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Archived questions from: 13 December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He wants to get more intimate with me and I feel I'm ready. How can I be less nervous about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - okay so my boyfriend has been trying to finger me for the past month but I never let him because I wasn't ready. I'm ready now and I want him to, but I'm a little nervous about it! Ya know like whether or not I should shave down there, and that ...

I have been married for a few short months, but the no sex is getting to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - I have been married several months now. Things didn't start too postively when my wife was too tired to make love on our wedding night. It was a tiring day so this was fair enough and I didn't create a fuss. Howver ever since we have sex so ...

My girlfriend of 13 wont even kiss me, she is frigid!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - Ok i am 13 years old and have a girlfriend who is friged but dosent want to be and she gets scared and backs away when i try to kiss OR EVEN HUG HER i like her alot and really dont want to dump her but for weeks now it seems that she dosent even ...

My girl is sexually selfish!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - It always atarts off that we have fool around really wild and dirty, then she wants me to eat her out, she comes, and afterwards, she won't get me off; she's suddenly "too tired," or if she "tries" she will complain about how tired she is, how much ...

It took him three years to decide he didnt like my past and he dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of three years just dumped me. He has issues with my past from a long time, and yet again he's giving me hard time over it. He said he feels he will never be able to forgive me. I never did anything too wild in my past, but he knew a ...

How can I make my cup runneth over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - 24 F i want to increase my cupsize presently it should be 30 now i need it 36 how it can be possible pls sugest....

How do I finger my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is coming over to my house today. She might give me a hand/blowjob for the first time. I might also finger/rub her. Need some advice though as to what to do....

I lost my virginity on Friday and I'm worried about the bleeding

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - i lost my virginity on friday and i lost quiet alot of blood straight after (about a full knicker lining) then after that the bleeding stopped and the next day i had a bit in another set of knickers as well. i havent yet started my periods so could ...

My first time giving my boyfriend a handjob. How do I know if I did it right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I just gave my boyfriend a hand job for the first time last nigh. It was also the first time I have ever given one. I was just wondering how I could tell if he enjoyed it or not?...

What is the Kama Sutra?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (?) - What is Kama Sutra or however you spell it? My boyfriend whats to do it or have it or whatever. But I have no idea what it is....

Sex and masturbation.......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been combined into one] 1. hi.......can somebody tel me wht are d different types of doing sex m new cn somebody help me pls pls cn someone tel me hw to do sex ??? 2. can sumbody tel me w...

My pregnant partner doesn't want sex but my libido is high!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - hi there, so my delema is this, i met this beautiful girl and she was pregnant, the father was waaay out of the picture, and i could not help but fall for this girl. she had a beutiful baby boy, whom is my world, and see him as my own, he is now 5 ...

I want to encourage my wife to have more sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - i am very interested in sex, talking about sex, trying different things .... my wife too enjoys it a lot. but not always. she gets into mood only once in a while. actually there were occasions where she was over powering me, this happens only som...

I don't know how soon after starting to date we can have sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - Hello, guys! I need your help. Several questions: 1)after how long, 3 months or longer they have dated gf nd bf often have sex? 2)knowing little about sex, what should i pay attin to for the first time having sex? 3) how many sex positions nd which ...

My boyfriend has a baby and spends time with the baby Mama!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I been with my boyfriend for close to 3yrs there is a big age difference between us but I love him very much. Anyway about 1yr ago he cheated on me and got another woman pregnant that hurted my soul because although I'm older then he is it still ...