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Archived questions from: 9 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Since our son's birth...no sex and I'm frustrated! Please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - My wife and I are now in a sexless marriage after the birth of our son, six years ago. Over the last six years we have had sex on no more than 10 occassions. I have tried speaking to her about this but she doesn't want to speak to me, she just goes ...

He says at his age a relationship "needs" to have sex. I'm not ready. Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Hey I am 16, and the guy that thinks im totally amazing; we really like eachother and sorta go out. He is 19. In 5 months he will be 20. He says that at his age a relationship needs to have sex. Im totally not ready for sex. I have told him my view ...

My b/f wants to see me having sex with another, but I fear it could ruin our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - hello i am just wondering if its normal that my boyfriend wants me to f__k another man i love him even though i am into kinky shit...and i love sex and 3 somes which i have done lots before but only once with my boyfriend who i have been with for ...

When we have sex my GF is tight at the start then loosens up, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - when having sex with my girlfriend she is tight at the start but then after a litte bit her vagina is much looser. it doesnt feel as tight around my penis as other girls have in the past. my penis is 5 and a half inches circumference so it is bigger ...

Will I still be a virgin if I masturbate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

9 August 2009 (?) - hi i want to know that if i masturbate i am avirgin or i lose my virginity and i want to know when do a male lose his virginity...

I lost my virginity recently... why does it still hurt when having sex? And why did I bleed the last time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have recently began having sex, i lost my virginity to him. It hurt the first time which i expected and i bled a bit that time as well as the second time however it continues to hurt each time we have sex. I am prepared before we ...

Confused about how HIV can be transferred!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Ok So i wanted to ask this question because a friend said that u cant get infected with aids if u swallow blood and u dont have cuts or sores I was like noway man u do get aids from swallowing blood I said that coz i've read that u can get aids fro...

Could this be an STD?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Hi Well i last my only sexual experience in may... and till now everything is fine... But now there is a small buldge near my scrotum and im scared what to do... i mean i used a condom and everything and even went to the doctor in May and ev...

Should I try to make amends with my ex ?

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9 August 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for about a year.. I lost my virginity to him and we even ended up moving in together,Forever the case may be we or I went through soo much shyt with him because my parents dissaproved.. At the time i was young and he was older and ...

How do I go about making a threesome in the best way for both of us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together for a long time and had our ups and dwns and I want to make things interesting by having a 3 sum before we tie the knot to make up for the too low of a budget for bachlor and bachlorette parties. I'm fine with ...

Golden shower fantasy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - I have this fantasy of having a girl urinate on me (Golden shower) I am single at the moment, But I worry that if I meet a girl she might think I was weird asking her to do such a thing. I don't want to scare anyone off. What should I do. Can some ...

Does he not find me attractive enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Hi. I have been with my husband for over three years, married to him for just over six months, and in this time he has only been able to get to the over excited point of orgasm maybe three times in total..all of those times its been through oral ...

Problems having sex with my boyfriend! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

9 August 2009 (?) - I'm having some sex problems and I'm very embrassed . every time me and my bf go to have sex we can't . my vag its to tight because I'm a virgin . we have tried everything possible . I really want to do this after we tried like 5 time but i...

I have feelings for him that go deeper then friendship..should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I have been seeing an amazing guy for a couple months now but it’s become more of a friend with benefits relationship then anything else. We are both totally comfortable with each other and could just sit and talk for hours but at the same time ...

I'm bi sexual and want to experiment sexually with my friend! How do I ask him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - how do i 'come out to my best mate'? im not gay, i might be bi, at the moment though im just abit curious and would really like to have sex with a man. My best friend seems to be the type of guy thats the same as me, i've not asked, he someti...