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Archived questions from: 19 December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm 13 and had sex, is that bad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - im 13 and i have sex is that bad for me?Please tell me if it is i want to quit.But i cant have kids i dont have a period yet. ...

Do other people get punished during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - When me and my boyfriend have sex, he likes to spank me hard with his belt and he has even stuck a few pins in my bum as we are doing it. Do other people get punished the same way?...

Why does he not want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - i have been living with this man that i love very much but he works 7 days a week,this leaves him tired and not ever wanting to have sex,i want to ask if that makes a man not ever want to have sex or could it be something else...

What are some precautions before you have oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - I might eat out my girlfriend for the first time. This would be frist time for me doing it and first time for it being done to her. We have already masterbated one another, so we know we want to do this. What would be some helpful hints/precautions?...

He can't maintain an erection and we've never been able to have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - hi there , i have been seeing a new guy for a couple of months now and he is great but he cant seem to maintain an erection for any length of time , this is upsetting as we have never been able to have intercourse because of this . please help !...

I'm always in a sexual mood!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - Alright so im a guy and im 15. And i'm always in a sexual mood now a days.And i always find myself horny, or aroused,sometime for no reason at all. Is it normal to be horny all the time? I mean i guess i would say im a sexual person, siunce im ...

He calls me his best mate but we sleep together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Dear all, Im still sleeping with my ex bf, we been split up a year october just gone and since may we have been sleeping together, we have to do it in the cars so no one will see us, And it seems o be happening more and more recently, But what...

Nice restaurants, drugs and wild sex..not a great way to start!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I had been seeing this guy I met in a bar for a couple of months. Our relationship had been about excess, nice restaurants, drugs and wild sex (we slept together on the first night.) At first he pursued me but then it seemed like he slightly made ...

He keeps me hanging on, surely this means he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - hello all i need a male perspective pls, i have been friends with a bloke for bout 6 years i always thawt he was amazing but he is in a relationship, so i never let on, about 2 years ago i found him looking at me alot and doing things that were ...

Sex before marriage, is it so wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I'm a 20-year-old virgin and I'm starting to think that I might just possibly be ready for sex...I'm not sure, but I'm also very nervous. I'm not Christian, but I grew-up in a mainly Christian household and when it comes to premarital sex-"the fear ...

My step daughter is flirting with me, making me all hot and bothered

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - I am 47 years old and after being divorced for almost ten years I remarried a women who has a 18 year old daughter. She is college now but when she comes home she flirts with me. My sex life with my wife has become almost non exsistant and she ...

Am I being too judgemental about his past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over one year and he loves and adores me and is very loyal. He has had many girlfriends before me, mostly lasting only 3 months. I feel comfortable with this except the one he had before he met me, which on...

I want to know how to find another guy who will take things slowly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i just broke up. He was the guy i lost my virginity to, and I only had sex with him because he made me feel comfortable and didnt pressure me to do it. This was a while ago when i was younger, now i'm in college where the only ...

I am pregnant to my step brother and don't know where to turn

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I was looking for advice and found this site. Ill try and make this short. I had a bf for 8 months he was ok at first and we started having sex mostly because didnt want him to cheat after awhile it seemed like thats all he wanted me around for ...

Which do girls prefer - virbrator or penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - hey, well im 16 and ive been scared recently because my girlfriend got a vibrator, and im afraid it will replace foreplay, and my actual penis. im about average size (maybe smaller) and im still a virgin and leading towards sex. But im worried that ...

I think my boyfriend is hinting about having sex, but I don't think I'm ready

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Today I hung out with my boyfriend and we got on to the topic of sex. We weren't even talking about anything like that before, but he randomly started the topic. He said that like everyone has done it from his school. I think that he was hinting ...

Why am I bleeding from sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - why am I bleeding from my clit? I had sex about 4-5 days ago and today it started burning and hurting really bad down there so whaen I went to the bathroom to check I saw I was bleeding from the clit, it was a lil bit of blood but it was still very ...

My love for him grew steadily, but sometimes I miss the feeling of wild mad passion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend but I feel that I am not in love with him. My boyfriend and I have known each other since we were teenagers although we did lose touch for a few years, I am now 28 and he is 27. I was absolutely head over heels in love with my ...

My relationship is losing it's Spark!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for the last 6 months now and up until 3 weeks ago everything has been great. But lately i have not been getting turned on as much and during sex i often fantasize about something other than him. I am not ...