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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My sex drive has died, could it be the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hi, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend this year, it was both our first time. I went on birth control Microgn 30 two months later to help improve my periods. On these i got quite ill and moody, but i did have a good sex life with him. After 3 months ...

Any tips on rimming?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - im a gay teen, was curious about rimming? any tips please, as I don't know much about oral to anal sex and would rather get advice first. thank you x...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Can anyone tell me what's similar and different between vaginal and anal sex? And what does giving a BJ fee llike? [Mod note: I think the age range given by the poster is likely to be inaccurate.]...

I am a virgin being tempted by a sex addict yet wanting to resist

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am an eighteen-year-old female virgin who does not intend to have sex until her wedding night. While I do not have a purity ring (I think I'm getting one for Christmas, though), I do have kind of a purity symbol--I write the word p...

My boyfriend masturbates and leaves the evidence in unusual places

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Okay soo my boyfriend of almost 3 years tends to look up porn online alot not everysday but when im not around....this really bothers mee...i know its normal but it makes me sick when he maturbates into out trash can in the bedroom or stuff like ...

Kissing Cousins of the Bi Sexual Variety!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - ok, basically me and my cousin are really close but we are almost like opposites shes chav im emo bla bla bla but me and her are best mates we tell each other everything and i know all her secrets and she knows all mine but today she turned round ...

We are living together but she doesn't want sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Me and My Girlfriend have been dating for a little ova 2 months. Im 20 shes 18. Shes had a rough patch, and shes been used, cheated on, and used some more. Shes been living with me and my parents for about a month now (wed be on our own but I got ...

Why does doggy-style cause me to bleed and cause me pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - When me and my boyfriend do it doggy style sometimes it really hurts me although other times it is quite pleasureable. when we tried it at the weekend it really hurt and there was blood in my cum. I have two questions, 1. Should I be worried about...

Why would my husband suddenly stop wanting sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - What are the reasons ,when a highly sexual husband suddenly stops wanting sex, and when he tries it he is losing his erections? I mean one day to the next... With no signs for any change. Just suddenly ,like bang. And its over. He went limp at the ...

Which position is the best for the man's lasting longer but isn't boring?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - What sex position is the most longlasting for guys but isn't boring for neither of the sides? Doesn't have to be intimate just good :)...

Any inventive sex suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Having fun and looking for new ideas. It is my turn to come up with something new. Last time we tried ice in the anus (recommended). We also use toys. Any inventive suggestions?...

Sex... doggy style!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hi, my new bf wants to have sex doggy style and he keeps asking me. I haven't done it like that before (it just never appealed to me and my last bf preferred other positions) but my new bf seems to really want it. I told him i didnt like that pos...

I need some tips about sex and erections!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - so my girlfriend and i are planning to have sex christmas time. i'm worried about it though cuz lately i havent been getting my usualy 5 and a half erections that are strong, i keep getting like just 5 semi hard. she gets me semi hard by dry humping ...

Sex really hurts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - ive been in a relationship for about 7 months now and im sexually active, but i have a problem when i do have sex, everything is fine but if my bf puts his penis all the way in me it reallly hurts, makes me cry even, even if im really aroused/wet ...

If you're not dating a guy, how far is too far?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - If you and a guy start talking and yournot going out yet, how far is tooo far? Are you aloud to make out with him or go farther? Or should you wait until your going out. Should you hold of to give a blowjob or have sex? HELP!...

Sometimes when we have sex, I do not feel anything, pleasure-wise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex I do not feel anything, pleasure wise. But there are times when it does feel really good. I love him, and i am very attracted to him, so what does this mean?...

Do I have a problem? My sex drive is through the roof!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I'm a active healthy, woman, I work, go to school, eat and exercise, and as of lately, my sex drive has gone through the roof, I masturbate at least 2-5 times a day, I don't want to call anyone over because the two men I got gets tired, do you think ...

We've barely had sex for 3 months, is he cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have been in my relationship for 5 years, and we had sex at least 6 times a month, but within the last year, we barely have sex within 3 months at all, what should I do ? Do you think he's cheating? And before anyone say sex toys, high heels, ...

What do you do when your partner doesn't want sex as often as you do and isn't willing to change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - What do you do when your partner doesn't want sex as often as you do and isn't willing to change? I am in a long term gay relationship. After a few years of being frustrated and rejected I broke it off as I couldn't take it any more. My sex dri...

Too young to have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - [Mod note: two questions from same user combined here.] Q1: i have alwasy had a gut feeling to wait for the perfect guy. and to not have sex until marriage or to wait till i am older to have sex. ive had boyyrfirneds in the past but im in love wi...

How will I know if I'm 'in love' with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hey guys, i'm really confused. Ive been with my boyfriend for about a year in a half. Weve broken up about 3 times and have gotten back together. We broke up because we werent sure if we wanted to have a long distance relationship bec...

We've been talking for a while and stuff and we're going to have sex. Only I'm scared.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Okay I met this really great guy we've been talking for a while now and stuff and he wants to have sex. I do too but I'm really scared of how much it is going to hurt. So could u all help me understand how much it is going to hurt it would be great. ...

I need to go from small to bigger.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - ok,so me and my BF was pose to have sex but i was to small(my hole).do yall no how i can get bigger and does this mean ill never have real sex?...

I am worried about being embarrassed during anal sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - i am a 17 year old gay male and am ready for receiving anal sex. I have fingered myself on many occasion and found this quite enjoyable. However, I am worried about being embarrassed during anal sex, due to my anus smelling or tasting bad. I am also ...

I like sex far m ore often than he does and this is causing problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - I am in a long term gay relationship. Things between us are mostly good and we love each other a lot but when it comes to sex I would like a whole lot more than my partner. After a few years of struggling with this I broke up with him. I couldn't ...

Could missing that pill possibly cause me to get pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i know how crazy this sounds,but im gunna be 19 in february. I got pregnant around this tyme last year but had an abortion because i wasnt sure if having a baby was what i wanted and i was also starting college in the fall. Now i want a baby more ...

After a drunken night of hot tub sex, I find out he's got a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Alright so I'm 17 and I went to my friends house last night to drink with him, his brother and his brothers girlfriend. We are all friends here. So the night progresses on and me and this guy , lets call him George, start to get closer. George and I ...

Was this too soon to have sex after a termination?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i need help!!! i had sex 10 days after i had a termination will i be ok??? they told me to wait until 14 days surely 4 days wont hurt or do you think i should see a doctor?...