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Archived questions from: 5 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why will she no longer let me cum in her mouth?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - hello there, i find myself getting a little frustrated/resentful these days and have gone to counselling and been very open about the matter with my fiance. now i understand this topic may sound offensive or degrading to some women/men on h...

He is very territorial and we have sexual problems, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - At the end of May of this year, my ex got back in touch and we eventually decided to try again since the reasons we broke up 8 months before was mainly due to lack of time because of his career. We have now been dating 2 months and already I fe...

He says the sex is still amazing, so why would he not want to see me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I really need some advice. Have been seeing this guy casually for about 5 months. We always met up once a week to hang out and sleep together as we were friends with benefits and we both did not want a relationship. He used to text me around 3 times ...

He's a player who talks to me about everything and even sleeps naked with me, but he doesn't want sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - There’s that guy who is my neighbor and we get along really well. The problem is that we physically attracted to each other but he has had bad experience before hooking up with neighbors so he comes in my room sometimes and sleeps naked with me he ...

Is this the beginning of the end of our life together? I feel disgusted with him since he told me his fantasy.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 18 years. I know he had one partner before we married and I had also. The other night after a drink he asked me my sexual fantasy. I gave some chicky answer....on a beach or somehting. His was....Since I am ...

Our sex life is drying up...What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Hello,my name is ashley im 23 my boyfriend is 20 we have bin daiting for about 3 1/2 years and we have a lot of fun together...we used to have sex like every other day as time goes on and we get more and more used to each other we dont have sex as ...

I hate my clitoris being touched...is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - i absoloutly HATE getting my clit touched, i can't stand it. the only way i enjoy sex is when i'm fingered. is this normal?...

Wanting to "spice up" the times we make out. Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (?) - So i'm wanting to spice up the kissing a bit. You know, don't want to just keep doing the same thing every time we make out. Any fun tricks or things you like to do while making out that really gets your guy going?? I'm up for about anything! ...

If it goes from a relationship to casual sex, shouldn't the issue be discussed first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Hi all got a relationship question if a u go steady with someone and the relationship goes down and only becomes a sexual one am i right by saying that the person introduces it by saying he/she just wants sex because they hoping that some how they ...

None of the condoms fit him! Where can we get larger ones?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I love my man to bits and, if I may be so bold, the sex is out of this world! But we have a problem. We can't find condoms to fit him. Have tried Pasante Kingsize which are wider than even the Magnum XXL. They leave him with uncomfortable bru...

Oral Sex and my gums...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - whenever i give head..my gum's feel weird is it just me? lmaoo !?...

We had a nice night together, then he never called me again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Did I do the right thing? My ex and I seemed to be getting back together, we had sex afew times. but the last time he put on all the romantic moves, dinner, opening up, talking about our times together. We had a wonderful night and I stayed over ...

I caught my mum cheating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - hi all, i just want to talk about my mom and what happened to me. nearly a month ago I came home and i found out that my mom is cheating on my dad. i saw her having sex with a youngester and i can say she was really enjoying it. i didn't kno...

I have never given or received head before, I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Im 18 and still a virgin, my bf and I are getting very close and sex is on the horizon. Thats not my problem tho cause I know ive waited till the right time. But we were sitting talking one night in bed and the subject of giving head came up, I just ...

If I fantasize about heterosexual sex and breasts, am I a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I'm a 14 year old girl. When I masturbate, I often look at pictures of women. When I fantasize, I always think of a man and a woman having sex. I am neither of these people, nor do I identify with them. Although I usually make the girl about my ...

I just found out that my boyfriend slept with my mom!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - This may sound a little sick and twisted and that's cause it is. My boyfriend was my brothers best friend growing up (he's 10 yrs older than me). He's been a friend of the family for years. We have been together going on 4 yrs (no kids or talks ...

I'm afraid to go down on him..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Ok i have an issue. My boyfriend really wants me to give him head but I am really nervous. He says "I eat you out every time so why won't you do it to me?" I told him I am nervous to do it but he says ill always be nervous and i just need to do it ...

My boyfriend is obsessed with sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is obbsessed with sex thts all he talks about and i aint ready.........the thing is he lives in cali and i dnt.......i dnt wanna talk about sex let alone do it he is always trying to make me horny what should i do?...

I'm wondering about my body...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: Two questions by this poster combined into this post.] Question 1: well i want my boyfriend to finger me and perform oral but what if im not wet enough? i get turned on by him but i only get a little wet. Question 2: well im a vir...