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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Weak erections

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Why cant the porn I watch on the internet get me hard like before? When my girlfriend said she was gunna give me handjobs and blowjobs I just stopped getting really hard when I watch porn. Why is this? and will eating bananas and fish help my ...

Is it ok to do it with the shower head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I'm thirteen years old and i can't stop masturbating. I just figured out the best way to do it (shower head) and I'm in love with it! is it ok?...

Why do I get so wet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Why do I get sooooooooo wet? when ever I'm with my boyfriend I get really really wet, the sheets are wet kind of like I peed, yeah it's that much.... but the funny part is sometimes I dont even come or feel any pleasure but it still gets soooooooo ...

Why does sex hurt so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Every time I have sex it hurts like it is the first time. Why is that and what can I do? I'm going to end up hating sex!...

I am cheating but instead of making me happy, it makes me cry

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - whenever my boyfriend and I have sex i never come unless he goes down on me, but lately Ive been crying after sex, Im also seeing some1 else and after sleeping with him I also started crying and I didnt even come, I laugh and cry alot its wiered and ...

Its only been 4 days but can she be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - my girlfriend and i had sex the other day without a condom and she was on the pill but didnt take it 2 days b4 this happend and didnt take a morning after pill, now she says her stomach aches but its only been 4 days can anyone help ...

I'm confused about the comment he made and don't know what to feel now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are long-distance. To bring us closer I tried to do one thing he fantasizes about: anal sex. I don't like anal sex, never really had much of it and the little I had I didnt like. But my boyfriend wants to try it, and to not loose ...

I don't know if I can face sex yet

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - MOD NOTE: Age states 13, but poster stated he is 15. Okay, theres this guy...lets call him Tom. Tom and I have been talking online for about two months, recently we admitted we have feelings for each other. Now, he is 18 and I'm 15, we are plann...

I sent my ex a sexy pic to taunt him with what he couldnt have, and now my BF is upset

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - me and my ex husband never got got just a few weeks ago he started texting me at first nothing bad then he came to my work n then started text n me how hot i looked and asking if i would have a affair with him so i sent him a sexy pic and said never ...

Is this guy worth a second date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - pls help me, im a virgin n never been in relatnshps..nw my bf is askin fr a second date....on d first he lockd hs car n grabd my breast n kissed forcibly n tried 2 remove my top.i cried n he left me. he cld n said sry but continues wid horny mesages ...

My wife watches porn while I'm at work. How do I get past this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - My wife is pregnant with our third child. We've been married for 13 years. Over the years I've been constantly trying to spice things up in the bedroom and failed. She always seemed satisfied with the simple wham bam. She claimed to be open to anyth...

Is there a chance that I might be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Ever since i thought i was pregnant, my periods have become more irregular... and i actually skipped one last month! My mother keeps questioning me about pregnancy, of which i've been denying because the last time i had intercourse was back in July ...

What's right for my partner in regards to size?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Many people have already asked about penis size and what a girl considers to be too big or too small; however there is one key piece of information that's missing from those posts. That question is, how big is the girl in question. Now, for the sake...

Should I resign myself to my current unhappy life or pursue the new relationship...it's just so hard. Is there an answer?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I don't know where to begin, so I will start with some background information. I have been married for 20 years, have a child in college, 1 in high school and 1 in 4th grade. I got married at age 26. When I dated my wife we had a lot in com...

Newly-wed virgin looking for tips...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - i'm newly wed and am n virgin i need tips on sex...

Should I meet for sexual activity? I don't want to date him and I'm 15.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I am meeting with this boy this friday from my school. He is just so mmmmmm sexyyy its weird coz i never fort i wus ever go out with him before in my life. i think he wants to have sex with me but so do i ha i dont wanna go out with him tho j...

How to break hymen before having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old .. still a virgin I want to break my hymen before i have sex .. should I do it and if so how would I go about this ??? Thank you :)...

Am I doing the right thing by staying with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - i have a big issue and i dont know how to handle it ,i met this girl on a party and well we hooked up that day without knowing each other in the dark ,but we didnt have no intercourse but the second time i saw her we did have sexual intercourse she ...

How not to masturbate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - How can I get rid of habit of masturbating? I guess I began to mastb since I was at primary school. Sometimes I do hate it, but I can't help doing it again. I feel upset each time after I do it....

Should I tell my lover's wife her husband is a philandering fink?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - hi there i thought i was the only woman who is involved with a married man but it seems there are out many out here and i wish someone can help me. we works for different companies, then texted, emailed, he sent me flowers, chocolate and w...

I took him back, but I still feel betrayed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years now, but a year ago, he cheated. I took him back after only a week of thinking on it and feeling sorry for myself. I just knew I couldn't handle life without him, but I still get images of them ...

Why am I having sex dreams about cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I have been having a ton of sex dreams where I cheat on my boyfriend, with boys I used to think were hot. I am still totally devoted to him and would never, ever cheat on him, because that's just not the kind of person I am. I still love him and ...

I'm jealous of my boyfriend's anatomy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - So recently I realized that I'm constantly feeling envious of my boyfriend's sex organs. I don't know what to do, it is a constant obsession that actually interferes with my life. I'm incredibly satisfied in bed, always, and have an orgasm every ...

Hands jobs and embarassment

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for over five months and just a few days ago i gave him his first hand job (in his life) and he gave me my first(in my life). i have a few questions now though. 1:since it was my first hand job, i feel...

Alot of sex sometimes without condom equals pregnancy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i used the pull out method ,but one night we did it several times, and after he pulled out i would give him a hand job then an hour or less later we did it again. I am not really sure how long its been since that night and we have ...

HIV & oral sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I need advice from only men an women that know! My girl friend is hiv + ! I am not! I so much want to please her orally ! What are the risk to me if I do an often! Also right now her hiv is undetecable! I need to know if it is being done by other an ...

Everyone is telling me my boyfriend will dump me because he just wants sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Everyone keeps telling me that my bf will dump me and leave me and just want sex, is this true? Should I listen to them? Basicaly whats happened is that when my bf and I first met he wanted sex early in the relationship, but I didnt because I ...