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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Have I got a REAL big problem on my hands?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Hello I'm a 22 year old gay male, i have my own house with my boyfriend, we live a great life but we have an issue with our sex life. Recently after sex we've noticed I have blood in my cum, this has happend about 4 times now and we are worried ...

I get a sinking feeling when I realise it will never happen again

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - My husband is circumsized, and lately I've found myself CRAVING sex with an uncircumcised man. I've been with both cut and uncut men before, and hands-down I've found sex with uncut men to be more pleasurable. My husband knows that I've been with ...

She can't remember if she had sex while drunk!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - My gf is currently studying abroad in Italy. She gets back in a week (it was just one semester so she will be back on campus here next semester). We were dating before she left and then I suggested we take a break while she's away. When she was in ...

I'v been faking orgasms, and I want a real one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Dont know if something is wrong with me or what. but my boyfriend and i have been intimate for 2years and he is my first and i have not yet had any O's wit him. i be faking it and i really want to have one so any suggestions on what i should do??...

How can I give a good handjob?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Tomorrow night I'm going to my boyfriend's house and we agreed that we were ready and mature enough to give that step in our relationship. How can I give a good handjob? ...

How do I initiate giving my boyfriend a blowjob?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Okay so here's the thing. I'm most likely going to give my boyfriend a blowjob sometime soon, and I was just wondering how I could get to that moment to where I am. You know what I mean like do I just say hey I'm going to give you a blowjob! Or like ...

Can men be in love but not be into all the kissing n cuddling stuff?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Can men be in love but not be into all the kissing n cuddling stuff? I am with a man I love dearly, but he is not one for showing his emotions. When I questioned him about it he replied that the kissing and cuddling isn't really for him but he shows...

Am I weird for liking "looser" girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I really prefer a women who is loose over one that is tight. I just think it feels better. Also I really enjoy girls playing with big toy. Am I really weird or is there other people that feel this way as well....

How to avoid the pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - MOD NOTE: POSTERS ORIGINAL TITLE I am a 38 year old male who just got out of a 9 month physically, emotionally, psychologically and mentally abusive relationship with a 34 year old woman. She had two children. At first the relationship was...

I found a video of my girlfriend and her ex having sex and now I cant get it out of my head!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - i have been going out with this 24 years old girl from foreign country for 6 months now. she got 8 years old daughter which she gave birth during her young and innocent age. then she leave her country to my coutry and work in pub as a PR and never ...

How many times a day should you masturbate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - i know it sounds weird but i really want to know. how many times should a person masturbate. because i do it 5-6 times a day which i think it is unhealthy. i tried stopping but i just cant. so tell me how times so i can be convinced and limit ...

Does this sound like the beginning of Erectile Dysfunction to you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Hi all Ive been with my partner for 18 months now, we see each other weekends mainly due to distance. But are looking for a place of our own. Obviously our sex life revolves around the weekends. This weekend seemed fine, we made love friday ...

He is not in the mood for sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half but the past few months we have been long distance because I have been away at school. I came home about a week and a half ago after not seeing him for weeks and we had sex the first three ...

He bought condoms was that a BIG hint?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much. He bought condoms righttt infronttt of me and I dont know why. Hinting? How do I hint that I would like to be fingered? Im not shy, neither is he. I just dont know how to tell him hey...Im up for it?...

Help, I think I have a tampon lost inside me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Ok so like 3 days ago i was on the last day of my period and had in a light tampon, I got extremely drunk later on that night and had sex with my guy friend.. I don't remember if I took my tampon out or not, and my guy friend was just as drunk as me ...

I want to experiment more buy my g/f says its too weird

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Ok, i have been wanting to ask fro some advice. My girlfriend of about 10 months barely gave me my and her first hand job about a week ago, and it was also the first time i rubbed/fingered a girl and it was her first time too. She ended up liking ...

What are the best and worst condoms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - what is the best protection condom for not getting my girlfriend pregnant,and what is the worst protection condom?...

Does pre-cum contain sperm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Does Pre cum have sperm in it? I wiped it off myself still yet to cum and the decided to finger my girl friend there was time in between and i tried to wipe as much off onto another surface... i was just not thinking...

Does cheating empower women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Is infidelity in the male/female relationship immoral or empowering for the women? Religion can be a factor in the answer if needed....

Do teen guys like "it" shaved?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - So I'm a 14 year old girl and I want to know... do guys from 14 to 17 years old like "it" shaved? I am too young to go that far, but I'm really curious about it! And I want to be ready in case "something" happens! Thanks!...

I feel guilty and can't decide!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - [Note: All names are changed for privacy.] My girlfriend, "Jane," wanted to take a break from our relationship, partly because she was weary of my uncertainty about whether I was committed to the relationship. During the break in our relati...

Who is the father of my baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm 27 weeks pregnant tomorrow and my due date is on the 18 march 2010. Me and my partner were having a bit of trouble round the time I think I fell pregnant and I slept with a different boy on the 17th may and 26th june. I wanted to know if ...

Does he want me yes or no? I need an answer so that I can deal with issues and move on with my life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Ok I used to date this guy like 2 years ago and he lived on the same street that I did and the Chemistry was there and everything so I wound up getting pregnant and I did the un thnkable thing and got a abortion I regret it everyday but I wound up ...

Nervous... Sex for the first time!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - okay so my boyfriend and i are about to have sex for the first time... we are both virgins, and i really want to and so does he but im scared. please help. i love him and everything is perfect but im just a little nervous and stuff. HELPP!...