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Archived questions from: 15 December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How to stop being nervous about sex and such!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - im fine with foreplay with my girlfriend and fingering her and stuff but when it comes to her giving me handjobs and blowjobs and sex im just nervous and it is ruining my erections. how do i stop being nervous cuz im nervous that im not big at all ...

I'm confused, sexually frustrated, not getting any younger or more attractive and I'm afraid I'm going to look back on this with regret!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - Hi all. My wife has always had a low sex drive. Mine has always been much healthier. A number of years ago she was diagnosed as suffering from depression, which she thinks she'd had since before she met me. She takes medication and it works well. ...

Is it possible to get pregnant if he hasn't penetrated me fully?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hi is it possible to get pregnant without properly having sex? Like can i get pregnant if he is just rubbin his penis up and down the inside of my vagina but not actually going right in? ...

Are all guys this selfish in bed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about eleven months now, and I really can't help but notice he can really be a selfish guy when he feels like it. Namely, I'm talking about our sex life. When we met I was a virgin. Before we started having ...

How can I stop my former teacher from sexually abusing someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I am desperately seeking advice or help on this -- I am 19 now; but when i was at school i had a bad experience with my teacher. I had my shirt tucked in by him when i was 11 and thus established a crush on him which pushed me to move into his grou...

I need help to drive my boyfriend wild!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hey all! I'm an 18 year old female and I was just wondering if anyone had some tips for me. My boyfriend is great and he does things to me that just drive me crazy (in the good way of course) and i was just wondering if anyone had some secret things ...

Should I agree to being a swinger, to stop him from cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I've been married for 13 years. We have a pretty honest relationship and we have sex about once a week. I know my husband looks at porn and has for years. It doesn't bother me. However there are times when he has problems keeping an erection ...

I get an erection too easily!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - hi. um i want know how stop an erection when im with my gf? even putting my arm around her waist when we watch tv gives me a woody what do ido?...

Do guys always take action when they get a hard on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - hey guys, ok my question is mainly for guys. I was just wondering if when u guys get hard do u always act on it! like the other day me and bf where sitting on the couch kissing and just chatting away when i could feel him get hadr but he never tr...

Scared my jealousy is making me a bad friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - My mate is overweight, spotty and has bad teeth, the only attractive physical feature she has is that she has big boobs. She cheats on every single guy she meets (literally) and she has sex with any guy that looks at her. Thing is, i'm sick of guys ...

I'm worried about STD's!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - I'm worried about STD's. Ive not yet actualy hd sex with my boyfriend, but I have given him blowjobs on occasion. However, he precums often and soon, and i never know if ive swallowed some. He hsnt had many sexual partners, and im pretty sure he's ...

I want to have sex but will need to go to toilet first and I can't do this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - i am gay and am ready to receive anal sex with my friend but im to embarrassed to ask to go to the toilet when at his house,so we never end up having sex cus I dont want to. He never asks me if we will have sex, but i know he wants to. So I have to ...

Different sex drives and lesbian dreams?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. we talk about getting married and love each other very much. it just when it comes to sex im not sure if we are on the same page. when we first started dating we would have sex 3 or 4 times ...

She was sexually liberal and tried a lot of things. It's intimidating!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - Ok I met a gorgeous girl a while ago who I like loads and have never felt so connected with someone. Anyway we were making love and I made her have mulitple orgasms and asked her later on whether she had them before. She replied with yes and the ...

Stimulating my boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hi can anyone help me. I have met a new guy and we have had intercourse on a couple of occasions but he has hinted that he would like a hand job. One problem. He doesnt seem to have any skin to pull up and down over his penis. he has a plump shiney ...

My girlfriend is still in regular contact with the woman she cheated on me with, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I am female and i am in a relationship with a girl we have been together over a year now and in November i proposed to her on our year anniversary she said yes. the only thing is six month into our relationship she cheated on she told me straight ...

Am I crazy to be consumed by the idea of having a threesome with my husband and another man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been happily married for 20 yrs. Recently I have had fantasies about having a threesome with him and one of his friends. I mentioned this to him and he loved the idea and asked which friend? It doesn't matter to me as long as ...

Will my dependency on sex workers affect any future relationships with women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - I'm worried that my dependancy on sex workers might one day make it impossible for me to be in a real relationship with a woman I see strippers about 2x a week and visit prostitutes 3-4x a month. i also call sex phone lines or watch pornogra...

Why can't I come during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Okay, I know I'm not alone in this by any means. Why can't I come during sex? I know I can have orgasms, certainly. I've masturbated quite frequently from a young age, and have been consistently able to come (granted, it takes twenty minutes ...

He comes too fast how do I control this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I’ve been with my bf for 5 months and recently started having sex with him. I was a virgin and he wasn’t. I enjoy it so far but I find that he doesn’t last long enough. He fingers me first but I like actual sex with him a lot more and I’d like to ...

How do I make the move to be more intimate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - im 13 me and my gf are really close,i lie on the couch with her and she likes it. how do i make the move to be more intimate?...

17 and a 40 year old having sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hello. I was just wondering if it's ok for a seventeen year old girl to have sex with a forty year old man? I've known him for a few months and we've been talking a lot. I really like him and want him. I know that it is a significant age difference, ...

Pain after sex should I see a doctor?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - MY boyfriend has a three inch penis when its erect, bummer i know but he knows how to use it so its good, but yesterday he put it in to far, and it hurt, but i dont tell him cus it feels good at the same time, but yesterday i guess he put it in too ...