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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm worried about the first time and not living up to expectations!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Ok, so I've been dating this girl for two and a half months, and I think we're in love. Today she asked me to come over and to finger her, but I said I couldn't because I was too nervous. I know I shouldn't be, if we really are in love then she ...

A conversation with a friend gives me more questions than answers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Hello, One of by best mates is a girl, we are very close. We finished school early today as it is the last day of term and we decided to go on a walk together. it was snowing so we had alot of fun. after a while of talking we randomly started ...

Semen found on backside of boyfriend's underwear?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I saw dried semen on the back (outside) of my boyfriend's underwear. There was more on back side than inside the front of underwear. We live together and after sex he always go right to sleep, (I generally don't), so he doesn't clean up or wipe with ...

Is it weird to get turned on by the pain of first time sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Ok im a girl and i was wondering if this is normal. I talked to my friends and they all said it will hurt your first time haveing sex and even made there boyfriends stop. When i had sex for the first time it did hurt but i liked the pain alot and ...

Is this masochistic dream something to worry about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I just had a really masochistic dream and it's scaring me because I don't know what's going on with me and I don't want to turn into a masochist. Actually, I hardly remember the dream, but I remember quite well the sexually masochistic fantasies I ...

He has a fecal fetish!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I need help.. ive been dating this guy who is 28 for about 3mos now, I am a couple years older the problem is he is constantly talking and obsessed with feces and wants to be humilated by this his mis happenings. The main talk is this situation. He ...

My first time and I didnt enjoy the experience!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend fingered me for the first time but I wasn't really turned on and it wasn't sore but will he think I'm strange because I wasn't "wet". Does it bother gu when a girl is "dry". We had been kissing for a while but it wasn't until I was ...

I don't understand the need for some people to hurt others during sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - More so a question for the guys, ... but comments from females welcome too. After some comments heard today, I am rather curious as to the overall psychology going on behind this seemingly wide spread phenomena that causes SOME guys to actually...

My husband wants to watch me with another man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 13 years and during this time he has hinted off and on that it would be a turn on for him to see me have sex with another man. I remember at first feeling repulsed by even the thought of being with someone else ...

Drawn to him even though I know he is only there for the cheap thrills

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I can't understand why I am being so stupid and why I keep doing this to myself. I am a shy 26 year old who has never been with a guy sexually, everyone who knows me thinks I am sheltered and basically thinks it's funny, which is fine. I am tryi...

This is THE weekend I lose my virginity, I need to prepare myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and we both decided to give our virginity to each other this Saturday night. I just want to know how should I prepare myself mentally and physically? ...

My ex has sex with me and then goes and calls his girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Three weeks ago i found out that my boyfriend was cheating with me. We had a big fight and he left me. He called me bitch and said he never loved me. One week ago he called me and asked for help...he came to my state to do his pratical and he needed ...

Slept with 2 brothers, now what do I do if I see them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I met a man this summer and i fell for him really quickly, we had sex after a few dates and then i found out he was seeing someone. I carried on chasing him and slept with him a few more times until he stopped calling. I recently bumped into his...

I only had sex once and I didn't love it, what did I do wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Ive only had sex once before. It was almost a year ago. I have to say I didnt find it really that good. I didnt orgasm.. All i felt was alot of pressure and the thrusting and pain. Is that normal? ALl my other friends seem to love sex. I tend to ...

My question is: why is it so hard for us to talk about making it official?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Okay so let me tell you a little bit about my situation..so thrs this guys that ive known for a while but we've decided to be FWB...so far its been great no strings attatched rite?!...well im starting to catch feelings for him..and i know he is too ...

I put my life on hold but now I want to get it back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a huge problem and I would appreciate some much needed helpful advice and an insight into what the heck is going on. I'm 21 years old I had a very troubling past but got my life on track. My partner and I got together two years ago. Just ...

Is my compulsion to make women orgasm an addiction?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 28 year old man and I think I'm addicted to making women orgasm. When I'm with a woman I'm intimate with, I just crave making her cum. It really turns me on, but I actually feel almost compelled to do it. I love, LOVE going...