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Archived questions from: 6 December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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I need help with harder erections with girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (M - my gf wants to give me a handjob but i dont get super super hard while we makeout. she usually straddles me and we makeout while i caress her boobs and her bum and other places and the makeout is intense and i get semi hard but i never pull it out ...

Been together 5 years and I don't want to have sex anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F - So, my and my boyfriend have been dating now for 5 years. im 21 and hes 23. I love him very much and see myself marring him someday. BUT, it seems like for the past 2 years our sex life has gone down the hill. Now there are some factors that play ...

Help with my erections....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (M - Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into the one post Question 1: what can my girlfriend do to help me get an erection? we usually straddle(shes on top of me like sex position) and we makeout and i start caressin...

Do you think he is just using me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F - Theres this gyy he says he really likes me, we've been to the cinema once, and he only really texts me when he wants to meet up with me, and all he really does is pick me up, have sex with me then drop me home again. When i ask him to meet up he ...

Did he just want sex from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F - he drove for an hour to see me.. we went for a ride on thursday night. i asked what he wants cos he started kissing me( cos i dont just want sex.. i want more than that) he said he doesn't know.. he wants to get to know me then decide. i haven...

Discovered my husband strutting in my stilletoes on camera!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F - while searching files on my husbands computer.I found a small pornographic video. This however is not particuarily out of the ordinary as we've filmed ourselves several times. I've not yet experienced any unusual sexualilty with him to this date. ...

I am stressing because I might be pregnant

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6 December 2009 (F - I was not supposed to start my period until December 2nd. I had unprotected sex on November 22nd and the very next day I started my period. It was a little different, (I dont really know, I rarely pay attention to it, I just know the dates) but Im ...

I don't want him to think I am in love with him just because we had sex

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6 December 2009 (F - I've been dating this guy for 3 mo.We see each other once a wk - Mainly me initiating it.Recently we had plans and he 4got to call(he told me b4 hand that he had to help a friend but wasnt sure what day of the wk/wknd it'd be.Well It was that ...

How can I please my g/friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

6 December 2009 (M - OK, so here is the situation. me and my girlfriend are now getting a sexualy intimate. I have lately been fingering her. It seems like she enjoys it very much. But getting her to orgasm seems difficult. She will not take off her pants. so i undo her ...

A girl I like says she has a big secret, and I think I know what it is!

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6 December 2009 (M - listen to me... i have recently been talking to this amazing girl. we were talking today and she was telling me about how she was crying all the time and how one person does it to her and all this. she said it was her one secret she never told ...

My girlfriend is 15, I am three years older, we are considering sex

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6 December 2009 (M - I am 18, and my new girlfriend is 15. I have don't plan to have sex any time soon, but you never know. I am wondering about the legalities if I were to have sex now; is it still statutory rape because i am 18 and shes 15, if for what ever reason...

A pregnancy question

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6 December 2009 (F - I want to kno if you can get pregnant even though the penis is not all the way inside you but the head goes in but not far while you are on top and he has precum?...

We have been together for 4 weeks and I am too lazy to have sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

6 December 2009 (F - My boy friend any I have only been together 4 weeks and have a great relationship and I'm very happy but every time it comes down to having sex I just can't be bothered to have sex. I enjoy having sex and especially with him but I have always been ...

My girlfriend is put off by my orgasm

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

6 December 2009 (M - Some time ago my girlfriend (of a couple years) and I were making out on the couch. For the first time she put her hands down my pants and started giving me a hand job. I must say that it felt really good. In fact, perhaps too good because I ...

What does sperm taste like?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

6 December 2009 (F - I'm thinking of giving a blowjob to my boyfriend and since it'l be my first time then ofcourse I'm abit fridged about it. I've read nearly all the answers on tecniques but I'd like to know: What does sperm taste of and whats it feel like? Li...

I think my husband only wants me for sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

6 December 2009 (F - Okay, I'm a 29 year old female, married, and have a 2 year old. I feel like all my husband wants from me is sex and when I don't want to he pouts. Being a new mother I'm tired all the time and he always wants to when I'm ready for bed. I've told him ...

We broke up due to cheating, but now she is cheating with me!

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6 December 2009 (M - 5 Months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend with whom I'd had sex with and with whom I'd been with for a year and a half. She was too jealous and too clingy, and as a result of this, she split up my whole group of friends, as they felt they couldn't ...

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