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Archived questions from: 30 August, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Will circumcision make me last longer in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Due to having very tight foreskin when my penis is erect and also suffering from frenulum breve i am having a circumcision. I suffer from premature ejaculation. Quite serious, only lasting around 20 seconds when having intercourse but looking arou...

In love with my teacher. He is single and I want to get more involved

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I've had feelings for my teacher for a while now and I;m pretty sure he feels the same way by the way he talks to me, approaches me, and we even hug and slightly touch sometimes. Anyway, he's single and I want to get more involved but im not sure ...

Relative is flirting with me after giving me the cold shoulder

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - What is she after?? Please help, there is this girl who is a friend and a relative of mine. Since years now our friendship has been some times spicy and some times cold. Finally a year ago she suddenly got flirtatious and I got a little excited a...

Two one night stands with the same guy - How can I find out what is going on between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I have posted on this site before about a man who I had a one night stand with.. Well, it happened again... I like to go out on Friday nights, I usually go by myself because I always see people that I know. Well, I saw M again, it had been a ...

Was it a one off, or could it be more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I bumped into this guy I've known vaguely for a while. We'd never spoken properly but we got chatting and exchanged numbers. He text me that week and we arranged to do something the following weekend. Which we did and ended up sleeping together, I ...

He's beaten me before and is now pushing for sex, should I or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hi umm i need help with my relationship well we are not sexually active.He is really pushing sex though..He has beaten me to the point that Ive had to have stiches..but i still love him..I wonder he says if i love him I will have sex with and take...

When in a relationship do people usually hit third base?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5361 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I am a 17 year old girl, with an 18 year old boyfriend. (Canada) We've been going out for three months, and we hit 2nd base a while back. He started testing for 3rd, like carressing upper thigh, butt, etc. But he made sure I knew he'd never do ...

Do you think my colleague is using me for sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Im just very confused about this guy from work. I cant say I know him that well, we used to just have small talk whenever we bumped into each other and one day he asked me if I wanted to meet up for a drink, so we did and we had such a fun time that ...

We're 18 months into our relationship, and suddenly our family and friends are predicting when we'll start having sex! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Allo peoples! My girlfriend and I are over the year and a half mark in our relationship. She's 18 I'm still 17 but 18 in a month. We love eachother very much, and although we're virgins, many people, friends, our mums, have suddenly been pr...

He's nearly 14, I'm nearly 16, should I to wait until he's 16 too before we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

30 August 2009 (?) - My boyfriend is two years younger than me at 13 years old. In a few months I will be 16 and he will be 14 and a bit. He knows that I think it's important to be the legal age before you have sex and him being so much younger means that we've ne...

I love my girlfriend, but I cant stay faithful? How can I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - I have a women and I love her but I like having sex with other women. I want to get help for my promblem. What can i do? ...

If I masterbate am I still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Hi guys pls judge me. I have never make sex with any woman in my life. I think outside marriage sex is a sin but on many occasions I get attracted to porn pictures or scenes in movies. I helplessily find myself masterbating. Pls am I still a virgin ...

How do I know when she has an orgasm?

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30 August 2009 (M) - What are some good indications of a female orgasm? and im also a bit confused about their 'cum'. thanks...

Is there any way of making a threesome comfortable for all involved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - About a year ago I was with a girl, and one night we almost had a threesome with one of my best friends (male), that I wasn't particularly comfortable with. Just after we'd got things started off we were interrupted by a couple of friends having a ...

I love my husband but our sex life is dull! Can I really last a lifetime of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for just over a year and have been together since we were 16. We were each others firsts and used to really ennjoy sex. However, recently (past 4-5 months) I have found that our sex life is almost non existant. My ...

Our first attempt at sex was difficult...but is she still a virgin now or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Hello everyone I'm 21 and my girlfriend is going to turn 18 soon, we have been together for about 8 months now, I've never met such a wonderful girl that is open to talk about anything, yesterday we decided to "try" as we are both virgins, We ...

I didn't have sex with her because she was a virgin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - I started dating my ex when i was in year one in the University. We where so much in love. As time went on i became physically abusive but i didnt want to have sex with her partly because she was a virgin and i believed sex is not love. In my fourth ...

How do I know I"m not in the relationship just for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - hey guy simple question but might have a complicated answer. how do i know im not just in a relationship for sex? im a 17 year old male andim just wondering how i could know if im not just in a relationship subconsciously just for sex, i r...

She won't go to a hotel to have sex because she says its "dirty"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I have been dating my gf for close to 2yrs. The first six months we had great sex. However we stopped for a while since her mom started staying home and we had no place to have sex. We love each other very much and we often talk about ...

I love her but am no longer IN LOVE with her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I am no longer in love with my common-law wife. She had a one night stand with someone early in our relationship during an agreed 10 day "break", and also slept with her ex a couple of times. (Although, I must admit, she left that ex for...

Why did this happen and why did I taste like that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

30 August 2009 (?) - Heey. I'm 16 years of age. Yesterday my boyfriend (who's 17) and myself, had sex yesterday (doggy style)..now..after that we did the 69..i sucked him off as usual and he fingered and licked me out as usual...BUT! when he was fingering me...

Both were drunk and couldn't keep it going, was that being "whiskey drunk'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - ok so im an 18 yr old female, the last 2 guys ive had sex with, ive only slept with once each, with both guys in both situations we had been friends with a little bit more going on, both times the guys were drunk but i wasnt. both of them during ...

We had sex and now bumping into him is very awkward!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I recently and very unexpectedly had sex with a guy I had just met from the neighbourhood. I thought he was a half decent person and didn't expect much afterwards. However, I ended up getting much less. Initially it was decided that we would get ...

G/f likes to watch porn while having sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this woman(41, I'm 40) for several months now. She always wants to have a porn flick on when we make love and I really hate it! For one thing, it's a distraction! I want to focus on her, not what some bimbo is doing to the mai...

Sex, pregnancy, and itchiness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - okay so im now in a new relationship and well we have had sex twice.it was incredible not going to lie hes my second person to have sex with. And he and i looked at the condum and well i guess he came were not sure if it was pre cum or actually him ...

He keeps asking me what I like sexually and I don't know how to answer it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I'm dating a guy I really like, but he keeps asking a question I don't know how to answer. More than once, he has asked me what I like in bed, or what turns me on, and I really don't know. I've only slept with one guy besides the one I'm currently ...

I don't like it shaved!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - I am what I think is a straight male. I however, cannot get aroused over a shaved pussy. There is nothing more repulsive than to see a five oclock shadow, stubble or worse, pimples! Now that ALL women shave and as I believe, we as a society are ...

Why won't my boyfriend be intimate with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hi I need help with a very frustrating relationship problem I have. I've been with this guy for a little over a year now and at first he just seemed absolutly perfect, he was extremely nice, caring, fun, good looking, but now whenever I'm around him ...