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Archived questions from: 27 December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Should I apologize to him, and when?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - How long should i wait to aplolise to him? Theres a guy i meet about 4 months ago and we spoke every night, i went to see him last weekend on the train. and stayed over (we did other stuff but didnt have sex) it was great though, we couldnt stop ...

Girlfriend wants to videotape me with two other girls!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - When my girlfriend and I began to date, she told me she wouldn't mind if I had "women on the side" as long as she was #1. I laughed and dismissed the idea as silly at the time. She is from Indonesia (very smart and a citizen of the U.S. now) and I ...

Will sex affect my relationship with my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - So heres the situation: me[im male 18] and my best freind [female19] both virgins. best freinds for 4 years before we dated. been going out for nearly a year now. We are both close to ready to having sex. I want to do what i need t...

How do I know when my girlfriend "is in the mood"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - hey im a 14 year old boy who is wondering when a girl gets in "the mood". you know i dont wanna have sex yet cause i know im to young but you know i wanna finger her and all that other stuff. my girlfriend is 14 and she likes the first and second ...

First sex acts after a 3-week-break were painful, I wasn't a virgin, can you explain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Hey all, not a concern just confusion, recently my boyfriend of nearly two years went on holiday to america for 3 weeks, before he went the sex was really good :) But when he returned and we had sex for the first time again it was so painful, it f...

What does everything but sex actually mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - My best friend (a girl, but that's not alll thatrelevent) was telling me about her new boyfriend. We're very close. Anyway she told me tht her bf had said he'd do everything but sex with her. Not wanting to look stupid cos I like that this girl fee...

How much does he actually like me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - How much does he actually like me??? I met a guy 3 months ago, we worked at the same place but he was just at my work for few weeks until we got another head chef. He is 23 and i am 26, i really liked him from the beginning and turned out he liked...

I really want to move on but how do I tell my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - i really hav a mess sex life with my husband,i tried all i could,i tried to talk to him about counseling either but he keep on saying we don't we hav problem to take to counseling and he says that's just wast of money,we had been tryiny to make ...

My girlfriend wants to wait until marriage to have sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - So wat do i do, me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2 years plus and have talked about having sex? She finally said she would talk to her mom about getting birth control. She has been avoiding it and so i reminded her that she should ...

I think I've desensetized my penis due to masturbating, if I stop this will it get better? How can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - Hi there. Im 20 years old and i have been masturbating since i was about 12-13, and problaby 2 a day since i was 15. Now when i was about 17 i started having sex and ever since that time i have had problems ejaculating. Recently this problem has ...

Could I suffer from premature ejaculation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - I am a virgin but hopefully not for long ;) anyways i obvioulsy dont know how long i can last in bed but it REALLY worries me that i wont be long enough. I understand PE to be the inability to delay ejaculation. Well like i said im not expe...

Why can't I ejeculate with masturbation or handjobs

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - why can't I cum when I masterbate Im not circumsized and I haven't ejeculated from masterbating or handjobs...

First time horror sex story--help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - Hi all, Lets get right into it. So I've been playing around with a girl I'm dating for a few months. It comes down to us having sex and, a long story short, I couldn't maintain an erection (yes its all right to gasp, even smile a little. I did af...

Was it right me sleeping with my boyfriend christmas night despite our problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Was I right to sleep with my babies father Christmas night? I have not been very happy with him for sometime as we do not live together, we are not talking about a more commited relationship. He has not introduced me to his family. (Our so...

I want to have his baby but he doesn't love me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - im 24 and pregnant. Ive been in love wit the same man since i was 18 and he def isnt in love wit me. He has another gf who ive seen he loves yet we still sleep together ive not told him yet. We have a bad past ive previously told his current gf we ...

I said sure... but I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - I am 15 years old and I have been dateing my boyfriend for a few months now. That might not seem long but it is to me. He asked me lastnight if I would be willing to give him a handjob. I said sure because I like him so so much but I don't know how ...

Do I tell him I enjoyed it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - A few nights ago when my mate slept over, him on the floor and me in my bed, he made a move on me while he thought l was asleep, l felt him play with me only for a couple of minutes l got an errection but pretened to stay asleep. I am not saying l ...