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Archived questions from: 28 December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Can I satisfy my partner with my small penis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - my penis shape is right curvature,,can i satisfied my life partner?...

Do girls like having sex as much as guys do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - hello everyone; i am a male, 25.. and i am still a virgin... and i always wonder if girls like having sex as much as guys do...; talking of asian girls they are very shy and find it immoral to talk about sex..; it doesn't seem that they enjoy doing ...

What does a girl need to do when she's getting fingered?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I have come close many times to getting fingered. . .but I said no because I don't know what to do. Do I need to just sit there while he does it, or do I need to be kissing him?...

Sexually frustrated boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together about 5 months, he is sexually unhappy, but i just never seem to be in the mood.. i am fine without sex to be. what can i do to become more sexually active? to have the want for sex more?...

I don't want husband around me or to even joke about sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - after having all kind of married problem an example(sex life,big deferent age 22 year's diferent,money,etc)our love turned in to a friends,un our days we don't hav sex for than 3 months, and to be honest i dont want him to touch me or even to joke ...

Can I Lower my sex drive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I'm a young guy and I know that I should have a strong sex drive, but mine is overpowering. I have been wanting sex 5, 6, 7 or more times daily, which is obviously an unattainable feat. My sex drive is causing me to lose focus on other things, ...

Which protection is safer?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for a year now. I've decided i want to loose my virginity to him. when we started talking about what protection we would use we had an issue. for my first time i want a guy to cum inside me, but of course i ...

I think I'm gay so what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - im 17 year old male. when i masterbate i think of boys and i enjoy use anal toys and thinking there penis, i do think about woman but they dont turn me on as much. i think im gay so what should i do??...

Is my wife trying to break my attachment to her by being unemotional?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Hi everyone whats all this about can you help me, im going mad. Over the last 12 months my marriage has broken up, we were together for 7 years. Myself and my wife have had affairs, She moved out some months ago. Two weeks ago we both admitted...

I'm confused, does he still have feeling for me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ok, so i dated this guy for maybe.....2 months. When we met we had an instant, phenominal conection. Like, its wierd to explain, it was like we had known each other all of our lives. Thing is....is that he's 18 and im 16....legally, we cant date. ...

He just doesn't seem that interested...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - hey there ok i have been coming here for awhile now and my bf has just been making me so depresset. he is to into his video games i have been trying to set up a day where i can see him and i asked him if he would wanna stay the night tomorrow...

What's the safest way to cum inside my girlfriend without getting her pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend really wants me to cum inside her, while yes this sounds very hot, Im at the same time very apprehensive to do it because i'm not ready for a kid, she said she is going to get on the pill so we'll wait 7 days before we have sex, but my ...

Is sexting considered cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ugh. Okay, im in a really difficult (for me) situation. I feel I have cheated on my boyfriend of 3 months. Im one of those people who are insanely against cheating and is 100% for honesty so the possibility of this sort of thing happening never ...

My boyfriend can't keep up with my high libido, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I am 21 and have a high libido. My boyfriend of one year has a hard time keeping up with me. So much so that we fight about it more than I think is healthy. It really has caused some emotional problems with me. When he withholds it makes me worry ...

I like her sober, but I don't like the clingy, crazy girl she becomes when drunk...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Ok, so I have slept with my friend a few times now... She is cool when she is sober and I like her but when she gets really drunk she gets really crazy and clingy. I dont do clingy! I met her at the pub the other day and she was completely off her ...

How can we become more intimate without having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months now. Earlier in the year we had dated for about 2 1/2 months, also. Recently he has been indicating that he wants to have sex, although I have made it pretty clear that I don't really want to do ...

Why does my husband think showing me his flaccid penis is a turn on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Married 6 years and very happy. My husband is 15 years older than me but eveyone who knows would say I am the mature party in our relationship. We have a toddler and our sex life is gearing back up now that nights are less interrupted and back to ...

Do I shave it all off or leave some?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hello Right, i am 16,, female and i am with a 20 year old. We are ready for sex but i keep putting it off because of my down below.. i have been shaving it off for so long, and i dont know weather or not he will like it, and i want it to be ...

Unsure about bringing another man into the marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I am confused as I said before I am married , and my husband has asked me several times about bringing another man into our bed. We even have named my dildo, at this point I am fine with the dildo in my mouth, or pussy while my husbands penis is i...

Am I being used and should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I’m a 43 yo female living with my boyfriend going on 3 years. I want to be married and have told him this. He told me he wants to marry as well but wants to make sure first. I wonder if he wants to marry at all now because I came upon some missing ...

Why does sex seem to kill my relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I really enjoy sex but not promiscuously... only with someone I really care about.. problem is that when I am with someone I care about and that side of me comes out.. things seem to take a turn for the worse in my relationships.. kinda like they ...