exploits while we were apart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I dated for 2 1/2 years and broke up 2 months ago, we are now back together. While broken up she had sex with some guy she dated, and I went down on some girl but nothing serious. I know its none of my business what happened while ...

Why did he break up with me? I'm really struggling to get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I'm having trouble getting over my ex-boyfriend/babies father.My ex-friend broke up with me in Feb 09, when I was 3 months pregnant. before we get started let me say he is still in my life everyday because he watches are son while I work in the day, ...

As a friend I only want to help him, so what could his problem with sex be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone, I have a bunch of friends and we hang out a lot together. Recently I got closer and closer to a guy in this bunch and one day when we were drunk we slipped away from our friends and made out. We talked about it the next day and...

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - i have never had sex with my boyfriend bu i let him finger me last week and ever since i have had a sore stomach i keep thinking he might have got me pregnant he said he was toucing himself to turn him on now i am worried bu it could just be because ...

Getting back with my ex feels like we are a new couple again, how do I handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some advice about sex with my bf. I'm getting back together with my ex after being apart for a year and we agreed to give it another go. We've been talking on the phone, meeting up for lunch etc, sort of like dating all over again I ...

My partner has problems keeping it up once as soon as he enters....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - my partner, gets a ecrection fine... its stays up fine.. but as soon as he places its in...it wont last even two mintues...he releases too quick. he has tried masturbating before make love.. till nothing seems to work. as soon as his inside me... he ...

How to have sex life with porn star boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - There is a man I have been seeing for the past 5 months we are now boyfriend and girlfriend. I found out he was a porn actor on our third date. He has mention introduced everybody even people he has worked with and caught him in the act on the job ...

My partner has problems keeping it up once as soon as he enters...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - (Mod note: Original Title)my partner, gets a ecrection fine... its stays up fine.. but as soon as he places its in...it wont last even two mintues...he releases too quick. he has tried masturbating before make love.. till nothing seems to work. as ...

Should I wait to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

22 December 2009 (?) - I have been dating the same man for 2 years now. We have been friends for several years before that. I am 19, in college and still a virgin.My question is for those who have had sex and are married, do you think that it would have been more special ...

Young girl with a big problem...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I seriously need help. And I have absolutley nobody to talk to so if u could, tell me ur advice. I turned 18 and moved a state away from my whole family to be with a 34 year old man. Now, don't get me wrong, I love him with all of my heart. And I ...

She is too tight, how can we solve this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - me and my gf have tried intercourse 5-6 times. my penis is not circumcized and I am her first sexual partner. I have had sex before, but this girl is just too tight. my penis penetrates just about an inch inside her and my foreskin is pushed back ...

He says he'll wait for me, but can I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend 20 we been dating for almost 10 months officaly but we been talkinng over a year now. he knows everything about me n i about him..im a jelous freak also n he is a lil only. He says sweet stuff once in a while. I ...

Can I get pregnant if ....................

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Can i get pregnant if my boyfriend cums on my vagina but then wipes it off? It wasnt all the way inside but i kno they swim. He wiped it really good but im not sure if theres a chance i can get prego....

Sometimes I think I'm ready for sex, and sometimes not! So confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years (he's 18 and im 16) hes had sex but im still a virgin, i love him but im not sure if im ready some times i think i am and other times not so much.im confussed and need help please. ...

Fingering hurt really bad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Today I got fingered by a guy for the first time and it hurt realllllly bad. I was really wet and im comfortable with him but i kept stopping him because it hurt so bad. i want him to do it but its hurts too much. is this normal and what should i ...

Yaz and full protection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been on the birth control Yaz since July of 2009. I was wondering how long it takes to have full protection, is it one month after you begin taking the pills. I had a little mishap on Saturday night and had unprotected sex, I ...

18 year old boyfriend can't keep it up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months and it is going really well. We have run into an issue while having sex. It is usually amazing but for some reason he can't keep it up. He's a healthy 18 yr. old so this is totally weird if ...

G/f doesn't want sex and I do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - Hey, Well I have a weird problem. Basically the last 7 months me and my GF have not had sex. We had a 4 month break in that 7 month, neither of us had sex (her because of lack of drive, me because I love her, but thats a different story) Anyway...