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Archived questions from: 7 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I need to know some good "make-out' do's and don'ts..any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - what are some good make out do's and dont's for me? (a guy)....trying to please my gf. and if we have only made out once in 3 months- is that moving too slow? and if my gf doesn't express her feelings for me as much as i do to her....is there ...

We want a 3rd person to videotape our sex sessions? Good idea or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I and my husband are seriously discussing to have our love making session video taped by another person. We are not exhibitionists or swingers, and have never done anything like this before. We don't want that person to join us for any sex play. ...

Is he not sexually attracted to me? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - i have a man who tells me he's not into sexual things for instance, like trying new things with food, me dancing for him, or doing all the freaky things I would love, to please him. Is it because he's not sexually attracted to me? help, what am i ...

Anal sex has caused me to bleed...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - So last week me and my boyfriend had anal sex, we have done this once before with lube. But this time we were in the shower and just in the mood to try it again although, this time we didn't use lube. Now he started off slow and gentle cause it did ...

I want to arrange a threesome for me and my boyfriend... but I think my jealousy will get in the way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend now for about a year and a half. I know his fantasy is a threesome, which I've no qualms with having as I'm bisexual and have had many more years with women than men. I love him dearly and I know he loves me too. I th...

It hurts like hell down there! What's wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

7 August 2009 (?) - Right hey everyone. Me and my bf are sexually active but thats not why Im writting. After doing this one time it was quite rough and now from then on everytime I pee it well, it used to burn but now it just hurts. Its on the inside wall. Please can ...

How can I make first-time sex for my girlfriend as painless as possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - I am currently 17 and my girlfriend is 16. We have what you would call a pretty LONG distance relationship because she lives in Arizona and I live in North Carolina. However, as soon as I get a job and my first few paychecks I plan on taking a trip ...

How can I learn to live with knowing that he doesn't find me attractive? Is that even important?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - My husband told me before me we married that he does not look at porn, but about 6 months ago I caught him at it, and he admitted he has been doing it throughout our 2 year marriage. When we were dating, he couldn't keep his hands off me and wanted ...

Questions about sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what is wrong with me? After sex, I don't want to see the person anymore or have any sort of contact with them. I don't even care if they don't want to ever see me again as well. When they do contact me, I feel so disgusted and I end up ...

Troubles with sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - i am a 24 year old women and me and my fiance has been together for 3 years and we have a 1 year old together and have a 7 year old from a previous relationship and since and me fiance started having sex everything has been wonderful no problems ...

I'm taking the pill and not sure if this is normal what has happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I've recently started taking the pill. The doctors told me to only start taking it once my next period came and when it did, I started taking the pills. Normally, my periods only last about 5 days so I was expecting the same with this period, if not ...

Do girls cum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Do girls cum? if so what is it? and how does it happen? i know guys cum but was just wondering if girls did to....

I don't believe in true love so I want my friend to pop my cherry!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - How can I convince my friend to pop my cherry before I go off to the college? I really don't believe in "True Love", so I'm not waiting for the right man....

Sex problems - it's spoiling our relationship! How can we fix it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - Long question, but can you please advise me? I've been in a relationship for about a month or so now, and it has recently become a sexual relationship. But for how ever many reasons, it isn't as simple as I think it should be. There are a num...

I have NOT dated anyone for the past years because I get too wet during sex! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I have a problem where for the past 7 years or so (Im 36 now), I get so incredibly wet when I masturbate and orgasm that I have NOT dated anyone since then because of it. Well, I also don't date because I've learned the hard way that guys just want ...

How can I tell her the truth about how many people I slept with, without losing her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - I have told my girlfriend that I only slept with 5 people as she has only slept with 4. I did this at the start of the relationship. Last night she asked me again for the names of the people but I could not remember who I had told her as my f...

Am I doing something wrong here or is it him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and everytime we have sex or oral sex he cums eveytime. Just resently when I give him oral sex he takes forever or never to cum. He says he's enjoying it. And I can tell that he does. But I'm getting ...

Should I have a threesome with my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - so my bestie is like 25 and he has a booty call gurl shes 21 and bi iam 19 and bi so my firen well we were kindda dating when i was 15. hes gurl likes me and i like her shes koo but not like immma steal her from him but they bot...

Why do I suddenly feel guilty after masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I started masturbating when I was 13 years old, and have never felt any guilt about it until recently (8 years later). It feels great and I don't feel bad while I'm doing it, but afterward I now find that I am feeling very guilty/ashamed/embarrassed ...

Stay in a sexless marraige or take a chance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I;m only in my early forties ,and my husband does not want to have any sexual contact with me due to some unclear psychological problems. I need sex, i don't believe in cheating, shoud I leave him? It is a tragedy for me, I never thought it will tur...

I keep going back to my ex even though I know I need to move on! Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Hi well my problem is that me and my ex boyfriend where together for four years and that was two years ago we randomly sleep together when we see eachother which i regret after every time. Could you give me some tips on how to let go and stop goi...

Could I become pregnant so soon after stopping the pill?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I Was on the Yaz pill for 2 months straight, I started to take my 3rd pack but in the first week I stopped because they were causing horrible migraines. My period came 6 days later like it normally does because my cycles are regular. Well 2 weeks ...