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Archived questions from: 1 December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I want to please my girl but I don't know how

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Helloo, wondered if I could get some tips on something: i'm going to finger my girlfriend next time she comes round mine (if she's comfortable with it of course) but i've never fingered someone before, so i'm slightly nervous.. She is a virgin (as ...

I think I might be pregnant, but I don't know how to tell

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - What are the chances that I could be pregnant? My last period was on the 9th November and I had sex on the 24th about 5 times and on the 25th once. All times we used the withdrawral method. I've realised I've been very stupid, and it won't be happ...

I want suggestions for pleasing my man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - What do guys like the most? Me and my partner have talked alot but I want ideas of different sex positions....

What are crisco parties?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - What are crisco parties and bird whatever? I looking for some ideas for some kinky fun not spanking so hard I'm bruised but fun and exciting for both of us....

Who should tell the maid???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I moved out and he hired a maid. She met me during her interview while I was packing. They have had sex each time she comes in to do housekeeping (once a week) since I left. We've decided to get back together and I am moving back in. I managed the ...

Am I not satisfying him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a great sex life, but if I run to the store or take a shower he goes and plays with himself. He works 3rd shift and gets home, talks to me for a few minutes and goes to bed. He goes and plays with himself then too. He pretty ...

He's into anal sex and I am not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. I split up with my long term partner a year ago (he left) and although I still love him I started dating another guy, who I do really like but the problem is that he is really really into anal sex and I am ...

How big of an issue is it that he prefers anal and I dont?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

I fell like such and idiot!!! Where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I feel a bit stupid at the minute because if Im honest, I feel like I set myself up for a fall. Basic back ground..Met lovely Italian guy 2 years ago in Isle of Mann during the races, we stayed in touch after the races on what I thought was only a ...

Oral sex and aging...will it still be as good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Help I LOVE oral sex but am concerned that being an older woman it just wont be as good HELP ANY ADVICE ?...

Although my instinct here is to end it...i want to salvage this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Bit of a long question here, but I'll try to be concise: My girlfriend has said some things over the last month that have made me very suspicious of her and some of her male relations. For context: She has a lot of male friends, who are all...

Is she telling me her own story, from a third person perspective?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Hello Long story short: We are 24. My girlfriend was in a 5 year relationship with an abusive drunk. We always liked each other and hooked up right away after she broke up with him. It's been rocky, but after 5 months and confrontation an...

My live in rarely wants sex..is it me or our situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - My live-in boyfriend and father of two of my children never wants sex. We are intimate maybe once every two or so months. Our two yo does sleep in the bed with us, but when he or I really really want it we move to another room or move our child in...

What is the source of this bleeding and discomfort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I'm 15 though i turn 16 in 2 days. Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a few weeks,we were both virgins to begin with but we always use a condom. I had my period last week and it finished on Saturday. On Sunday we were having se...

Girlfriend or booty call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Hi , I am just out of a long relationship. i am doing my masters and became close to one of my classmates. He jokes light heartedly about me and is always ready to help me. But hes not very good at talking about emotions and feelings and hen...

How much do looks matter in sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. I was wondering if I how much looks matter in sex. What I mean by that is i'm 16 and in high school and I wanted to know how much woman care about physical appearances during sex. I'm really skinny and my ribs kinda show and I ...

I think we did everything right, do I still have a chance of being pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - i had just had sex for the second time, and i would like to know whether how i handled it was okay and i wouldnt get pregnant. i used a condom and my bf had the decency to check every 5 minutes by just making sure it was slipped on himself. When he ...

B/f says I lay there and don't do anything! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - i need advice on how to turn my boyfriend on before sex. he takes forever to get hard. he says its cuz i just lay there and dont do anything. what am i supposed to do?...

Why is there no smell to his semen

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriends semen doesnt smell like anything. He says he smells it and it smells disgusting but when i smell it it doesnt smell like anything why is that? beause i smell my own and its stinks but how come i cant smell his?...

What if you're too tight for sex?

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1 December 2009 (F) - What if your ready to have sex but your too tight? Is that a bad thing what do you do.... I feel like that would be so embarrising!?? ...

My boyfriend has lost interest in sex, but I haven't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for over a yr now and we used to have sex about 3 times a day. now it seems like i have to beg him for it, and he doesn't really do any fore play with me anymore. i have talked to him about this a number of ...

Kissing (and sleeping) Cousins, what if the family finds out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Me and my second cousin are 17 we fell in love in secret, slept together in secret i also found out i was pregnant but we had a miscarriage, our family would go crazy at us he said he dosent care as long as he's with me but i cant help but be very ...

Guys, would you sleep with a girl , then call her your "friend" ???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - hi people, i met a guy online a year ago, and we met up the other week finally for the weekend. Because we knew eachother well enough, we slept together (safely), then he left as hes from a diff city. Things havnt been the same since. I think i...

Condomless threesome and now I'm worried I'm pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - i know this is going to make me sound really bad, and i am really upset about this which is why this is the only confidential thing i could think of for advice, well a month ago i had a threesome with 2 guys, i was really drunk and i know there...

Can lack of affection and sex contribute to or even cause depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Can lack of affection and sex contribute to or even cause depression? I have been in a 25-year marriage and being rejected or deprived of affection and sex is making me nearly ill to the point that I am questioning my desirability. and wonderin...

What are Herpes?

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1 December 2009 (F) - What are herpies? i have been told that ther some sort of spots that grow after u have sex, does this apply for when u masturbate aswell though?? x...